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MrLosAngeles
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 41
United States
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Close-ups of genitals posted as "foreplay" by "friends" on profiles (I don't want to see them everyday on my profile page)
Straight guys posing as lesbians or bi-females to chum the water for stroke fantasies
Straight guys posing as lesbians or bi-females to chum the water for stroke fantasies
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How at a distance
The scent of honey is ripe
To guide the hungry
The scent of honey is ripe
To guide the hungry
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Without even an introduction she sent a PM saying: "You're a DOM, aren't you? I could tell. I like to be beaten really hard with a whip or a stick."
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She's a fan of Jessica Rabbit..and probably knows how to play patty cake ;)
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Once flashed the Popemobile and hoped he'd throw her some beads (Mardi Gras)
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Sad to see people still have that condemning attitude. Sounds too much like...
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Maybe fuck, after we've read some thrillers to each other..and spent time...
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Some people will bitch and moan about anything, penis size is just another thing they do it about. It's what you've got, live with it. You might as well be concerned about the size of your eyes being too small.
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Quote by sprite
my advice. don't go from one extreme to the next. talk to him about Role play first. don't just think you can go from being a 'normal' couple into having a 24/7 D/s relationship. when my wife and i got together (almost exactly 5 years ago) the bdsm was a large part of our bed room play. we had 'date nights' usually twice a week when the full on hard core kink came out and the rest of the time it was what i would call soft D/s: she is naturally Dominant, and i am a natural submissive - most of our daily life reflects that. that said, i do not refer to her as my Mistress (although i DO refer to her as Ms Kate depending on the situation), neither of us considers me a slave, although i can be pet, once again, mood and situation. sex is sometimes full of cuffs and crops and clamps and rope, and sometimes it's just two girls making love and usually, it's somewhere in the middle of all that.
while i respect people who have chosen to live it as a lifestyle 24/7 i could not do that, not would my wife wish to. we still have date nights, tho, and we still have a toy drawer filled with bdsm toys that get regular use. i think that, you'd be best served by doing just that - have a date night, if it goes well, if you're both into it, make it a regular thing, at least for now.
Very well said and damn good advice!
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Used to be in quality control for Fleshlight manufacturing. Most common critique "Damn, I busted another one."
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Any lady with enough taste and experience to be a connoiseur of cocks is a fine woman.
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There is no "better". They can all be very good or not. Mind you, a safe sex footjob where she wears those heavy wool socks and give you rug burn, I hear.
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I sense a lot of confusion going on. I look at it this way: Kinky includes generally non-vanilla sexual behavior/acts usually restricted to the "bedroom" (i.e. just sex). D/s is a relationship in which one is dominant and the other submissive. BDSM is an umbrella term including but not limited to Bondage/Discipline/Domination/Submission/Sadism/Masochism and/or S/m, Slave-Master.
Kinky is fun and games, toys, "accoutrements", role-play, etc.
D/s is a lifestyle choice which brings together a person whose personality is naturally dominating/leading and another person whose personality is submissive/yielding. This is also sometimes described as Top and Bottom.
In my opinion, it is unlikely that someone with a submissive personality can naturally "become" a top or dominant; vice versa for a dominant personality to be submissive. There is also the "category" of a switch, someone who can be either top or bottom/dominant or submissive.
Generally speaking, I think most people are "content" with kinky and switching.
If you want your husband/wife to be more Top or Bottom, that is more "assertive" or initiating sex - or more yielding, accepting, then you have to live and behave in ways that allow them to be that way. You can't really say, "I want you to be more passionate, hardline, aggressive sexually" and then turn around and keep telling them "Not now!" "I don't feel like it" etc. without turning them right off again. Unfortunately, a LOT of people act out as passive-aggressives. The old "C'mere, c'mere" "Go 'way, go 'way" and then wonder why their sex lives are messed up.
Kinky is fun and games, toys, "accoutrements", role-play, etc.
D/s is a lifestyle choice which brings together a person whose personality is naturally dominating/leading and another person whose personality is submissive/yielding. This is also sometimes described as Top and Bottom.
In my opinion, it is unlikely that someone with a submissive personality can naturally "become" a top or dominant; vice versa for a dominant personality to be submissive. There is also the "category" of a switch, someone who can be either top or bottom/dominant or submissive.
Generally speaking, I think most people are "content" with kinky and switching.
If you want your husband/wife to be more Top or Bottom, that is more "assertive" or initiating sex - or more yielding, accepting, then you have to live and behave in ways that allow them to be that way. You can't really say, "I want you to be more passionate, hardline, aggressive sexually" and then turn around and keep telling them "Not now!" "I don't feel like it" etc. without turning them right off again. Unfortunately, a LOT of people act out as passive-aggressives. The old "C'mere, c'mere" "Go 'way, go 'way" and then wonder why their sex lives are messed up.
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My dictionary says: Virginal= a smaller and simpler rectangular form of the harpsichord. Not sure you'd want to be inserting anything into one
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Tongue licking on me,
Her eyes closed; fingering her
Wetness. Is this lust?
Her eyes closed; fingering her
Wetness. Is this lust?
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Doubtful, either she or her girlfriend would kick me back out again
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So what's the best dressing for pussy lettuce? Oil & vinegar (douche) or Raunch?
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He's actually 73 years old, lives in a Seniors home in New Hampshire, and hasn't actually sexed anyone up since 1983.
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When she stops caring about herself or others. Looking for quick gratification/cheap thrill over friendships.
For example: Dangerous actions such as unprotected sex with strangers. Or hooking up with friends partners without their knowledge or consent.
Definitely those. Also when she lowers herself to porn standard slutness instead of a seductive classy woman who intrigues her lover. Oh, also when the passion is fake and her actions mechanical.
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She's hotter and wetter than Mobile in August and as feisty as a Birmingham hen ;)
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Quickly teach her the rules for kinky chess and play on...
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Pretty much every place has some "hang out" where such women can be found. Do a little research. Listen for gossip. Read between the lines. Check out local women's causes groups.
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Quicker than a heartbeat..it's a gift that keeps on giving