Yup, twice. The first time was a married woman at work. After a year and a half of drooling over her i finally told her how I feel. She was super sweet, very flattered, wanted to think about it. Then she let me know, on voice mail, that she wasn't going to leave her husband. I made two career changes because of her; one to be near her, another one to get away because I thought that would help lessen the feelings. It didn't.
This was 25 years ago. We're still friends, have lunch 2-3 times a year. I got over her, eventually. Took years. Now she's just a wonderful friend to me.
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