In the real world, if someone is overly familiar too quickly - by that I mean getting too personal and into my personal space too soon; like keeping using my name (you know the way that salepersons will keep doing that?) Or if they keep touching me, like stroking my arm or shoulder before I've even got the chance to decide if I'm okay with that. Or if they stand too close to me, making me feel uncomfortable...
On Lush, I hate it if a friend keeps poking me (I know I've said that before elsewhere) but I mean, if I respond to your poke, then you can assume that I will then go ahead and talk to you, so, don't keep poke-poke-poking me - it's really annoying. It also annoys if I don't respond quickly enough for them and they poke me a half dozen more times in the interim - I'm usually set to either 'away', or I'm ghosting - that in itself should tell you that I might not be sitting constantly at my screen and able to chat - real life often interrupts and I shouldn't have to explain that... (more of a pet peeve really, but it would certainly turn me off immediately - oh and add in some txt spk and you've pretty much lost my attention there and then)
I agree with the ladies above who've said Lelo...
I have an Ina 2 and a Gigi 2 and I would definitely recommend them.
The Ina is great for g-spot and clit stimulation, with its wee arm (which you can also turn around, if you prefer anal play)
The Gigi is just a great vibe, internal or external stimulation, works just great.
I think they are both waterproof, although I've never tried them in the bath or shower.
Although they are expensive, they are very durable and powerful. I'd like to point out that my first Gigi got rather noisy and I got in touch with Lelo, who were very helpful and sorted me out with a new one. (They come with 1 year guarantee and a 10 year warranty too, so it's good to know when you're investing all that cash)
I don't support that particular charity, however, I will donate to the Yorkhill Family Bereavement Service instead... They were so wonderful when we lost our wee cousin a couple of years ago (she was only eight, it was just awful). I'll never forget how my Lush friends rallied around with good wishes and support too - Good bunch of people in this place.
A few of my family and friends are taking part in a run in Glasgow this weekend, to raise funds for the Yorkhill Family Bereavement Service... I wish them luck too...
Good luck Liz!
Harrumph, no one read my nonexistent comp entry either...
*stamps feet*
Because I'm on my phone a lot when I browse lush, I find that the black boxes, although sometimes annoying, work better than a chat window... On the iPhone at least...
Plus, at least with BBs, I can jump onto my computer too, without losing the person I'm talking to.
I love a bit of dirty talk, but as had been said, you can't just jump into that, well, I don't feel comfortable with that anyway...
If he knows me, he knows the right things to say and when...
Some random calling me 'baby' wouldn't do it for me, but in the right circumstances, it's perfect.
When you have a good connection, a well placed word or two can shock and titillate, in a very good way...
Mmm hmmm
Like some have said above, yes, black boxing can be cyber, throwaway, intimate, quirky, irreverent, sexy...
By it's very nature, it is a private chat between two lushies...
It could be an innocent chat, but just as easily a steamy sex session...
Well, I would be up for a little flirting, but it would have to be someone rather special...
Lush, or flush... I'm not sure...
(Yes, I will share with Mazz and Nikki)
