Quote by solelover
In the begining my wife thought that my wanting to see her with another guy or having a MFM threesome was my way of opening the door for a FMF threesome or me being allowed to be with another woman. Once I convinced her that this was not the case and that I in fact had no desire to be with another woman she opened up a little to the idea but only in fantasyland.

Her biggest concern now, aside from her moral and conservative upbringing, is that she doesn't think I can handle watching her with another man.

For starters, I would recommend (a) some roleplaying,(b) letting her talk about her past and letting her see how much imagining her having sex with someone else arouses you, (c) enjoying erotic literature on the topic together, (d) avoid other women in your fantasies such as couples swapping wives, swinging, etc as this may make her believe its an excuse for you to mess around too, (d) control your emotions, particularly anger and jealousy as this is a clear indication that you won't be able to "handle it".

Good Luck

Quote by Freddyj
I love flirting in front of my husband! It's a huge turn on for both of us and leads to some very fun role play! We have never had a 3-some but I know he has fantasies of sharing me!

I would suggest being open with her about it and perhaps reading some erotica? Maybe write a story about her? That's what my hubby did and it really opened up our sex lives!