When I was twenty-two years old, I started thinking about guys. I found myself in gay chat rooms like “LongIslandM4M,” and stuff like that. The first thing I learned was that saying I was only twenty-two made me very popular. I liked the attention I was getting. Being only five-foot-five and an average-looking guy never really got me noticed. But just giving my age and location, everyone wanted to talk to me. The chats wo...