My lovely wife & I have been together for 12 years. Married for 4.

We are both extroverts & outrageous flirts. While we have maintained our monogamy, we know who we are. Therefore, we indulge our minds in separate groups/apps. We both had many experiences before we met. We even dipped our toes in the lifestyle last year. We have mutually decided that, for now, some things are best left to fantasy.

I really enjoy the literotica. I enjoy the great writing and the theater of the mind. Chat is very titillating. However, I'm cautious. I have come to a place in my journey on Lush where I prefer to chat with verified members. If you're new to Lush? Welcome! But be prepared to prove to me that you're not AI or a Bot. I only chat on this platform. Please respect this. I do not go to other sites.

I am open to friendships. Even some salacious play. However, please know that I am not looking for a relationship. I have a fabulous one. She & I have agreed to boundaries. We will not share pictures of ourselves or each other.

Hopefully, you've made it this far. If you have? I hope you will be respectful, as I will be with you.

I look forward to chating with you.

== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==

100% Switch

99% Voyeur

90% Experimentalist

81% Dominant

73% Rigger

69% Brat tamer

68% Non-monogamist

64% Exhibitionist

61% Master/Mistress

60% Sadist

59% Submissive

56% Daddy/Mommy

53% Vanilla

53% Owner

52% Primal (Hunter)

51% Ageplayer

50% Masochist

50% Rope bunny

36% Degrader

35% Brat

31% Primal (Prey)

10% Slave

10% Pet

5% Degradee

0% Little