Quote by orion73
Take a look at your relationship - the non sexual side. It may be a control thing. If you are the main earner, or if it is you making all the decision in your relationship, it may be his way of regaining some control - to with-hold sex.
If not, then its ultimatum time. I hate ultimatums, but it appears sex is important to you, so you will have to give him the ultimatum - sort his head out or you will leave. But from my experience, if you didnt have a problem with sex before you started living together, then the problem isnt sex...its something else.
Just as an aside, lots of people are saying dump him, but Im assuming that if you decided to live together there has to be something there. So with that in mind I think it is worth expending a little effort in trying to find out what the issue is.
Yes there is alot there.. he is amazing! I got him to open up and talk to me a little bit last night... this is the longest relationship that he has ever had, and this is the first time that he has ever lived with anyone.. which is all new info to me. He said that it isn't me and that he loves me, that this is all just gonna take him a little time to adjust to. Also something that I didnt' mention in my first post I do have a daughter who is 3 from someone else, so considering that he is 27 and has never been in a long relationship, and never lived with anyone else, let a lone someone with a kid, I can see where he is a little overwhelmed. So things are looking a little better. Just wish I would have know about all of this a little sooner! Did alot of worrying and stressing the last couple months!!!