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MorePleasin
7 hours ago
Straight Male, 67
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Variety in grip and movement is good. Lube is not necessary if you know how to apply the right grip. With lube, it is generally better to go slow...but then I am a big fan of edging. A lot of intense pumping and getting tired is hardly necessary if you learn about the sensitivity and power of the frenulum. Once he is close, little light circling tip of the tongue, or a little motion of finger and thumb wrapped around just below the head when he is really ready to pop, will make it very easy to keep him there on edge. You won't get your arm tired or really require much lube (though I bet his pre-cum will be flowing).

If you really are feeling you cannot be vigorously stroking to get him started, or you have limited time, then ask him to get things started for you by his own hand. He might get off on watching you watching him, his hand stroking fast and hard.

If you can, take your time for handjobs please! Tease to the edge, but not over, repeatedly. Enjoy the power and control you have over his pleasure, by watching carefully his reactions, and try to get him as close as possible to cumming without cumming. You can be vigorous to begin with, to get him near to the point of no return...but then slow it down ...keep him there.. Consider using five big strokes and then pause....then another five strokes... and pause. If he is getting overheated, then hands off for a little, and let him throb in mid-air for a little beforoe you gently reintroduce your hand. The orgasm you create for him will be way more intense!

If you are not that happy with giving blowjobs, he will not care much about that if you can master handjobs. Never think of them as just a beginning to the inevitable blowjob; keep your man on edge, and he cannot (or should not) complain.

I would suggest not letting up on speed or intensity when your guy goes beyond the point of no return, and cumming is inevitable. Even increase the intensity through his orgasm, until he is totally satisfied. If you're real good, he may stay hard after cumming. You might be surprised how hard and long he will cum, like a dozen ejaculatory pulses or more, if you keep stroking him while he is cumming. Do it until he is obviously totally drained, softening significantly, or begging you to stop smile

I believe guys can be multi-orgasmic that way... or at least that is my experience ;)
No, and No.

Big breasts have never really appealed to me much. Smaller tend to be firmer and nicer, by far.

A big ass often comes with big other things (see above) and again, does not really appeal to me. Being model thin is also not appealing.

Generally I favour someone who is petite and well-proportioned and who has an attractive face, eyes, lips, and hair. First impressions are based on things above the shoulders, especially including her intelligence and personality.
Skeaking on behalf of my wife, who lets me play with them, “Oh god.... yes...yes....Yes... YES!!..”
yes its a stretch, but think about it! [And if you come up with something better, I will accept deletion]

Orange panties
Has anyone looked into implementing WebP formatted content posting in the Chat Rooms?
Great topic!

Yes, I have discovered my wife's n toys on occasion. I have also held one for ransom, having also conveniently put dead batteries in the other one, to make sure she might care to want it back.

She of course knows enough to demand that I prove to her I have not broken it.
Bria is SUPER naughty! And that also makes her super special, and most welcome on this site.
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I'm probably showing my age. I went through puberty in the late 1970s, loving my dad's Playboys. Bushy all the way.


I've been around long enough to see and experience it all. No great surprise, it is all good!
It is the best. No competition there. I could do it for hours. As good as, or better than, intercourse.

Why? Because she can cum many many times!
After an employee golf tournament. On the hood, and in the back seat on a quiet country road.
This should be a topic that all can respond to, not just "ask the gals."

It's a secret from my wife, though I believe that she would likely come around if she were to find out. I believe she has normal longings and erotic thoughts and fantasies, some of which she has shared with me. Back before the days of online access to just about anything, she enjoyed erotic stories in print publications like novels and Penthouse Letters, so I think she waould like a lot of what Lush has to offer.

She might feel a bit "betrayed" that I had not mentioned it to her sooner, but I would greatly encourage her to join in on the fun.
Rating my own skill is like a business writing its own glowing online review.

Don't ask the service provider, ask the ones serviced.

I am certainly ready and available to be evaluated by as many critics as would be interested. I would love to provide as accurate a reading as I possibly can. Evidence-based evaluation is obviously the best way to determine the value, and greater accuracy would be assured using a greater sample size.
Absolutely a must. Great way to get everyone interested and excited. A quite desirable thing on its own.
None.

I am OK with not having half of Lush as a friend. Real friends number on the fingers of one hand.
At first, I sought a better site for publishing a few stories I had already written. I had tried another site that is fairly famous, but I was not having much luck there getting my stories reviewed and posted. In contrast, the people here have been very friendly and helpful from Day 1

I also started to also enjoy the forums, then the chat rooms, and eventually the private chat that allowed me to enjoy interactions with a few select friends. And, it was overall a lot easier to customize my profile, and post a few albums to it. I think having a gold membership has been worth every penny!
I do not get noticed much, unless I do something out of the ordinary.

A wise man at my workplace once said "At 45, you turn invisible".

He was probably referring to career advancement possibilities, but surprisingly, that saying applies to other things, like picking up young women (i.e. under 30)
Sure, I'd definitely go head to head with Ana.

I hope she considers a trip to Canada instead of the U.S. where she will find us Canadians very friendly and accommodating.
I would love to understand more about why some men (and some women) do NOT like it. I have always loved it, ever since I convinced my high school GF to give it a try. (We were 18, so I think I can talk about this on Lush)

It was a "first time" for both of us, and at the time I was technically a virgin (yes, really, at 18). I have to admit, I was a little apprehensive, and she was too. But what got me most interested was of course fingering my GF, and finding her wetness intensely pleasant smelling, and also good tasting. It took a bit of convincing her that I was really interested in trying oral.

We were in her basement, and the rest of her family had gone upstairs, late one night when we were watching some crappy late-night movie. We got to feeling each other up, and I started making it clear that I loved taking my fingers, wet with her sex, in my mouth to taste her.

She seemed a bit grossed out at first, and even said she might not want to kiss me anymore. But I said "OK, if I do kiss you down there, you do not have to kiss my mouth anymore tonight... but I really want to kiss you down there! I want to really taste you, and I think you will really like it too."

Reluctantly, she agreed. I am sure I did not have the best technique, since it was all totally new to me. But very soon, she was absolutely loving it . I had to stop on occasion because she was being a little too noisy. I did make her cum, eventually! She was very surprised by how great it felt, and even said it was better than sex with her immediate past BF that took her virginity.

It's too bad her parents figured out something was going on in their basement that night. As she was the oldest child, she of course got a lot of resistance from her parents, not used to their daughters dating. I was banned from being alone with her in her own home. We could only be together "in public". We dated only for another month, and we never did get to repeat the act before we broke up. I broke it off, because unfortunately, her parents were being a royal pain.

I have definitely been addicted to oral ever since.
A girlfriend would insist on swallowing every last drop, if I came while in her mouth. She thought any woman that would not swallow was "chicken", but honestly, it never mattered to me either way. I got a lot of handjobs too, because she excelled at edging and teasing, and she did not seem to mind if I made a huge mess, unless I happened to hit her eyes (It stings).

Another GF was not really into giving oral much, but again, not a problem as she absolutely loved being eaten, and long fuck sessions.

My wife used to every time before marriage, but does not do so currently.

Oh, the good old days....