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Nikki703
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 57
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Use your hands and mouth together. Some people call that a "cheaters blow job" but guys love it. Also while you are sucking him, pay attention to his reactions when you are sucking the head, licking the underside, fondling his balls, etc and then pay more attention to the ares which seem to please him more.
I love to take his cock in my mouth and lick the underside with my tongue while its sliding in and out of my mouth. But that takes practice to get the rhythm down. Deep throating works well for me also, but again it takes practice.
I love to take his cock in my mouth and lick the underside with my tongue while its sliding in and out of my mouth. But that takes practice to get the rhythm down. Deep throating works well for me also, but again it takes practice.
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Quote by Budlee
Could be any number of things: from slipping a finger or few inside me, finger fucking me, sucking or stimulating my clit a certain way, slipping his/her finger(s) into my ass, or even slipping his pinky into my pee hole. I especially like that last one.
This does it for me!!
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I love all 3 so I chose other. I think European women, Europeans in general are just more open-minded when it comes to sex so it appears as if they like Anal more than Americans. They just dont see anal as having the stigma that many Americans do. And from what I have seen, Anal is more prevelant in European porn than it is in the USA.
Oh, I am an American.
Oh, I am an American.
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I have had the opportunity to join one as I have several friends in the "lifestyle". While I am very open to sex with others, being part of a club is not for me. But to those who chose to do that, if you feel your relationship is strong enough to deal with it, then go for it and enjoy!!
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Quote by KyleColorado
Lately I have found myself wanting to fuck my sister in law (wife's sister) so bad. She is younger then my wife. I know if I do anything and the feeling isn't mutual it could turn out real bad. What should I do?
If you love your wife you should just forget about it. Let it be just a naughty fantasy!!
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I have been woken up by having my pussy licked and it is an amazing way to start the day. I have also done it and have woken up a guy with a BJ too. But I have never had a guy fuck me to wake me up and I am not sure I would like that. But as someone said, fucking while half asleep is really hot. Like you are not quite sure if you are awake or dreaming, at least at first. If the guy knows what he is doing you should soon be sure, LOL!
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Oh The Colors, The Wonderful Colors!!
Sounds like an "acid flashback". Did you ever take acid? Or have you recently traveled to the foothills of the Himilayas? Some wild plants grow there, LOL! Or maybe you "accidentily" ate something that was laced with some mind altering substance like the American Judo Athlete did!!
Turn on your Lava lamp, burn some incense, play 'In A Gadda Da Vida" on your iPod and ride it out!!
Sounds like an "acid flashback". Did you ever take acid? Or have you recently traveled to the foothills of the Himilayas? Some wild plants grow there, LOL! Or maybe you "accidentily" ate something that was laced with some mind altering substance like the American Judo Athlete did!!
Turn on your Lava lamp, burn some incense, play 'In A Gadda Da Vida" on your iPod and ride it out!!
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Quote by 1nympholes
What ever amount of noise he/she needs to express the feeling that is running through their body.
Why would you care unless there is a privacy issue.
Absolutely right!! Unless you are trying to be discreet, why do you care how loud he or she is.
Do you feel that if he/she is very loud as opposed to quiet they are enjoying it more? It doesnt work that way. Everyone is different. Some people are very quiet but are loving every second of it!!
Or is your partner being loud a boost for your ego?
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Quote by cv150vanfleet
There is other things besides sex in life. Sex is very important but common interests in other areas of life are also. Especially if you have kids.
BTW, first wife died of cancer. We didn't divorce. I plan on this one being my last.
My exploring and satisfying my kinky side on here helps ensure that our marriage will last.
I agree there is more to a marriage besides sex but sex is a big part of it. In any realationship I enter, I have to be compatable with the person which means intellectually, spiritually and sexually. Of course over time you may find out you are not as compatable as you thought but to just be with someone who you knew has no interest in sex is STUPID!!
One question, does your wife know you watch porn and is she OK with it? If she does and this works for you than C'est La Vie! If she doesnt, then you are playing with fire and we all what happens when you do!
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I have seen both the strapless strap-on and the 2 way strap-on but have never used either. They do both seem very intriguing and I have very good kegel muscle strength so maybe Ill try some day. But when I am using a strap-on, its all about my partner so that is where my focus is going to be.
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Quote by Mazza
Meh, I fit into this category now...
I have to say though that I enjoy sex more than I ever did (and I really always enjoyed it). I've found that I'm much more aware of my needs and wants and also how to please my partner...
I've found that from a sexual point of view, I get much more pleasure than I ever did. I don't know if it's being comfortable in my own skin or what, but my orgasms are much more intense nowadays and often multiple.. (which is rather splendid)
WOW!! It sounds like you were writing this about me. HAHA!
I am exactly the same way. I have always loved sex ever since i realized that touching myself felt good!! But once I hit my mid 30's I became so much more in tune with my body and what it took to make me feel good. And I became more adventurous and wanted to try new things. My orgasms came much easier, were so much more intense. I started to have multiples and even squirt sometimes. And I am also able to please my partners better too. I believe a lot has to do with confidence. Now at 43, I consider myself a sexual dynamo and plan on it just getting better and better!!
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The first time I gave a handjob was with the boy I eventaully lost my virginity to. It was in a tool shed in his back yard. I can remember jerking his cock and as he asked me to give him a BJ but I said I wasnt ready to do that. It took about 3 or 4 minutes for him to cum and it shot all over my hand and arm. I was glad he came pretty fast or I most probably would have given in to him and sucked him since I really liked him a lot. That was the first time I ever tasted cum too
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Quote by FelineFantasy
Just like every person has a different fingerprint, the same applies sexually. Not every single female has the same sexual preferences. If you take on the task with tunnel vision, your goal will never be achieved. First off, given the fact that you have already hooked up with her- you should have a general idea of what turns her on. Some people like it rough, some people like it kinky, some like it straight NASTY, others like it slow. Catch my drift? Just become better acquainted with her body, and be more in tune with what makes her respond. Don't be too pushy and if it really boils down to it.. Just ask her! Curiosity without communication is a dead end road, I think she will commend you for being bold enough to ask. Which shows that you actually care.
Good luck, Xx
This is very true. What works on me may not work on her. You say you asked her and she is not even sure so my best advice is to experiment with new things, maybe include toys in your lovemaking. Something like that. You will find out what works best for you and have lots of fun trying too.
As for me, my most intense orgasms cum when I can feel pressure on my g-spot,either a man's cock or a toy and I also have anal beads in my ass. Just as I am cumming, slowly pull out the anal beads and this puts me over the top. Sometimes it even makes me squirt. I love to have something in my ass as I cum!!!