I am 55, lovingly dominant, 30 years of Tantra, 25 of being appropriately worshipped as a dominant, always a teacher, protector and playmate of the chocolate experiences of life.

In the vanilla world I'm happily married, lots of amazing children. In the chocolate world I’m consistently (every second week) in Victoria, and I travel to Sydney regularly and to lots of places including NZ through the year.

I’m a Master and a Teacher. I am lovingly dominant, but wish to leave behind in every interaction insight, adventure and acceptance. I’ve been Mastering the worlds of Tantra and the Chocolate arts for the last three and half decades, so I feel qualified to Teach now.

For the most part I’m drawn to a woman that wants to learn, to have the dark corners of her mind probed, and the tightest parts of her body explored. I live in my private club in the city when I'm in residence which allows for much safe discrete playtime. I’m a willing Teacher of couples, in either the Tantric or BDSM world, and have a willingness to offer ‘apprentice moments’ to aspiring dominants. I will occasionally entertain a session with a submissive man if I can see the reason, or to benefit the learning or experience of a couple or playmate.

I move through life in tailored suits always complete with a bow tie. I carry a little more weight than I should because old strong rugby players who work hard never have quite enough time to excercise enough, and spend a little too much time doing business in establishments where fine wine & good food prevails.

If your interested say hi!

Merlin