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Nikki703
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 57

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Quote by blazestcyr
thank you crazy!!!! exactly what i was trying to get across i dont know why but this question really offended..me




Its because there are still so many Neanderthals who believe it is a choice, or being Gay or Lesbian makes you a deviant. And that they are the man to set women straight!! Unfortunatley, some archaic beliefs will always be!!
I am Bisexual, not a Lesbian. I think being a lesbian, like being a Gay male is not a choice. Like Sprite said, its in your DNA. Now I do believe that some women may choose to be exclusively with women but they arent necessarily Lesbians. And there can be many reasons for that.

I am in a relationship with a woman but I love sex with men too and we both have sex with men from time to time. But due to coming from a very abusive (physically and mentally) marriage, and then having some really bad experiences with men after my divorce, I can never fully trust a man again to be in a committed relationship with one. I know there are plenty of really good men out there who would never dream of doing anything like I have been through, but its a risk Im just not willing to take.
Depends on definition of an Orgy. If 4 others count than Guilty. But if you mean the kind you see in porn with like 20 people all sprawled out on a room full of matresses, then Innocent.

Do you feel weird having sex with your pet in the room?
Like has been already said, she says she doesnt know why but chances are she does know. It could be that your breath isnt as fressh as it once was. As people age, sometimes their breath can get bad, not because of you dont brush but for other medical reasons. I know I dont want to kiss anyone that has bad breath but if I loved the person, I would discuss it with him/her and come up with a solution. But chances are if this was the case she wouldnt want to kiss you at all.

Sounds like there is much more going on here. Has her sex drive decreased? Has she stopped doing anything else she did before, Oral, Anal, etc.?

If it continues or gets worse, I suggest you have a heart to heart talk with her to get to the root of the problem. And maybe get some counseling. Good Luck!
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purchased my first ever toy this week.. i became a lelo girl..i can recommend it


Which one did you get?
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Quote by GingerKitty


But isn't that the definition of oaral sex? it might oarsome


Yes, but if you use and Oar you get a great Oargasm!!
I am not that big on it, maybe because I dont think I am very good at it. I can probably count the times I have done it on both hands. But I have had a few times where it was amazing!! So on a scale of 1 to 10, I will say 3 or 4 overall!
Guilty, I love to

Have you ever been part of a group masturbation (3 or more)?
Quote by Dancing_Doll
Here's some other threads with good tips and tricks.

http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst14565_Going-Anal.aspx

http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst27665_Anal-sex.aspx

http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst26095_Anal-sex-for-the-first-time.aspx

http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst24609_Anal-Sex-a-question-for-the-ladies.aspx

http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst19665_Anal-pain-.aspx

http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst13290_Did-I-permanently-lose-my-chance-anal.aspx




I wrote this up a while ago for another thread if you're looking for the "How To".

Stage One: Self Play
Do this alone, with some lube and a butt plug and maybe a small dildo. You want to get used to the sensations of anal play without having a guy with a giant erection impatiently waiting for you to give him the green light. It's easier when you can go at your own pace, find out if you enjoy the sensations of it, and can go slow until you are completely relaxed. Once you know better what to expect and how your body will naturally respond, you will probably feel a lot more relaxed when doing it with a guy.

Stage Two: Actual Anal Sex
Have him start with his tongue, then fingers (either using vaginal juices, standard lube or oil-based anal lube which is thicker). Graduate slowly to larger objects if you're concerned or nervous about it. You will relax, and it will start to feel really good. Make sure he knows to go slow. You will feel some discomfort as he eases in but just have him "hold there" until you can sufficiently relax your sphincter muscles. You should control how long this moment lasts. Usually it only takes 10-30 seconds. Once you give him the green light to proceed, he can start with slow, long thrusts and then as per your signal, he can start going faster and rougher (if you enjoy that.). You will not be in any pain if you're doing it properly and are sufficiently relaxed past that initial tightness of the sphincter muscles. Actually, you will probably be begging for more. As for positions, start on your stomach or in spoon position or ease yourself in while on top so that you control the depth and speed. Then you can consider moving into doggy style once you are used to it.

Why Anal?
It's a whole different experience than vaginal sex. For those that never try it, I think they are missing out on some incredible pleasure and highly erotic explorations with their partner. It feels different, very primal, and for those that enjoy a submissive element, it works on that level too. It's just another way to connect sexually... the same reason you try different positions, or enact different role plays or fantasies. Because things can get boring with monotony.

One last note: this 'how to' isn't how most girls experience it. LOL I didn't have any "work up" to my first anal. It just happened, it wasn't pre-planned, and maybe that's why I wasn't nervous about it. But if you are already uncertain and want to try... it's a safe and comfortable way to get started.



I nominate DD for Lush Anal Queen!! Just Kidding.........................Well Maybe!! HAHA




But seriously all great advice!!
I have had several fuck buddies and with the exception of one, it has worked out really well. I (we) have one now and it is great. We are all friends and it is just a purely sexual thing. He doesnt want any relationship with anyone at this time in his life, he is in his mid 30's, divorced with 2 kids and his kids and job take up all his time. Of course that could change but for right now, its wonderful!! We get to have our cake and eat it too!! LOL

To the OP, make sure you try it sober before you get to excited about thsi arrangement.
Id bring him home and ask him to shovel the snow from my driveway!! And then if he still had energy left after that.....................clean out my garage!!
Guilty, At least I think it would!! If only I was a better writer.

Do you ever read stories to your partner so you can watch them get aroused and masturbate for you?
Manual, No Toys, No Manual............................BOTH!!

Cum: Thick and Creamy or Thin and Watery?
Quote by MindFucker2
So we can have like minded people read our erotic/ pornographic fantasies - my fuck buddy Mike and
I wrote them in email to each other,then we started publishing them on Lush ! I told my sister - in - law - she hasn't responded !

Do the stories you write come from experience ?


I havent written anything that I have submitted, but I have written some stories for fun and most is from fantasy

Have you ever tried to act out a scenario you read in a story?
Quote by kinkygirl
OK People keep it clean. I have handcuffs and not afraid to use them.



What a coincidence, so do I!!



You have the right to remain silent



Hey!! None of that, I said Silent!!

I dont like them. To me they are slutty not sexy. I much rather have my panties pulled to the side for a quicky or as DD said ripped off me, unless of course they are ones I really love!!
Innocent as far as I can remember

Ever write an erotic story for your partners pleasure only?
Yes, with women when having threesome!

Have/Would you ever take part in a Bukkake?
Quote by Budlee
Not used a condom is many many years. When I did I came in the wrapper. ;-)

cum from a condom or cum from a glass? (If a guy, where would you cum)


HAHA! I just couldnt imagine sucking cum out of a condom.

Tickle with feather or fingers?
Quote by CurlyGirly


Dayum, between you and Trinks, Nikki! I swear!! I was eating lunch when I was trying to catch up on the sandwich.

Almost lost my sandwich!





No, Id wake her up and lead her to the kitchen and have her on the kitchen counter!! LOL
I always make sure to be extra clean if I know there is good chance that I will be having anal sex. But generally this isnt an issue because I am fanatical about personal hygiene, and always clean that area very, very thouroughly. But I have never gone as far to give myself an enema or anything like that in preparation for anal sex.

And if you are considering trying anal for the first time, I suggest you start by using fingers and small toys on yourself to get used to having something inside. This will really help when the time comes. A few drinks to relax and loosen up wouldnt hurt and be sure you are thoroughly aroused before also. Be sure to talk with your partner about it and make sure he knows your concerns and goes slow and not just stick it in you. And the most important thing.............Lube, Lube, Lube!!! It will make for a much more pleasurable experience!!

There are many existing threads on Anal that will give you a lot of great advice!!

If you try it, I think you will end up loving it!!
Quote by oldhound
Ice cold showers


Maybe this works for men but showers of any kind just make me hornier. Luckily, ever since my divorce, a long time is like a week or two and my toys and fingers are always there to help when needed!!