Your girlfriend was attracted enough to you that she wanted to be in a relationship with you. I doubt the breakup had anything to do with your looks. If you can attract one girl you can attract another one.
I think people change quite a bit during their twenties. I know I did. You grow up and sometimes start to want different things. Try not to take it personally. Just because one girl has chosen to move on it doesn't mean no girl will want to be with you.
Good question! It's not something I really thought about until recently. I write mainly because I enjoy it and I post my stories in the hope that others will enjoy them, too. My writing is more on the subtle side though and not overly sexy, so I wouldn't have thought readers did anything other than just read.
I post my work on an offsite blog as well as here and received a twelve page Word attachment via email recently from a man who'd read all of my stories and wanted to describe...uh...how he felt about them. In great detail. So that made me realise that maybe there are others who "enjoy" them that way, too. (I don't usually get those kind of emails.)
I'd be singing. I don't have to be alone to belt out a tune either, which is unfortunate for the other people who are in the car with me.
I like to read well-written stories and visit the forums.
I'm from the country, too. Kangaroos probably out-number people where I live.
Two people here know where I live and several other details about me. Lisa is my real first name but I don't use my real surname online. I once had a photo of my face posted in my image gallery but that lasted all of five minutes before I lost the nerve and deleted it! There are several people here I'd trust with more info about me, I just haven't shared much of it up until this point.
I think it's better to fall somewhere in between the two extremes. People often compare bad boys and nice guys, but the opposite of bad is good. Nice is something different and can sometimes come across as insincere if it's laid on too thick. Being the good guy is more honest and appealing, in my opinion.
If you treat women like queens and fall over yourself trying to please them (not saying you do this, just giving an example) there's a chance they might start to see you as beneath them or walk all over you.
I have an irrational fear of people dressed up in mascot or promotional costumes. As a teenager I was out shopping alone and minding my own business when a guy dressed up as a bowling skittle tried to hand me a flyer. I declined the offer (politely, too!) and he started to follow me. I walked faster and so did he. It got to the point where I was almost running through the shopping centre with a skittle chasing after me.
Now, as an adult, whenever I see the guy who dresses up in a chicken costume and stands on the street corner where I live, I have to cross to the other side of the road. (There's a joke in there somewhere.)
I like dialogue that comes across as natural and fits with the scene. I also prefer erotica where the sex scene is part of a bigger story that pulls me in and makes me want to know more about the characters. Emotion is good, too.
I have three on the go at the moment that I'm seriously trying to finish and another four floating around that aren't really going anywhere.
Reading. Lots of reading. I also like to bake, write and do gardening.
