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MarinaC
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 52
United States
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Wow. It's interesting that everyone has listed multiple times when there are some poor women out there who either haven't been able to or maybe can't with a partner. Fascinating. Obviously the women on this site are way more in tune with their bodies, thankfully! Reading some of these posts, makes me want to break my record!
I think I've gone 5-6 times with toys but not so many with a partner so skill is most definitely a factor.
I think I've gone 5-6 times with toys but not so many with a partner so skill is most definitely a factor.
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I agree with everyone who mentioned the safety factor being the first consideration. I'm going to have to assume that this woman is using some sort of birth control since the pull out method isn't that reliable. If I wasn't using birth control or he wasn't, then I wouldn't let him near me period. Now that the safety lecture is over ...
Definitely inside me. That's where it belongs!
Definitely inside me. That's where it belongs!
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There was a restaurant here called Italian Oven and they had a tiramisu that was to die for! Just the right consistency, soft and creamy, wonderful chocolate and coffee taste lingering on your tongue. I called it "orgasm on a plate". I was told the look on my face when eating it was obscene. They went out of business. 
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Quote by LusciousLola
In my case, the next door neighbor has a goofy smile every time he looks at me and is always knocking on my door for some silly question.
So that's how you become popular! If only I'd known the secret years ago. You have to let them watch! All that time wasted.
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Quote by anonymous1526
i actually dislike a 69er, i prefer concentrating on giving a man pleasure and then him giving me pleasure and me concentrating on orgasming as i am very hard to make orgasm
I totally agree. Tried it a couple of times but I could concentrate either so seemed like a waste.
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I have to agree with everything said above I think.
Uniforms, definitely
Dark suits are good too
The right tux, something classic like James would wear and not some of these weird modern takes on them
Jeans and no shirt
Leather bomber jackets
Aviator watches
To me, I like a little mystery so no speedos or anything like that.
Uniforms, definitely
Dark suits are good too
The right tux, something classic like James would wear and not some of these weird modern takes on them
Jeans and no shirt
Leather bomber jackets
Aviator watches
To me, I like a little mystery so no speedos or anything like that.
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I have the wand and it's not very sexy that's true but I really do like it, especially when combined with a few other toys. The only one that I've gotten that was useless was a lipstick vibrator. I thought I'd get something discrete for travel but it was way to tiny to have any impact so that was money wasted.
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I have PCOS too so I am soooo with you. The best thing I've found that helps is a lower carb diet. I tried like Weight Watchers and actually gained weight because I was eating more than normal when I used their points system. My doctor advised me to go on South Beach but I do prefer Atkins which he was fine with. I started back on low carb on Jan 1 (New Year's Resolution) and I'm down 16 lbs as of today (sorry I don't know how many stones that may be). I only started adding the walking back into my routine about a week ago so most of that was lost through diet alone. I walk 30 min a day on the treadmill and I try to drink green tea when I can. Make sure you are getting plenty of sleep and cut back on stress if you can. I had to quit my last job just to get away from the stress and that has helped. Good luck!
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Quote by lilgirl1414
Literally - when meant figuratively.
Reminds me of an episode of How I Met Your Mother when Ted keeps pointing that out.
My current pet peeve is when people, especially my boss says "it is what it is". It's such a cop out. When he says that he's saying "yeah it sucks and there is nothing I'm going to do about it."
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Could it be that your hormones are out of whack? If it lasts too long, I'd see a doctor just to be safe. And I agree with curvygalore that it could be stress or lack of sleep.
Otherwise, find some good erotica (like stories here) because the path to orgasm starts in the head. Then of course add the toys.
Otherwise, find some good erotica (like stories here) because the path to orgasm starts in the head. Then of course add the toys.
