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Please forgive me but what exactly are we talking about here?
The lightening of the skin on a person, usually a woman's, asshole by use of chemicals.
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Nikki703
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 57
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I guess i could say my marriage and that i should never have gotten married but then i wouldnt have my kids and they are the most important things in my life so that isnt it.
Probably If I could have a second chance at when I sold my business. I had 2 partners and could not afford to buy them out so I sold and stayed on with the company that bought us. But I have not really been happy so I would have liked have tried to find a way to get someone to invest in it or so I could have kept it. It would have been hard I know, but I never really tried so I wish I would have.
Probably If I could have a second chance at when I sold my business. I had 2 partners and could not afford to buy them out so I sold and stayed on with the company that bought us. But I have not really been happy so I would have liked have tried to find a way to get someone to invest in it or so I could have kept it. It would have been hard I know, but I never really tried so I wish I would have.
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I prefer well written stories that allow you to get to know the characters and you understand how the sex came to be. I do not like when you quickly see people having sex without knowing how they met, who seduced who or anything about them. As far as genre, I prefer stories that are a little (or a lot) kinky and . I also like stories that explore a little of a characters dark side. The typical romantic love story can be fun but usually it doesnt do it for me.
I also like first time and Older/Younger girl/girl stories too.
I also like first time and Older/Younger girl/girl stories too.
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If it is something that turns you both on, or if you are willing to do it to turn your partner on, then yes.
But, In your situation I think she is just being a selfish BITCH!! If you were important enough to her, she would have worked with you on improving your techniques.
But, In your situation I think she is just being a selfish BITCH!! If you were important enough to her, she would have worked with you on improving your techniques.
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Hmm usually i actually get the urge to close my legs more so i can squeeze more if that makes sense, i think thats the same thing
I sometimes do this too. Not always but once in a while I just uncontrollably seem to do it, almost like Im trying to not cum yet and let the intensity build.
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I have been horseback riding many times, I bike ride often and I even had a motorcycle for several years and I cant say any of them ever made me horny. At least not the experience of riding. I will say that after riding a horse or a bicycle all day, my pussy can get really sore but that's not the feeling your interested in, Sorry!!
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I love sex in the shower. My shower is big enough that 4 people could easily fit in it and it has a full length bench built in. Its almost as if it was designed for sex (it wasnt). But if you do it standing up you do have to very careful not to slip, can be very dangerous and no something you want to explain to the paramedics!! LOL
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I'm pretty sure she is available, and I'm not sure how she feels, we haven't had that type of discussion yet. What if its more of a physical relationship than romance?
Well if this is what you both want then it would be fine. Maybe you can just invite her out to lunch and see how it goes. And as SuzyQ said, treat as a woman, not an OLDER WOMAN. Dont mention the age gap unless she does and then try to difuse it.
Just some more advice. Be very careful since she is a co-worker. If things dont go well it can create a very awkward situation for you both.
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The sale of sex toys is almost a $1 Billion industry. They are sold on home shopping channels on Cable TV. Trojens even advertises them on broadcast TV. So I do not think the stigma of female masturbation is there.
I know you asked women in their 20's. I am 43 and masturbate just about every day (most days more than once). But I know many 20 somethings and they all masturbate and are not ashamed of it.
I know you asked women in their 20's. I am 43 and masturbate just about every day (most days more than once). But I know many 20 somethings and they all masturbate and are not ashamed of it.
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Just be direct. If you like her and want to go out then just ask her. I find it very refreshing when a guy or girl just gets to it and doesnt play any games. If she is interested you will soon know and if she isnt, playing games isnt going to change that.
Good Luck and do tell us how it goes!
Good Luck and do tell us how it goes!
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Here's the thing... nobody would date an asshole if the guy presented himself this way upfront.
Assholes are often charming creatures that are good salesman and know how to create interest and close the deal before they flip the switch and reveal their true nature. This is usually after they get what they want. The woman will often try to make excuses for him at first. She will also fondly remember these little glimpses of the 'good guy' he played himself off as when they first started dating. She will feel like this 'good guy' is his true self and is just bubbling under the surface of his outward douchebaggery.
Women will justify that this man is just 'conflicted', misunderstood and 'afraid of love' and that really he is a good guy and with extra love, nurturing and 'stand by your man' perseverance, she will be able to change him for the better. By this point she is probably already deep into the infatuation stage and there will be something about the challenge of the situation that will keep her on her toes. Instead of cutting her losses, she will concentrate on the instances where he is the 'good guy' to her and ignore or make excuses for the rest of the time.
As someone else mentioned, assholes know their targets well. They pick people who are vulnerable with wavering self-esteem - someone that they can control and where they know the right buttons to push to always keep them in the power seat, always keep the girl wanting and chasing, and to always keep her unconfident in what she truly deserves. The emotionally-wounded are easier prey and these guys know how to pick those gazelles from the crowd of stronger animals on the dating savannah. They know the type of woman that will likely put up with their shit and those are the ones they tend to make those initial pitches to. Treating her like shit will only confirm her worst fears and keep her weak and unable to feel confident in going at it alone.
Even if the asshole does cut her loose, she will return to the dating scene even more wounded than before... and at risk of attracting the same kind of guy again, unless she takes a proper break from dating to reassess her self-worth and the kind of guy she really wants and feels she deserves.
That's the worst case scenario. Other girls see the charming guy, find out he's really an asshole in disguise and dump them outright. If it's a self-assured woman she will get better at seeing the red flags and warnings and start to avoid these types altogether.
I think every woman has at least one full-fledged asshole in her dating history. On some level, it's a good learning experience. lol
Totally agree. If we knew they were assholes upfront we wouldnt date them. Just like if a guy knows a woman is a Total Bitch he probably wouldnt date her (unless of course she was easy, LOL).