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Lisa
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Quote by Vanellus


OK, but what if I want to cheat, but keep the cheating online?


You seem like you're asking for permission to cheat. Your wife is the only one who can give that the okay, and if she does it's no longer cheating.

You just have to take the words "offline" and "online" out of the question to find your answer. Is it okay to carry on with another person when you're already involved in a relationship?
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I just started using chia seeds a couple of months ago after reading a bit about them. I sprinkle them on cereal and salads and use them in stir fries and cous cous, too. I haven't tried quinoa seeds yet, though.
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Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
I'm glad that despite all of the crap you put up with on a daily basis, you still think this place and we Lushies are worth your extensive efforts!


It was nice of you to post this. Thank you!
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Quote by Dark_Lord
Hey Ladies

Do you think a guy is Less of a man because he helps around the house by doing stuff like, doing the dishes, hanging up the washing, taking out the trash?

Because some of my males friends still believe the women's place is in the kitchen and he shouldnt be doing stuff like that.

Thanks


If a woman's place is in the kitchen, how's she supposed to hang out the washing and take out the trash? There's only so much work you can do in the kitchen! smile

I do most of the work around the house because I'm the one who's home most of the time. My husband helps out clearing the dishes after dinner and does a few other chores. I've never asked him to help or hinted at it, he just sees what needs to be done and does it. None of these things make a man less of a man. They just make life easier for everyone and when life's easier, people are more inclined to be happy.
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Congratulations to the winners and to everyone who took part. There were so many really well-written entries. You've all done well.
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I hide a packet of Tim Tams in the pantry that no one else knows about. (Double-coated chocolate biscuits.) It's my secret stash and I keep it all to myself.
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Unfortunately it's not waiting in the queue either. Did you remember to click "publish story" after you uploaded the text and checked it in the "preview" screen?
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Quote by Volition
Believe me, I've tried it all. I don't know what else to try. These guys talk down to her and call her fat and other nasty names. She just takes it and relishes in the fact that she "can't" things. Then again she never really puts the effort in and absolutely refuses to date guys lower than what she's used to. Believe me, she looks at guys like me as a 3 out of 10 on her hotness scale.


For every kind, supportive word you say to her she'll be telling herself a hundred negative ones. You can't compete with that.

We get the partners we think we deserve. She doesn't feel very good about herself so she's attracted to men who treat her badly because it confirms everything she believes about herself.

I think the best thing you can do is invite her to spend time with you, have conversations with her that don't revolve around men or relationships. I wouldn't point out her problems with men or try to change that part of her life. There's really not a lot you can do to help there. I'd concentrate on building on the positives instead of attempting to fix the negatives.

As others have mentioned, you're a good friend. It's great that you're trying to help her.
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Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
Has anyone else been criticized (and I use the term loosely in this case) because of something so trivial as your Lush Profile??


I've never received any criticism for my profile, but I also can't see why you did either. I like it when people take the time to fill out all of the different areas. It makes for more interesting reading.
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Wishing a very happy birthday to you! Hope you're having a fantastic weekend!
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I like decent, funny, intelligent, confident men who treat people in general well. Somewhere in between bad and nice means a more balanced personality in my opinion.
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I wasn't sure whether or not to click on this thread. "Scrubber" means skank where I'm from!

Vanilla's my favourite shower gel scent too, but I also use a pomegranate once that smells nice.
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Quote by WellMadeMale


Note on Lisa's profile page:

She's happily married and won't share her undergarments with any man, not even her husband. Vanilla!


I embrace my vanilla-ness!
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Quote by geetikasexy
IS IT OK WITH YOU LADIES IF YOUR MAN LOVES WEARING YOUR CLOTHES, MAKEUP, JEWELLERY AND OTHER FEMININE THINGS.


He's bigger than me so he'd ruin my clothes if he tried wearing them. I don't think I'd be okay with that!

Men wearing women's clothing just isn't something that appeals to me. I like being the girly one.
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Quote by Shylass


They are scams! Facebook does not offer that service integrally. The link either hijacks your account or takes you to a page that can infect your computer with viruses, etc. They often look like real Facebook pages, but contain links that will have you wishing you never bothered!

Gald to hear it, Nicola, thank you. I would be in danger of stalking myself just to check if I was being stalked.


Ah, I thought that might be the case! Thank you.

And I'd be likely to stalk myself, too.
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I voted "no".

I've seen posts on Facebook where friends use some kind of app to discover who's been visiting their profile. I don't know whether it actually works, but it seems to generate paranoia. I'd never use it myself.
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I like to try different categories too, but there are some I just know I won't do well, so I haven't attempted those!

So far I have the following:

First Time - 2
Oral Sex - 1
Love Stories - 1
Straight Sex - 4
Exhibitionism - 1
Masturbation - 2
Quickie Sex - 1
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Quote by jordansbritslut
Is it wrong to want this guy on Lush to violate me and fuck me? I would never have an affair because I love my hubby dearly, but I have these amazin thoughts of being unfaithful - just once!!! Is it wrong?


It's not wrong to have those kind of thoughts. It's only wrong to act on them if you know it will hurt your husband. He deserves the chance to do something about the situation before you make a decision on your own that affects both of you. If you're tempted to stray it generally means there's something missing in your marriage. You're not going to find out what that is by turning to another man. You're better off dealing with the problems you have rather than going out to find more. It'll only further complicate your life.
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