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Lucia32003
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 48
United States
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I've been focusing on the wrong muscle when it comes to picking my men.
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Against a Wall getting pounded or riding a cock on the couch... using the back of the couch for leverage, good tricep workout too ;)
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For me it's more learning how to be vulnerable. I always thought of vulnerability as weakness, with the research I have started it seems the slave/sub has the most control out of the two. The sub sets the boundaries, the guidelines. So, being vulnerability can be strong, you can be completely open and still maintain control and strength.
Plus, I have a very demanding job and am forced to be in control of alot of things and people at once, so coming home and not having to be in control would be like a vacation for my thought processes.. I would know I'm pleasing and doing a good job, just by being obedient. It would take the insecurity off me, "am I doing what he likes?" "Is this the right way to move my body?" Guess work is gone, he's telling you directly what he likes and how he likes it.... I just get to enjoy doing it.
Plus, I have a very demanding job and am forced to be in control of alot of things and people at once, so coming home and not having to be in control would be like a vacation for my thought processes.. I would know I'm pleasing and doing a good job, just by being obedient. It would take the insecurity off me, "am I doing what he likes?" "Is this the right way to move my body?" Guess work is gone, he's telling you directly what he likes and how he likes it.... I just get to enjoy doing it.