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Leesi
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 155
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I think every relationship brings a different sexual appetite, and the stories we read about also influence what we may want to try. The one thing to always remember is that your partner may not be into your kink, and while partners always try please the other by going along, it usually doesn't end well, and there's a lot of resentment when they feel pushed into it. Respect is important in a relationship. It sounds like your previous relationship and this one are completely different and that's why you are feeling that pang of jealosy. I casually dated a couple of guys at the same time, and I could not care less what they what doing, however when I fell in love, it was different. I wanted that person to myself and was not willing to share. Good luck with your new girl.
But I would love some red wine 
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A+. phantom does something to me that very few works of art ever have.
i also really like joseph and the amazing technicolor dreamcoat, and little shop of horrors.
Imagine watching it while you were right in the middle of a breakup! Just saw it again two weeks ago, and talk about emotional
Never saw Joseph, but Little Shop of Horrors was good, but it's been forever since I saw it. 
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In all fairness my photos are just of my face and upper half and hides a multitude of sins, I'm not particularly tall and at my dress size I'm very overweight for the height I am. So yes I am a fat person, I can dress it up and call myself"curvaceous" but in reality I'm fat.
There is a difference between curvy and fat, and I'm not being mean about that. Kat Dennings, Kim Kardashian, Salma Hayek, Kate Upton, to me are curvy. I fall under that category. Melissa McCartney, Adele, Queen Latifah, Rebel Wilson are fat. My cousin has a thyroid problem and couple that with separation/divorce, her weight spiraled out of control. I've gained a few pounds from stress eating but now that I've come to terms with some things, it's back to the gym/swimming and cutting out those things I typically don't eat, but have been hitting hard! Food, for some people, is an addiction and is used to feel comfort, just like porn addiction, drug addictiong, drinking, etc. Unfortunately women always feel like they are never good enough and always want to measure up to other women who they think are perfect. I happen to love Kate Winslet's attitude about her shape, which I think is absolutely perfect, but she's been called fat. Simply ridiculous, but that's our society for you. I don't know much about your disorder, but I understand it must be stressful and I feel for you. I'm glad you've expressed your feelings about people thinking being heavy means being lazy and not taking care of yourself. That's not always the case.
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A smile will put anyone at ease right away and will make you more approachable. Perhaps people are misreading you. My sister was really pretty, but very shy and lacked confidence which made her come off as arrogant and turned people off. We all experience a bit of anxiety in social situations, but the best thing to do is make small talk, smile often, and keep sarcasm down a bit till the person has gotten to know you better.
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Met someone here and fell madly in love and that was not the intention when I first joined this site. What we experienced was love, lust, and desire unlike anything I've ever experienced. I have no regrets that we met and fell in love, but I regret how it ended and why it did.
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Big clue here..............there is also a work colleague who has caught my eye and we are always flirting but nothing can happen.. Have to say I'm a bit sad about that as I feel like I like him :/
Someone is paying attention to you and flirting with you which is making you feel good, and making you think about the grass on the other side of the fence. Communication is important in a relationship, and if you haven't sat down with him and talked about all the things you mentioned in your post, that's where you need to start. If there's no change after you talk, think about counseling, however, it will only help if you are both interested in working on your relationship.
Someone is paying attention to you and flirting with you which is making you feel good, and making you think about the grass on the other side of the fence. Communication is important in a relationship, and if you haven't sat down with him and talked about all the things you mentioned in your post, that's where you need to start. If there's no change after you talk, think about counseling, however, it will only help if you are both interested in working on your relationship.