Etiquette, I have never looked at sex from that point of view. Since forming our FWB group I realise now there is an unwritten etiquette about who does what to whom. Both my girlfriends and I have favorite male and female partners. If I (we) wish to begin or change to somebody other than our favorite I realise now that we usually ask if the other minds as we all share. We never care of course but it happens and I didn't realise that is an etiquette we didn't realise we practiced.
Then there is the ettiquette we all employ during sex and as we are well experienced with each other we know the good, better, best of what we enjoy individually and rarely engage in something that the other is uncomfortable with (if any).
Unlike Bethany I dont think I will have the opportunity to teach any more first time guys any form of etiquette, but it might be fun.
A very interesting question.
As we are not married - I gather what my FWB and I have all been doing for two years is an affair.
From my experience I would not try and convince anybody to try it.
Should they desire to go that way that is for them to decide without any encouragement or otherwise from me.
Not for many many years when I was concerned my mother would enjoy them too.
Now my bedroom table drawer is anything but secret. A repository of frequent excursions to the heavenly delights of self satisfaction both my girlfriend and I enjoy..
We have broken two tables in the kitchen and one coffee table in the lounge room.
Now we have a kitchen Island and a very strong coffee table and no further table shattering results despite many attempts.
This is not the first time you have considered leaving.
You know my opinion - as a deleted 'friend'.
If you have any doubts leave. Obviously with the views and comments a lot of people dont care. You can always return after you have decided you miss us or ?????
I am bisexual and my libido has become more regular rather than haphazard in my previous years. I live with my gf and we will never marry as neither of us will give anybody a commitment to remain faithful to one person.
Two years ago my gf and i agreed to live together - and we still do - and soon formed a FWB arrangement of four (2x2) which later expanded to six (3x3) when another couple known to us joined us. They wished to live together but share their sexuality with us having done so individually and enjoyed the experiences. Variety is a spice of life.
We have existed as FWB for over two years and we have a way of life we all agree is second to none. The guys dont live with us - thats the secret of our success.
We believe that we have the best of both worlds and can and do enjoy the relationships we have all have together, or alone, with either male and female in a way that we have enjoyed without fear or favor.
I cant see our "Mojo" changing now.
Only for personal consumption - never for public release.
HYE refused sex because he wouldnt use a condom.
Orally - Sunday morning.
Sex - as above followed by a good threeway workout.
Masturbation.- Last Thursday.
Having traveled extensively I can say I have had many a foreign experience's mainly in Europe.
Ironically my best ever is my current lover, and I found her here in Aussie. The guys are not bad either - sex without ego.
If in doubt see her Gyno.
The only other explanation may be rough sex. That is the only time I have bled unnaturally.
I have been guilty of a random experience - usually somebody I met at a party. A rough and tumble in a bedroom and back to the party. I cant remember ever going home with him though.
At this time it is only memories. I more than happy with my current arrangements and would refuse any offer now.
I do it to enjoy it - four hours would be torture.
10-15 minutes would be average and probably only 10 if I experienced a multiple during that time..
Never engage in a relationship with a Politician, Car Salesman, Real estate salesperson.
I would be curious to compare my 2014 score with this - 2014 the original post which I never replied to.
1) What is the most number of times you have cyber fucked in a day either in a one-to-one chat or a chat room? Four.
2) If you fuck in a chat room, do you prefer a public room or a private room? I avoid chat rooms.
3) Do you have one-on-one sex, group sex or both? Both.
4) Do you indulge in activities you would not do in real life, or is cyber fucking just an extension of your regular sex life? Basically an extension of my usual routines.
5) Do you masturbate to orgasm whilst online or afterwards? Occasionally.
6) Have you moved on to , Messenger or some other format where you can watch each other masturbating? No.
7) Has cyber sex had an effect on your every day life, and if so what? Yes - I think of my friends often as I am aware of their habits. Some of my sex friends are overseas and we often have different sensations due to time differences.
8) If you have a regular partner in real life, do you think of cyber sex as cheating? Cheating only if they were unaware of the relationship. We are both fully aware. My partner and I both have cyber friends and it enhances our relationship. We have at times lived out a cyber experience together that we enjoyed on-line. That's interesting using the cyber partners name while engaging.
How old are you? OLD ENOUGH.
Car?YES
Pickup Truck?YES
Limousine?NO
Truck?YES
Delivery Truck?NO
Fire or Ambulance Vehicle?NO
Taxi Cab?YES
Police Car?NO
School Bus?NO
Rental Car?YES
Any Other Mode of Transport? AIRCRAFT
Where was the vehicle parked when you had sex in it? WHICH TIME ? -MY FIRST WAS OUTSIDE MY HOUSE.
Secluded parking lot? YES
Public parking lot?YES
Deserted back road?YES
At a drive-in theater?NO
In a garage?YES
In a driveway?NO
On the side of a roadway?YES
At a freeway rest stop?YES
Any other place not listed? YES - CAR FERRY. TRAFFIC JAM.
What have you done in a vehicle:YOU NAME IT I HAVE PROBABLY DONE IT
Masturbated?YES
Heavy petting?YES
Blowjob?YES
Fingered?YES
Handjob?YES
69?YES
Fucking? YES
Did you:
Get completely naked? MOSTLY
Left just a shirt on? RARELY
Left just socks on? OFTEN
Just removed underwear/panties? I ALWAYS WENT FURTHER THAN THAT
Where in the vehicle did you do it?
Front seat? YES
Back seat? MOSTLY
In the bed of a pickup? YES
On top of the hood? ORAL
On top of the trunk?DOGGY
On the roof of the car?NO
What positions have you tried in a vehicle? WHATEVER GOT RESULTS
Have you ever gotten caught by:
Cops? YES
Friends?YES
Parents?NO
Siblings?NO
Someone else not listed?YES - HIS PARENTS.
If you got caught did you:
Stop everything and leave? ONCE
Keep going at it? MOSTLY
Hide until they were gone? WHY
Get arrested?NO
Have your parents called?NO
Get seen while actually fucking?OFTEN
Get seen completely naked? MORE TIMES THAN I COULD COUNT
Did the vehicle you were in belong to:
You? YES
Your partner? YES
Parents? NO
Work? NO
A rental company? YES
Other?
After you were done did the vehicle:
Smell like sex, sweat and cum? YES
Have completely fogged up windows? YES
Had handprints on the windows? NOT HANDPRINTS - FOOTPRINTS
Not start or run out of gas? YES
Need significant cleaning? AT TIMES
Have you had sex in a vehicle to celebrate:
Birthday? YES
Anniversary? NO
Prom/Graduation? NO
Wedding? NO
Engagement? NO
Valentine's Day? NO
New Year's Eve? YES
Was your first sexual experience in a vehicle? NO.
Was there any particular vehicle that was the best to have sex in? TOYOTA LANDCRUISER
Do you always "christen" every new vehicle you buy? NO
Have you ever encountered other people having sex in a vehicle? YES
Have you ever given or received "road head"? YES
Have you ever masturbated and had a huge shuttering orgasm while driving? NO
When was the last time you had sex in a vehicle? PROBABLY 3 YEARS
Does the thought or memories of sex in a car make you horny even today? YES
Would you ever allow your teenage daughter to have a date at a drive-in? NO DRIVE-INS HERE NOW
Approximately how many times have you had some sort of sex in a vehicle? TO MANY TO REMEMBER.. 50?
Any exciting stories you'd like share? NOT ENOUGH SPACE. I COULD WRITE A BOOK.
I would never cheat unwillingly, always willingly.
It is a while since I stripped for a guy and watched him watch me, but I have done it often enough and always got the same result - a bone hard cock to admire and make use of myself. I was usually the one who got him naked first.
Yes I did appreciate the eyes and comments that followed my removal of each piece of clothing particularly my bra - second last and my pants - finally.
Then to feel his warm body against mine as we kissed determined who got to get the forbidden apple first. One had to make the move and I never cared who went first but I always ensured he enjoyed an oral experience to slow him down for the main event.
That way I got to enjoy the experience we had together and reach the same conclusion he did. Like Bethany I found that feeling him explore my cave of pleasure as he prepared to enter me and then share the sensation together soon had the drums beating a similar rhythm.
As for another woman, that is a completely different and even more erotic sensation. We always strip each other together piece by piece as we embrace before those magic moments begin.. THAT is living.
The guy had never cum before and it was a surprise to both of us - I was down on him and I got as big a surprise as he did - and a mouthful I wasnt expecting.
With a girl it was a few years later and she seduced me orally and when I returned the favor I became a confirmed bisexual immediately.
I haven't had a 'new' relationship for over two years.
I do have a past that I am not altogether proud of and I would have no idea of how many males or females I have shared a sexual interlude with. When I was asked I always admitted I had no idea.
My present group of FWB all realise we have all been rather promiscuous in our past. As we have been in a stable relationship for over two years, it doesn't bother any of us that we have a history as we are more than happy together.
Longest was 9 inches and I didn't like it. He made my cervix extremely sore.
The thickest was probably seven inches in circumference. After he got the 'boney' part it in there were folds of penis skin around my vagina entrance, it looked weird as it was all too soft and flabby to go in.
Neither paid for or been paid for sex.
That is not my style.
On one one night stand I found $100 in the bathroom after he had left. I felt disgusted and donated it to charity.
I realise it's the ask the guys Forum but no guy can provide the pleasure equal to one woman upon another.
Many are good but but few reach the amazing status.
It's a waste of time guys if you intend to contradict me - I have more than adequate experiences.
I work on the principle that practice makes perfect.
Another principle is ----LISTEN TO ME AND DO WHAT YOU ARE TOLD.
My experience was a few came too fast for me and I didn't orgasm. They had got what they wanted and generally left me to finish myself off manually. Rarely did they get a second opportunity.
Now I have a couple of FWB who can both maintain a session on and off for three or four hours if we are that interested. The rebound time is around the 10 to 15 minutes generally which is fine by me but with a bit of oral help they can be back into it within a few minutes if I am really that horny. Generally they can cum about four times in a couple of hours before they have to have a long break. I would say its 15 minutes on and 15 minutes off is reasonable.
I am lucky in that I can now cum fairly quickly and frequently have multiple orgasms during a normal session.
During foreplay. The arousal is always as good as the real thing.