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Heteroflexible Male, 66
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I apologize if this not the proper forum for this.

Lately, I have had a problem with the chat rooms. I get messages that I have lost connection, then re-connected. After that, no one's chat room posts appear until I post something. After I post, all the most recent posts appear all at once. I think I am not the only one with this this problem, as I have seen people posting merely a period, I do that now just to get the screen to update. I have noticed this only seems to happen once the room fills up. I have also had this happen in private chat.
OK, maybe not the best subject line, but couldn't come up with anything better. There was a post recently in a forum on another site that got me wondering.... The poster said he was having difficulty finding people in his own age group (18-25). Thee is a local TNG group, but even they tend to skew towards 30. Does (or did) anyone here start their lifestyle journey that young? I have a few theories. Maybe it takes some years of vanilla experience before people choose to explore their kink. Perhaps the fact that many munches/socials are held in bars (21+) discourages younger people. Maybe kink requires more privacy than the typical dorm, room-mates, or living with family allows. Just intrested in hearing from those who had similar issues.
Back in my security guard days, I was working at an advance screening of "The Notebook". We had a night-vision monocular to scan the audience for cameras. At the big, dramatic final scene, I saw a lot of guys who got dragged to a chick-flick trying to wipe away a tear discreetly.
I prefer to go with the flow of chat when choosing pics. I suspect my devices just don't have the computational oomph (that's the technical termsmile ) to handle chat and Tumblr at the same time. Oh, well- guess I have to stay home to get my Lush fixes. sad
LOVE chatting and sharing pics with the folks here! So easy to do from my desktop, but on my phone or tablet, it's an exercise in frustration. I prefer to cut and paste image URLs, but neither my browser nor the Tumblr app seem to offer that option. Any suggestions from the more tech-savvy among you, either here or in PM, would be appreciated.