Basically Bethany and me are on the same wavelength.
We are a group of 3x3 FWB. None of us adopts a Sub or Dom role deliberately but there are times we know what our partner enjoys and we can be providing them with a pleasure that he/she enjoys when relaxed and allowing the partner to control the action.
If being on top is dom - then I am dominant often. If I am beneath him/her then I am enjoying the pleasure of our engagement as well as they are and will always endeavor to ensure we both achieve the desired reason for our intercourse. Whether it is oral or vaginal it is still equal. If he/she asks for a partnership then its equal just because we are doing it to please our partner does not mean we are being subservient - obliging perhaps.
We all have some form of scent - some more than others.
Dove soap is very good. I use it all the time to wash down there. It has no odour, is unscented, and has a hypoallergenic formula, Dove is perfect for sensitive skin.
Get her to change to cotton pants. They breath and absorb all the juices and minimize any scent. Never wear synthetic.
I have never used cider vinegar. It may work. Remember you will have the taste of it as well.
Never more than three.
Mostly its one or two.
As we are FWB group of 6 (3x3) it can and does happen.
We are all aware of each others habits and can safely say we dont have a problem as we cohabit only within the group.
Never would it be more than two previous guys he has to contend with, but he is aware of the situation and happy to proceed.
We are well aware of who has been with whom and there are no problems or concerns.
The girls generally prefer to go down on another girl after only one guy has left his calling card.
The shower gets a good workout if and when all six of us are together.
In a word - Definitely.
The subject can be anything to start with but it does become one track as things get warmer.
Chatting during sex can prolong it and make it better until as I say things become more "interesting".
We are not that clever when we are engaged having oral.
Regularly. There are no closed doors in out apartment and with a FWB group of six everything is in the open with whoever if there are more than two of around.
It hasnt happened for a while but .....
Cry mostly. Scream a bit and bash the table.
Then I calm down and probably masturbate, and wonder who will be my next conquest.
Life is too short to keep things on the boil for too long.
There are no secrets among us.
We are all aware of the good, the bad, and the ugly in our past.
Scratched and clawed during the passion by women only. The men are more demonstrative in other ways.
If you mean my female partner in our group - we have no inhibitions about having sex with any one of us male or female.
I would have a problem with the "DEMANDING" bit if it were me. It would have to be by mutual consent as far as I am concerned.
Only my guys in the FWB group now.I appreciate that they can share their feelings with us on their own and I quite enjoy watching them.
I have enjoyed it in the past - I enjoy anything sexual with male or female.
I am in a relationship with 5 others FWB - so I do fool around a lot.
If you mean outside the relationship - I would do more than fool around.
In my bad old days -10 in a gang bang.
Now its confined to three - all my FWB
Big enough to make living a dream.
Pics - Never - Only the privileged few get to even to see (and ????) it live.
The first time it happened it was a surprise (for both of us) but I didn't have a problem with it. We did it three more times that afternoon just to find out as much as we could.
I have never done a line up so I dont know my limit but I have handled three with no problem.
More than I wish to remember. But not for a few years.
Why? - The temptation was too much and they looked interesting and I thought we might enjoy it. Mostly we did.
I have realised I am not as sex crazy as many others and I still watch it occasionally.
Between my gf and me I would say it is fingered every day.
Masturbation - probably two or three times a week depending upon the mood and the desire.
This one has fantasied about many but not all women.
Fortunately fantasy turned to reality with me and now its look but dont touch - unless its my gf's.
In the doggy position I can and do enjoy the occasional slap (spank). Sex to me is for pleasure - not for pain, so a playful slap may be acceptable. The harder harder part certainly is a part of my pleasure I can call for but it is not the slapping. I dont mind having pink cheeks but not sore ones.
The "harder harder" part for me is when they have their teeth on my nipples - now that is something I really enjoy... and often beg for it to be harder.
Etiquette, I have never looked at sex from that point of view. Since forming our FWB group I realise now there is an unwritten etiquette about who does what to whom. Both my girlfriends and I have favorite male and female partners. If I (we) wish to begin or change to somebody other than our favorite I realise now that we usually ask if the other minds as we all share. We never care of course but it happens and I didn't realise that is an etiquette we didn't realise we practiced.
Then there is the ettiquette we all employ during sex and as we are well experienced with each other we know the good, better, best of what we enjoy individually and rarely engage in something that the other is uncomfortable with (if any).
Unlike Bethany I dont think I will have the opportunity to teach any more first time guys any form of etiquette, but it might be fun.
A very interesting question.
As we are not married - I gather what my FWB and I have all been doing for two years is an affair.
From my experience I would not try and convince anybody to try it.
Should they desire to go that way that is for them to decide without any encouragement or otherwise from me.
Not for many many years when I was concerned my mother would enjoy them too.
Now my bedroom table drawer is anything but secret. A repository of frequent excursions to the heavenly delights of self satisfaction both my girlfriend and I enjoy..
We have broken two tables in the kitchen and one coffee table in the lounge room.
Now we have a kitchen Island and a very strong coffee table and no further table shattering results despite many attempts.
This is not the first time you have considered leaving.
You know my opinion - as a deleted 'friend'.
If you have any doubts leave. Obviously with the views and comments a lot of people dont care. You can always return after you have decided you miss us or ?????
I am bisexual and my libido has become more regular rather than haphazard in my previous years. I live with my gf and we will never marry as neither of us will give anybody a commitment to remain faithful to one person.
Two years ago my gf and i agreed to live together - and we still do - and soon formed a FWB arrangement of four (2x2) which later expanded to six (3x3) when another couple known to us joined us. They wished to live together but share their sexuality with us having done so individually and enjoyed the experiences. Variety is a spice of life.
We have existed as FWB for over two years and we have a way of life we all agree is second to none. The guys dont live with us - thats the secret of our success.
We believe that we have the best of both worlds and can and do enjoy the relationships we have all have together, or alone, with either male and female in a way that we have enjoyed without fear or favor.
I cant see our "Mojo" changing now.