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MrLosAngeles
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 42
United States

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I don't know that the story has to have a ending. But I do prefer reading stories where I feel "something has happened" - a change has occurred from the status at the beginning. I also like stories that leave me wanting more as opposed to "Whew, I'm glad that's over".
I think domination is earned, but it is also a HUGE responsibility. In many cases it seems the Dominant is helping to "fix" the destructive things a submissive is engaged in. Whether it's a sense of "broken", "betrayed". lack of confidence, or the messed up behavior; whether it's the overly-romanticized "textbook" idealism - few submissives come to the table in perfect condition or perfectly "trained". I think there's a lot of "giving up" that goes with surrendering to a Dominant depending on the relationship, of course. I don't completely understand the "whatever *shrug*" attitudes which seem like casual hookups, but each to their own.
What she (DancingDoll) said. When the enjoyment and intimacy is gone, when the sheer thrill of being together starts feeling like a job - it's over, move on.
There definitely seems to be a major difference between loving and being in love. We can love someone for who they are, how they act, and other qualities, including loving us, but then there's that inexplicable whammy effect of being IN love. It has it's good and bad experiences, is mostly without rhyme or reason. We just fall and hope for something in return.
I much prefer actual chatting, getting to know people, and if it somehow leads to cybering that can be good or bad LOL What I don't understand is just posting pics all the time and pretending that it's the foreplay to mutual stroke sessions. Doesn't work for me without conversation.
She's a strong reader. That's often an indication of imagination and intelligence.
I think it's both flattering and "equality" demonstrating. It may work out or it may not, but it's far better to let a man know you have intentions and desire than to never let them know because of some silly idea of what's appropriate or not.
Qualities: Strong desires, creative seductiveness, compassion and passion, intelligence, humor. Have you ever been swept off your feet by a future lover?
Tags can be helpful, so you know if the story is to your interests or not. On the other hand, tags cannot tell you about the quality of the story. I often read the first few sentences to get a feel for the style and the way the story grabs your attention.
Guilty. Have you ever caught yourself having a sex fantasy at the oddest moment in real life?
Obviously, I'm not a woman, but I somehow feel the question is based in misogyny and disrespect. A perversion, if you will, of intimacy and commitment.
As soon as you feel estrangement, it's over. Too many people try to fool themselves about the signs, thinking "I can fix this". You can't. When the thrill is gone, no matter what you do to "spice things back up" "be forgiven" or whatever. The dice is cast, admit it, break it gently, and go your separate ways.
Didn't much care for it nor the recent Sherlock series. Currently I'm enjoying Ripper Street instead with Matthew MacFadden. When I need a Sherlock Holmes fix, I'll watch Jeremy Brett's version.
Probably for a deep, if rambling, conversation, touching on many subjects. But then real conversations are a rarity it seems anymore. No sex involved except metaphoric and philosophical. LOL
I find it interesting that almost everyone seeking Master/Mistress only describe their physical characteristics as if that's the key. HINT: It's not. The more important things - the ones that matter deeply - are intrinsic habits and traits. Can you be loyal and devoted? Do you have even an inkling of what serving a Master/Mistress is all about? Maybe some only want a "fling" (sending pics for stroke fantasies, webcam masturbation, etc.) but a real relationship with a Master/Mistress means a personal commitment to service AND pleasure. Just my two cents worth.
What parts of your pre-dominated personality, lifestyle, attitudes have changed by being dominated? Were they difficult to give up or did He/She make it easy?
When a woman says she doesn't want to ruin a good thing, it usually means you're in the friend zone. Probably permanently. She doesn't crave you, but she'll hang with you sometimes. You may be a buddy, but not a fuck buddy necessarily. If you want passionate hunger, don't expect it from her.
An Italian angel with horns? Oh, dominate with much pleasure, I'm sure. Though it would be a challenge, no doubt. LOL.