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Quote by Eve

In the sex cinema with five guys, three came in my mouth and two in my pussy.

That cinema would get my business!

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I find the political gymnastics to avoid the obvious solutions quite fascinating. The root cause of the problem appears to be poor education, either on safe gun handling, or on critical thinking that would enable one to see that gun injuries and deaths are way higher in the US than practically everywhere else in the world. Kids are scared shitless, and it is damaging them for life.

It's easy enough to google this: "Guns are the leading cause of death for US children and teens, since surpassing car accidents in 2020. Firearms accounted for nearly 19% of childhood deaths (ages 1-18) in 2021, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention Wonder database. Nearly 3,600 children died in gun-related incidents that year."

So, whatever is being done now, it ain't working.

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There something extremely intimate and rewarding about performing good oral on a woman. But there are also a few challenges.

Sadly there are selfish men out there that do not put in the effort, or that implicitly or explicitly demand reciprocation. Or, perhaps a woman was raised to believe that its "dirty" and forbidden.

Some women deprived of the pleasure have reported having their first really good orgasm, ever, from good oral - this despite her being in her twenties or older, already being a non-virgin, and even married for years. I live for such accomplishments.

A man should be willing to treat the experience as the extremely intimate and special thing he is being permitted to do. He should endeavour to always learn how he can improve, by always being aware of how she is feeling and reacting to his touch, so he can adapt. One can never get enough practice, and every woman is different. But that is what makes it so very pleasurable, discovering what excites her the most, typically even more than intercourse.

Honestly, a woman should insist on nothing less from a man going down on her, because there are plenty of men out there that are very keen to perform. If he's not into it, or not that good at it, he's not the guy you want.

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Sorry to see these features are now gone:

- favourite stories

- authors to follow

- reading queue

- ability to pause/continue chat

- announcement of friends that log in

- announcement of when a person arrives or leaves room

There seems to be a diminished focus on stories, and more of a slant towards hook-up/chat, including the "whole world" in the lounge, versus rooms with more limited capacity, in which pics are not flying by before they even have time to properly load and display.  

Perhaps a name change, from "Lushstories" to "LushChat", would be more representative of the current focus.

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I honestly believe that edging makes it possible for me to be multi-orgasmic.  I feel like I am cumming once, and if the stimulation continues, again in about 5-10 seconds, and maybe sometimes a third time in another 5-10 seconds.  While it may not result in additional ejaculate to cum more than once, it does have the intense feeling of repeated climaxes, so who cares if there is ejaculate?  

Needless to say, the feeling is great, both getting there and finishing.  If your partner is  conscientious giver, and can can learn the signs and take you to the edge, repeated times, you have found a sex god(dess) and you have been given a rare gift.  They will take great delight in teasing the shit out of you, knowing it will greatly intensify your climax! Treat that partner with the utmost respect, because you may never find someone better suited to giving you such intense pleasure. 

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Variety in grip and movement is good. Lube is not necessary if you know how to apply the right grip. With lube, it is generally better to go slow...but then I am a big fan of edging. A lot of intense pumping and getting tired is hardly necessary if you learn about the sensitivity and power of the frenulum. Once he is close, little light circling tip of the tongue, or a little motion of finger and thumb wrapped around just below the head when he is really ready to pop, will make it very easy to keep him there on edge. You won't get your arm tired or really require much lube (though I bet his pre-cum will be flowing).

If you really are feeling you cannot be vigorously stroking to get him started, or you have limited time, then ask him to get things started for you by his own hand. He might get off on watching you watching him, his hand stroking fast and hard.

If you can, take your time for handjobs please! Tease to the edge, but not over, repeatedly. Enjoy the power and control you have over his pleasure, by watching carefully his reactions, and try to get him as close as possible to cumming without cumming. You can be vigorous to begin with, to get him near to the point of no return...but then slow it down ...keep him there.. Consider using five big strokes and then pause....then another five strokes... and pause. If he is getting overheated, then hands off for a little, and let him throb in mid-air for a little beforoe you gently reintroduce your hand. The orgasm you create for him will be way more intense!

If you are not that happy with giving blowjobs, he will not care much about that if you can master handjobs. Never think of them as just a beginning to the inevitable blowjob; keep your man on edge, and he cannot (or should not) complain.

I would suggest not letting up on speed or intensity when your guy goes beyond the point of no return, and cumming is inevitable. Even increase the intensity through his orgasm, until he is totally satisfied. If you're real good, he may stay hard after cumming. You might be surprised how hard and long he will cum, like a dozen ejaculatory pulses or more, if you keep stroking him while he is cumming. Do it until he is obviously totally drained, softening significantly, or begging you to stop smile

I believe guys can be multi-orgasmic that way... or at least that is my experience ;)
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No, and No.

Big breasts have never really appealed to me much. Smaller tend to be firmer and nicer, by far.

A big ass often comes with big other things (see above) and again, does not really appeal to me. Being model thin is also not appealing.

Generally I favour someone who is petite and well-proportioned and who has an attractive face, eyes, lips, and hair. First impressions are based on things above the shoulders, especially including her intelligence and personality.
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Skeaking on behalf of my wife, who lets me play with them, “Oh god.... yes...yes....Yes... YES!!..”
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yes its a stretch, but think about it! [And if you come up with something better, I will accept deletion]

Orange panties
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Has anyone looked into implementing WebP formatted content posting in the Chat Rooms?
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Great topic!

Yes, I have discovered my wife's n toys on occasion. I have also held one for ransom, having also conveniently put dead batteries in the other one, to make sure she might care to want it back.

She of course knows enough to demand that I prove to her I have not broken it.
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Bria is SUPER naughty! And that also makes her super special, and most welcome on this site.
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Quote by ChrisPowell68
I'm probably showing my age. I went through puberty in the late 1970s, loving my dad's Playboys. Bushy all the way.


I've been around long enough to see and experience it all. No great surprise, it is all good!
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It is the best. No competition there. I could do it for hours. As good as, or better than, intercourse.

Why? Because she can cum many many times!
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After an employee golf tournament. On the hood, and in the back seat on a quiet country road.
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This should be a topic that all can respond to, not just "ask the gals."

It's a secret from my wife, though I believe that she would likely come around if she were to find out. I believe she has normal longings and erotic thoughts and fantasies, some of which she has shared with me. Back before the days of online access to just about anything, she enjoyed erotic stories in print publications like novels and Penthouse Letters, so I think she waould like a lot of what Lush has to offer.

She might feel a bit "betrayed" that I had not mentioned it to her sooner, but I would greatly encourage her to join in on the fun.
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Rating my own skill is like a business writing its own glowing online review.

Don't ask the service provider, ask the ones serviced.

I am certainly ready and available to be evaluated by as many critics as would be interested. I would love to provide as accurate a reading as I possibly can. Evidence-based evaluation is obviously the best way to determine the value, and greater accuracy would be assured using a greater sample size.
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Absolutely a must. Great way to get everyone interested and excited. A quite desirable thing on its own.
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None.

I am OK with not having half of Lush as a friend. Real friends number on the fingers of one hand.