It probably would be, however, we have tried various forms of swinging, even things we didn't think we would enjoy, such as cuck and hotwifing. Those did not work for us. We have found what does work for us and it is incredible. We no longer need advice from others that try to persuade us. We have been married for 23 years and have found what works for us. Anybody else is just a role player in our fantasy, for their enjoyment. If they happen to enjoy it as well, great. I personally have no lust for a black man, or really for any man other than Rick. I have seen some quite attractive, and some quite way less attractive, as with all men. If Rick decided he wanted me to incorporate a black man, for him, into our MFM sex, I would do so no questions asked. Pressure talk such as "don't know what you're missing until you try it" or other such things mean absolutely nothing to us. Might sound harsh, but truth can be harsh. People have tried to manipulate us before. e have found that in most of those instance's it was because they were jealous of what we have. So, If Rick wanted it, yes. He isn't a cuck, but, I am his slut. He can do with me what he wants.