It takes time and the amount of time differs for everyone. For me it was very long, actually still not 100% trusting of men. But it helps to have support from friends and family. I had a hard time convincing myself I was the victim and not deserving of what happened. Its so hard to think someone you trusted could do something so heinous.
You can and will get through it. Just dont be afraid or too proud to ask for help from others. And I am living proof that alcohol and drugs dont help, just temporarily dull the pain.
Just be assured you are not alone and if you ever want to chat, please feel free to contact me.
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Nikki703
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 57
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
Yeah, this is true. Testosterone levels play a big part when it comes to clit size. If a female is jacked on PEDS, that's one of the body changes to expect. It can happen naturally too, obviously. Some women have more testosterone in them than others.
Clitoromegaly
Woman with high levels of testosterone may have a long or abnormally large clitoris, a condition referred to as clitoromegaly, or macroclitoris. According to an article published by the Children's Hospital of Eastern Ontario, androgen exposure can promote excessive growth of the clitoris. Androgens are male hormones such as testosterone. According to the Merck Manuals online medical library, women who use anabolic steroids like testosterone may experience clitoral growth.
Thank You Dr. Doll!! LOL. Isnt it funny how PED's make women's clits grow and men's balls shrink! Sounds like we need a Congressional investigation on this.
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DK, You can ask what you want. If we choose to answer or not is our choice and not something you need to worry about. There was a big clit thread in the past for sure. Do a search and you may find what you are looking for. As for me, I think mine is about avg size or maybe slightly bigger. I have no clue if size is in anyway related to sensitivity. I was once with a woman who had a huge clit. She was into fitness competitions and I suspect she may have used some form of PED and I have heard they will cause your clit to beome engorged. If you do a search and see naked pics of female bodybuilders, you will see many of them have big clits so there may be truth to this.
This might be a question for Olivia, LOL!
This might be a question for Olivia, LOL!
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Just be friendly as you would to anyone. Do not try too hard, do not brag about how great you are but it si OK to be confident without being arrogant, Do not tell them how great they are but it is OK to compliment her. Women like guys who are attentive but not pushovers. So dont be a yes man and agree to everything she says. I like it when a guy is a little mysterious about himself, I dont want to hear his life story the first time we meet. Just be yourself. Most women can essily see through a guys line of BS and it is a big turn off.
A lot depends on what you are looking for too. Are you looking to find a GF or just sex?
Also, show interest in what she has to say. Girls love guys who listen. Good Luck!!
A lot depends on what you are looking for too. Are you looking to find a GF or just sex?
Also, show interest in what she has to say. Girls love guys who listen. Good Luck!!
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I guess I can be fucked incredibly rough in my mouth, ass or pussy until the point that I am in excruciating pain. Its called !!
Are you asking how rough do I like it? How rough would I let someone be? I realize I took it to the extreme but you cant ask a question that can be taken many ways and expect to get people to answer it the way you want.
Are you asking how rough do I like it? How rough would I let someone be? I realize I took it to the extreme but you cant ask a question that can be taken many ways and expect to get people to answer it the way you want.
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Sometimes I like the guy to just take me and have his way with me. It can be a big turn on. But I am not sure if it is "Instinctive" since I dont want that all the time. Sometimes gentle is better, sometimes I like to be in control. But in general I like the guy to be in control or at least think he is. If I am letting him have his way with me, maybe I am the one who is actually in control!
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Id be careful about that. Unless you are sure she feels the same way you are setting yourself up for a major let down and a very awkward situation going forward. If you value her friendship, I would ask her out on a date and see where that leads. If after a while, she seems into you, then maybe its time to take the risk and let her know how you feel.
Now if you dont care if you lose her as a friend and would rather not be around her if you wont have more than a friendly relationship, then go for it. Good Luck either way.
Now if you dont care if you lose her as a friend and would rather not be around her if you wont have more than a friendly relationship, then go for it. Good Luck either way.
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Quote by crazydiamond
Yep I have to agree with you nikki!
Although hahahaha, in my experience when i cum, with something in both.. the contractions can make one of either (usually a toy) just shoot out!
"HEAD'S UP!"
Sounds like a new event for the Sex Olympics!!! The Orgasmic Sex Toy Launch. If we can couple that with 2 Girl Synchronized Squirting it will give a whole new meaning to the Bi-Athlon! HAHA
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I love it when my mate wears lingerie, but my mate is a woman!! But if I was with a guy and he wanted to wear lingerie when we had sex, I wouldnt be disgusted but I wouldnt be turned on either and it would probably make me re-think our relationship.
To each their own of course but it just isnt a turn on for me!!
To each their own of course but it just isnt a turn on for me!!
