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MissCarmelle
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Quote by Sirene_Jaune
Well a baby is designed to come out of a vagina so the average length of a baby is 20 inches or 51 cms. So the vagina is strong and capable to take a long penis.



A baby is held in your uterus, it passes through the cervix and vagina (vaginal canal where you have sex), babies don't stay in the vaginal cavity itself.

The average vagina is 3/4" relaxed and can stretch by another 3-4" which would mean that at most you could in theory take an 8" cock/toy.

Everyone is different, I've been with a black man who was 9" and was a stretch but managed to take him to the hilt, have been with a 5" guy who pleasured me too. It all varies and you don't always stretch as far aa you might be able.
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Great post. This was always in my mind since watching the movie Indecent Proposal.

The answer is OH YES I WOULD. I think It would be an overall great and unique experience. Agreeing on a price.. the feeling of giving myself to someone who has actually paid for it. I have had some unique experiences but it was mutual willingness and understanding of just enjoying that moment.. on one experience a guy just got a hand..but they were always just extremely trilled, no matter what they got.. there was never the pressure of giving the best, your whole self... but now we're talking about someone that has actually paid for it. Exciting, exciting and challenging.

How much? well it would depend on who he is! Thousands!
Would it be in my opinion "prostitution"? NO!
Unless I start to do it again and again for money and establish a code and a prize, which I simply would not do.
Enough answer?




Not trying to be controversial at all but if you have sex for money, even just once- it is akin to prostitution. It doesn't mean that you are a prostitute but when sex/money are exchanged, it is prostitution, no two ways about it.

There is a huge stigma attached to women in the adult industry, whether as pornographic models, actresses or escorts but at the end of the day, sex is sex and should be enjoyed. If you enjoy sex and get paid for it, great. If you have sex and don't enjoy it, wouldn't the £££ make it better? All jokes aside though, there's nothing wrong with it if everyone is consenting to the activities and is aware of what they are agreeing to.

I've known escorts, some of whom are the nicest women I've met and honestly would date an escort without issue. Sex is sex, Love is completely different and people do stereotype sex workers unfairly. We all sell ourselves in some way, whether in an office where we sell our mental services or if we literally accept payment for sex, personally I don't think there's an issue with it.

For the record, I understand why you might say that it isn't prostitution if it's a one time thing but honestly, one you've been paid for sex, you have prostituted- even if you never do it again.

I'm Pro- Sex Worker Rights and think discrimination against people in the Adult Industry should end, if anybody wants to ask a question, feel free.
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Rough sex is good when you're in the mood for it- having your lover take you hard, smack your ass, pull your hair, some biting and pinching also or choking and even face slapping, can be very erotic. You have to trust them though and be in the mood for that otherwise it may not be to your liking.

Personally, I loved my bf spanking me and being dominant. It's passionate and raw rather than tender, there is time for both.
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Hitch- Will Smith is my favourite and have watched the DVD more times than I can remember! Also, Bridget Jones and The Proposal.
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My very first was a gift, its replacement however was bought by my purse in my local sex shop. Although I felt incredibly nervous at first, I'm now a regular customer and my collection has grown...
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Some stubble can be sexy if the guy looks good with it otherwise can look scruffy. A 'designer' beard which looks good and suits the guy is handsome, manly but if it's badly kept then it is a turn off. Clean shaven avoids any hassle but can look boyish- guess we can just be fussy!

On one note, when having my neck kissed by a bearded lover, it tickles in a good way (unless scratchy in which case razor please!) but when receiving an 'Aussie kiss' the tickle on your thighs is sexual marmite.


No Yeti, more sexy.
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Yup nude doll when able- in the warmer weather definitely. In cooler weather then undies.
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Having made a new friend on the international flight I took yesterday, a promising week ahead and the steak dinner planned for tomorrow!
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Having made a new friend on the international flight I took yesterday, a promising week ahead and the steak dinner planned for tomorrow!
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I like matching sets and usually buy sets although I mix them around, there's something nice about having the full 'look' but annoying when knickers are in the wash but you want to wear the bra! #lingerieproblems
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Could give a lot of answers but the most amusingly girlie one that cums to mind is a mascara tube- a thick Avon one makes for a petite DIY dildo when your favourite toy isn't available (and easy to clean off!)
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Prefer stockings or hold ups, find tights too restrictive- crotchless are fine mind you but prefer stockings overall as I like suspender belts, hold ups are good too but it makes little difference
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I remember the first time I gave head- it was new and while it was fine, his spunk was like paint stripper! Hence spit though I am happy with other methods of cum disposal ... Since then I've enjoyed sucking cock and look forward to going down on a lady.
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Heck yeah! How else do I clean off my/their fingers and/or toy/cock? A kiss after receiving oral is erotic though some people may opt out I don't see any reason why? Then again, it depends on the person but pussy is pussy- lick up that cream!
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I wanted to try it as I was curious and liked the other forms of anal play so it was natural progression within a week! Lube and relaxed muscle allowed an enjoyable first experience.

As advice, try reverse cowgirl with you lowering down-allows easier penetration and you are in control. Also push against the item-be it cock/dildo/finger and you open up to take it in. I didn't find my anal cherry painful but if you aren't relaxed then yes it can hurt like heck-cherry or not- and may put you off.

Also, try a toy first to get used to the size-approximate anyhow!
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I love 'bouncing buddhas' but doesn't "bee stings" insinuate that they're small? I'd find that a bit of a turn off but "betty boops" is salacious...

So many names eh ladies? No wonder men love our sweater-meat...

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Here is just a small list of names that I don't mind. These are just the B's, there is still a whole alphabet to go. LOL

Babaloos
Baby Pillows
Balboas
Balloons
Bambi's Thumpers
Bangers
Bangles
Bassoons
Baubles
Bazongas
Bazookas
Bazoombas
Bazooms
Beacons
Beanbags
Bebops
Bee Stings
Begonias
Betty Boops
Big Boppers
Big Brown Eyes
Bikini Stuffers
Billibongs
Blinkers
Bombers
Bombshells
Bonbons
Bongos
Bonkers
Boobers
Boobies
Boobs
Boops
Bops
Bosom
Boulders
Bouncers
Bouncing Buddhas
Bra Buddies
Bra Busters
Bra Stuffers
Bronskis
Bubbas
Bubbies
Buds
Bulbs
Bulges
Bullets
Bumpers
Bumps
Bust
Busters
Busties
Butter Bags
Butterballs
Buttons
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Tits= playful/sexy but not crude, boobs= just standard usage and a fun word to be fair, breasts= only if I'm being more polite...

Recent favourite is "mangoes" take that as you will man-goes...bananas for them? Euphemisms are more fun!
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As I can't delete this now I've realised this is the blokes section, I'll just comment that a daring guy is exciting but don't get arrested for exposure!
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Removing any of the senses just heightens those remaining, having the lights off is the same as a blindfold- when you can't see, you focus on the other senses and what you can feel. For some, having the lights off might help confidence as well, as you can just enjoy everything without worrying about appearance but equally having the lights on allows the visual side of things to be more enjoyable. Up to the individual but mixing it up is preferable- lights off at night otherwise let's watch things unfold...
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Seduction Style- "Fantasy Lover"


You know that ideal love that each of us dreams of from childhood? That's you!Not because you possess all of the ideal characteristics, but because you are a savvy shape shifter.You have the uncanny ability to detect someone's particular fantasy... and make it you.You inspire each person to be idealistic and passionate, and you make each moment memorable.Even a simple coffee date with you can be the most romantic moment of someone's life.By giving your date exactly what he or she desires, you quickly become the ideal lover.Your abilities to make dreams come true is strong. So strong that you are often the love of many people's lives.Your ex's (and even people you have simply met or been friends with) long to be yours.No doubt you are the one others have dreamed of... your biggest challenge is finding *your* dream lover.
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I would agree that considering you've met on a sex site, there is definitely an element of lust involved-you're both sexual people. But as someone who has met someone special on Lush, while you may add them because you find their profile attractive (photo or not), you only get on once you speak and have things in common. I've made some good friends on this site but also have found love, yes we have lust for eachother but we have a relationship outside of the site. Thanks to Lush-and his handsome photo, we've got a chance for more than an orgasm.

It doesn't work for everyone but it can work if you meet the right person and want to have a relationship.
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I dont understand, why play the shy card? The shy card is a real turn off for me. Please be a lady and treat me like a man, a man that works hard and enjoys a woman who plays hard without the guessing game. Just tell me straight out what you like.


I don't agree with being shy in the bedroom- if you go to bed with a partner then ideally you should feel confident and comfortable with them. Sure people have insecurities but that extra pound you want to lose or the shyness to receive oral due to an ex asshole whining about it, doesn't need to determine your enjoyment of sex now. If you're in a relationship, it shouldn't be a lasting problem and if it's casual/NSA/one night stand then go for what you want! There's no point in having sex you think you "ought" to have unless you enjoy it. So if that person doesn't please you, take control and have someone who does share pleasure and give pleasure to you. OWN your body rather than define your sexuality by what others like- if you are confident then that IS sexy.

That said, some people are shy to do certain things, you don't need to be but I think the issue with rimming for some people is, "Will I look/taste/smell/feel good down there?" Some men/women will be worried about that in the same way as they might worry about their pubes/body image anyway. Shyness can hinder enjoyment but at the end of the day, no one really expects a vagina/cock/ass to taste of roses- I would be disappointed if they did.

Sex is sex- enjoy it as it is without being prissy or reserved, if you don't enjoy something fine but honestly, unless you try something, how will you ever experience anything that you may enjoy?

Shyness can be overcome-with confidence or love or just being ballsy, whichever it is, enjoy and own your sexuality.
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There are a lot of things which can arouse me but the top ten which come to mind are:
1) cologne, not all the time but sometimes a nice cologne will make me come close,
2) well groomed and well dressed individuals, of either gender- pride in appearance is attractive,
3) accents: I have a weakness for some softer, husky American, Aussie/Kiwi, Scottish and an eloquent British tone...
4) A tall, broad shouldered manly-man, i.e a rugby player build or else just oozing testosterone= hot
5) Women wearing stilettos in classy dress and nice hosiery (tasteful fishnets not hooker-style)
6) Some dirty talk will get a flutter going
7) Tattoos- specifically well done ones, Maori tribal being a favourite but vary on the person
8) Confidence and charisma, manners are essential
9) Someone who knows what they want and are happy to experiment in it, open minded with some hedonism
10) Well what turns me on the most is knowing someone wants me as much as I want them