Bananas Foster. We had dinner in up state New York. I was surprised at how well it was done. It was done table side and flamed with Bacardi 151 Rum, like it is done in New Orleans and southern Louisiana.
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I don't have a crush on any national famous celebrity. I do have a big time crush on Brandie for almost 40 years. Now to me she is a celebrity. She is also a celebrity at the swing club we go to often.
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We have a private swing group of 17 members. The youngest couple is 22 male and 23 female. I am 57 and her and I have sex several times a month. Brandie is also 57 and she has sex with both of them several times a month also.
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Hell yes. One of our biggest turn ons is when I take my sub wife to the swing club. I dress her in a short skirt, with a sheer top, no underwear except a garter belt with stockings and CFMS heels, long earrings, with her SUBMISSIVE SLUT collar. When I see a single or sometimes more males I will strike up a conversation with him / them. If I think he / they are someone Brandie would like I will bring him / them to where she is sitting at the bar. Then I will offer her to them no holes bared. We usually go to the Voyeur Room so any one can watch her service the guy or guys.
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That would be a huge turn on.
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Absolutely not. I will leave all the cock sucking to my subs.
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Yes I have. A guy that I worked with occasionally and his wife had a profile on a swing site that Brandie and I had a profile on. I recognized her instantly from their main picture. He was in a few of the other pictures. We hooked up a few times then we invited them to join our private swing group.
Brandie and I also ran into a couple male friends at the swing club we belong to. Neither one was with their wife. One of them we ran into there several times. We talked but did not play with either one. Brandie also ran into one of her female friends from high school who was there with another female friend. We played with them that night and a few times afterwards.
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There has never been a first time and never will. Not my thing.
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Absolutely. I like to stay down south until they can't take it any more and they are ready to get fucked.
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I read the first post that got this started. I will say I agree and support every thing that was said. My wife Brandie and I have been in the BDSM and Swinging lifestyle for over 36 years together. She is collared and has my mark tattooed where her bush would be if I would let her have one. She stays totally shaved. She got started in in both right after her 17th birthday.
When in a scene she wears her collar. When out in public she wears a Cameo on a black silk ribbon tied snugly around her neck. We are very active sexually but BDSM is only about 10 to 15% of our sexlife. We are more into the bondage side like having her in the stocks at the beginning of a gang bang. We do use a little bit of pain in flogging but it is at best on a mild level. It is enough to make her thighs and ass red.
She is lent out to other Doms. Sometimes as long as a 3 day weekend. A few times while I was out of town for as long as I was gone. That can be just a couple days to as long as a few months while I was in the Air Force from the late 70s thru 2006. Mind you except for a few times the temp Dom is well known to us and I get there sub in a temp situation when they are gone. I do know BDSM couples that live it 24/7/365.
I will probably add to this later.
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Downtown by Patula Clark. Brandie while we were dating and to this day listens to an oldies station. We chose it as our song. That oldies station still plays Downtown. Every time I hear it I think of the fantastic time we had while we were dating and our early part of our marriage. There are other songs that bring back the great memories that we had during other periods over the last 40 years. But Downtown was the first song we took as our song.
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I really don't have a crush on any celebrity. I do have a crush on my wife Brandie.
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I post something nearly every time I log into the site.
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I post something nearly every time I log into the site.
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About 6 hours after I go to bed. Usually between 7 & 8AM
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Food & Drinking Water.
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I'm not a Dr of any kind, but have studied human sexuality since I was in my early teens. My father subscribed to a publication titled Sexology Magazine. After we had our talks he gave me and my 3 younger brothers the magazine to read as we got old enough. We were able to talk openly about any issues that came up. It was similar to Penthouse Forum but presented in more of an educational and scientific format.
How was your sex life with your wife before & right after getting married? Do y'all have any children? Do you know of anything that may have caused her to not be interested in sex. Something that may have happened when she was younger. Something that would have been very tragic to her. How about her religious up bringing? Some Christian and other religions teach, "that to enjoy sex is a sin".
If she is close to your age this should be her hottest years. If it is not a mental issue as mentioned above it could be physical. Like low hormone production. It is good that y'all talk about it even if one sided. If you have not told her you need to let her know you are frustrated about the lack of good sex in your relationship. Also you should ask her if your performance is an issue. Let her know you will not be upset if it is. Better to get it out in the open between the 2 of you so the changes that need to be made can get under way.
This is only a tiny tip of what can be a very big iceberg. There are very many physical and mental issues than can cause her to be uninterested in sex. A lot of them can be fixed.
Feel free to ask me any thing you wish. On top of studying the scientific side Brandie and I have a very active sex life.
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Back in the mid 80s I was deadheading on a private charter flight to Miami to pick up a plane to bring back to New Orleans. I was going to fly the co pilots seat and do the radio work. We stopped in Mobile to pick up the passengers. It was the wife and daughter of the owner of the company I was flying for. The 19 year old daughter wanted to ride up front. So after we took off and got established in our climb, I moved to passenger compartment so the daughter could ride in the co pilots seat. We were in a Cessna 421 which only requires 1 pilot.
The mother appeared to be in her mid to late 40s very pretty and in nice shape. She was setting in the first seat behind the pilot facing the rear of the aircraft. I sat on the co pilots side in the 2nd row seat facing forward so we could talk. She said she was hot and removed her jacket which matched her short skirt that was slightly above her mid thigh. Her long legs were nicely tanned and looked great in her CFM heels. She was wearing a thin white blouse without a bra. Her nipples were hard and clearly visible through the thin material as was her silver dollar sized areoles. She had a couple extra buttons unbuttoned showing a nice bit of cleavage. My dick was responding to her sexy beauty.
She said she wanted to take a nape and dozed off to sleep. She moved in her seat and her skirt moved up as she did. Her legs spread apart exposing her totally shaved pussy. It was like she was teasing me. I remember wondering if she was really asleep. I moved to the 3rd seat on the pilots side which put me behind the seat in front of her. I pulled my hard dick out and it only took about two minutes until I had a very healthy orgasm into a dinner napkin.
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A train going through town blowing the horn for the street crossings.
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We drink very little. Not enough to get drunk on so no hangover. But right now if I had a hangover or not I would have a Philly Steak Omelet with Swiss cheese onions and bell peppers, hash browns with onions, and whole wheat toast with butter and strawberry jam, or biscuits and cream gravy, with black coffee.
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In my BDSM world, a female that has turned total control of her sex life over to me. The only exception is with their husbands. I have several that call me master. They have willingly become my sex slave because it is a huge turn on for them and their husbands. NO ONE WAS FORCED TO BECOME A SEX SLAVE OR TO DO ANYTHING OUTSIDE OF WHAT THEY HAVE AGREED TO DO.
They are all collared and are required to wear them when involved in a scene or assignment, or when not in public unless they desire to. When out in public they wear a chocked or a ribbon tied snugly around their neck with a medallion on it as a sign of being my submissive. They also have accepted my mark either tattooed or branded where their bush would be if allowed to wear one. They are all required to be hairless except for the hair on their heads and their eyebrows. This was all done in a ceremony similar to a wedding.
Every thing is legal and there is not any prostitution involved. This is not a form of domestic violence. They have safe words that are respected by me and whom ever they are assigned to. This is all done because they want it that way and their husbands are well aware of her submissive roll. Sometimes the husbands are present and participating especially when a gang bang is the assignment. With in an established set of limits I control their entire sex life, except with their husbands. I give them assignment as to who to have sex with, when, where, and how to dress. For some they want multiple assignments a week. Some want just one or two a week. Some want only one or two a month.
Outside of the BDSM lifestyle the submissive is a spouse or partner that allows the other spouse or partner to make all the decisions and they follow. It may or may not be sexual.
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Brandie and I always shower before going to bed and sleep in the nude.
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Very well said in the first two posts. A lot of people I have talked to about the BDSM Lifestyle believe it deals with domestic abuse. I have explained it many time much like the first post.
Brandie and I have been in the swinging / BDSM lifestyle for over 36 years of our over 37 years of marriage. We use it as part of our foreplay. We do use some flogging, but not as much as some do. Our genera is more in her being restrained and offered to other men and women for mutual sexual pleasure for all involved.
Brandie gets very turned on while preparing her body and getting dressed for pleasuring men and or women. We go through a ceremonious process, after she is dressed, placing her collar around her neck. Brandie has been lent out to other Doms and even auctioned off to other Doms for a fund raiser for 2 very well known children's charities.
We participated in the auction for 10 or 11 years twice a year. I am proud to say she went for a very high price. Third highest the first year out of 22 subs auctioned for the 3 day weekend. She was won by the same Dom all but 2 times. That was because he did not attend those two auctions.
She never received any of the money from the bidding. It all went to the charities. She was able to keep the clothes and lingerie she was provided with as well as the shoes, toys and jewelry, mostly costume.
She became a sub when she was 17 to a much older boyfriend at the time. She liked the very erotic sensations it created. It was with him and her sex life getting more erotic that produced her first squirting orgasm. Her first Dom was not pushy and did not force her into any thing she was not willing to do. He always respected her limits. I do too, as well as the other Doms she has been lent to.
I'm sure some non BDSM persons reading this post will look at BDSM in a totally different light. They will be surprised to learn the sub is the one with the controll of the scene.
Feel free to ask any questions you may have about the BDSM or swinging lifestyle. Or any thing about the aviation side of my life. It has all been great.
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I never realized until just now that adding the right hat to a woman, even while she is fully dressed, can be so sexy just from adding the hat. Now I know what I will buy Brandie for her next "Just Because I Love You Present" later today.
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I never have but Brandie does often. She can have an orgasm while giving a blow job without any stimulation to other parts of her body. If she is highly aroused, which is the case most of the time, she will squirt when I or one of her other lover's cum hits the back of her throat.
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