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Nikki703
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Quote by LittleLuce
Some people become unhappy at Christmas but not me, I love it.
Do you celebrate Christmas with religion in mind or just enjoy Christmas as a nice family and festive time.
Mostly enjoy as family and festive time, but I always go to Midnight Mass too.
Oops, I missed one. Id prefer a nice older man or woman since I am 44. But I might go out with a younger (20's not teens, well maybe 19, LOL)if I connected.
Do you usually go out on New Years Eve or stay home with loved one(s)?
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Quote by Magma_Boils_333
They're everywhere.
http://www.canoncitydailyrecord.com/news/canoncity-local-news/ci_24702103/mother-girl-involved-kissing-discipline-speaks-out
In this one, the little girl's mother speaks out and says she repeatedly told him to stop.
Even in the one where they drop the title from him, it says his advances were unwelcome
http://news.yahoo.com/boy-girl-kiss-suspension-144115689.html
Instead of admitting her son did something wrong, the boy's mother says that the little girl liked him back and they were boyfriend and girlfriend. Unless she changes her attitude, she's going to be saying the same thing at his harassment or worse trials when he gets older, she's not teaching him anything about boundaries, she's basically saying the girl wanted it when clearly she didn't.
OK, now lets see if I understand this all.
The boys mother says he kissed her cheek, was told it was wrong and then he kisses her hand and gets suspended. The boys mom says they considered themselves BF and GF. So she is just defending her son.
The girls mom says it has happened over and over and over and the girl said NO. She even had to have her older brother protect her. This mom is speaking the truth, not protecting her daughter.
The school only speaks of the 2 incidents. Suspends the boy. After all the backlash from the public drops the sexual harassment charges.
Did the girls mom tell the school about it after the 2nd kiss? The 5th? The 50th? Did the school wait too long to react? Since the girls mom says the school is doing a great job of protecting her daughter, I have to believe the school suspended him as soon as she complained. So why didnt she tell the school earlier if it had been happening for so long? So who is telling the actual truth here?
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Quote by Magical_felix
I find it odd that some of you think this is the genesis of being a gentleman and not the complete opposite.
I don't think it means he will be a gentleman any more than I think it means he will be a sexual predator. I think it was just an innocent act by a boy who liked a girl and he needs to be taught not to do things like that. I think the school is covering its ass by suspending him. I think the girls parents are planning a suit against the boys family and the school. I think it is just another case of a non-story being blown way the fuck out of proportion!!
But that's just me, WTF do I know!
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Quote by Magma_Boils_333
In the articles I read, the only people saying that the girl was fine with it was the little boy and his mother, there are accounts that say the little girl complained about him and didn't want him to do it. Of course the little boy's mother is going to say the girl was ok with it, she's trying to protect her son. The mother needs to teach her son that you are not boyfriend and girlfriend just because you have a crush on someone, especially if they don't like you back and don't want you to touch them.
Whrere? Id like to read those.
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Quote by Magma_Boils_333
I think calling it sexual harassment is a bit much but that little boy needs to learn that no means no. At my age, if I don't want someone to kiss me I would be pissed if they did, why should it be different just because they're children. That little boy harassed that girl by kissing her when she didn't want him to, his parents need to teach him a thing or two about personal space.
I have read several accounts of this story from several different sources and I have not found one where it says the girl had a problem with it or said stop or No. The school had a problem with it and after it became known her parents had a problem with it. But I have read where they considered themselves BF and GF.
I still agree the boy should be disciplined and taught that this behavior is wrong and school rules need to be obeyed. Having sexual harassment on his record is just crazy. If after all this it continues then maybe. But this seems like a case of blowing an innocent act totally out of proportion.
http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/colorado-year-suspended-kissing-girl-21161245
http://www.cnn.com/2013/12/11/living/6-year-old-suspended-kissing-girl/index.html
http://www.cbsnews.com/news/6-year-old-colo-boy-suspended-for-kissing-girl/
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Quote by She
Mayor problem with our human race is that we teach female and male different things with same examples. It is not one isolatated problem that Hunter did, it is proplem that we don't see it as a problem, bigger picture. We all have duties and responsebilitites to teach children how to respect themselves and how to respect others. We cannot expect them to just know that, we do it trough examples suitable to every age and child capabilities.
So, this is a huge preblem in our society and I feel really bad for the kid, it is not his fault, his parents on the other hand should get that title and charge, anykind, suitable to the case. Because, if my doughter would be coming home from school crying (lets assume that happened repeatedly) I would make living hell to Hunter's parents.
Well we do agree on something, there is a major problem. Where we disagree is what the problem is!
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Quote by She
Since we don't have all informations, there are two available scenarios.
First one is where boy is in love with a girl, keeps expresing that to her in his own childish way and where girl cannot deal with it, so she goes to her parents and complains about it. And she doesn't need to know how to deal with it, she is just 6. Girls parents make complain in school and when boy cannot be handled, he gets suspension and a title.
Second scenario is that boy kissed a girl on the cheek, got warning, kissed her hand and got suspension and title. In this case if I would be Hunter's parent I would sue everyone. But that is not what is happening, Hunter's parents are seeking help and sympathy from media, asking for different title, but not to erase the whole thing so that means they are agreeing that he should get some kind of a punishment.
So, it made me thinking, how long did that girl suffer before something was done. Honestly, if I would be in power I would send social workers to check that household out, but luckily for my fella citizen I have no interest in politics
I am not saying the boy should not be disciplined. What I meant is that if it was a girl kissing the boy people would not be making such a big deal about it.
The boy needs to be taught to understand that NO means NO! I get it!!
But my God they are 6yo kids. He kissed her hand. He didn't grab her ass. He didn't lift up her skirt.
He kisses her cheek and was told not to do it again. So he kisses her hand instead. Perhaps he didn't think that was wrong, just kissing her cheek was wrong. If he continues this pattern then fine, put it on his record. But I think they are jumping the gun here.
Why not make him register as a Sex Offender? If he lived in Texas they may even execute him!!
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Quote by lafayettemister
I'd never object to a woman using her hands on me. During a blowjob, hands on the shaft moving together with her mouth... Yeah, that's good stuff! If she choose to not use her hands, that's good too.
Guys, if a woman is willing to suck your dick, griping about her technique is a sure fire way of not getting blown again.
But if she is not really using her mouth, just has the tip of cock in her mouth but not sucking or using tongue, is it a BJ or just a "glorified" HJ?
Not asking if it feels good or not. I am sure you will come either way, especially YOU! LOL!!
I know from my own experiences, I may do that for a bit if my mouth gets tired but try to actually use my mouth as much as possible. But then again I enjoy doing it, many women only do it because their man likes it.
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Guys,
When you are getting a blow job, do you like the Woman (or man) to only use her mouth or is it OK to use her hands on your cock along with the mouth? Or do you consider that as "cheating" if she has the head in her mouth and is basically jerking you off?
I recently had a conversation with a few of my friends and one of them said her husband thinks that isn't really a blow job.
When you are getting a blow job, do you like the Woman (or man) to only use her mouth or is it OK to use her hands on your cock along with the mouth? Or do you consider that as "cheating" if she has the head in her mouth and is basically jerking you off?
I recently had a conversation with a few of my friends and one of them said her husband thinks that isn't really a blow job.
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Quote by gdtm07
Ladies, what signs do you give that you are interested in having an affair? Some flirting or touching is pretty obvious, but what subtle signs do you give?
Usually I walk up to him, reach my hand into his pants and give his balls a gentle squeeze. I think he gets the message! HAHA
Normally I don't go out looking to have an affair. But times I have hooked up with a man or woman it just happens. It can be flirting that brings us together or maybe starts off as a friendly chat. But to be honest, most times where it has happened they made the initial moves.
And like some of the other ladies have said, I have enough confidence in myself and feel I can be very sexy and appealing when I want to be that it really isn't a problem to find someone if I was looking!
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Quote by AngelHeart01
Actually, the media DID include he had been in trouble before. That's nothing new for a boy or kid his age.
The mom is fighting to get it off his record and for the wording to be changed. I say more power to her. I would do the same thing.
I agree it's unfortunate that the boy keeps on, but there are other measures. Putting something like that on his record is incorrect and wrong.
I agree
I guess if she had kissed him it would have been CUTE!
Having sexual harassment on his record is ridiculous. I agree something needs to be done to teach him why what he is doing is wrong but this is not the way to go about it.
It's funny, had the boy hit the girl they would most probably not be making such a big deal about this!
