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Yeah, but dammit, Helen Mirren is HOT! seriously!

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i don't have a solution for you. however, i do have this to say. it's not a woman's job to pursue her husband. nor is it a man's job to pursue his wife. it should be done because you want to, it shouldn't be a chore, and it should be mutual - i can't imagine ever being in a relationship with both of us weren't thinking of ways to get the other into bed, or finding reasons to touch, kiss, flirt or tease on a day to day basis. no, i don't think it should or has to be constant, but it should be there in the air between you - yes, we all get stressed, tired, sick, or distant at times, but that should be something that lasts for days, not weeks, months, years sex should never be something that you have to get her a little drunk for her to enjoy. she should want you, just as you should want her. if that is missing, then there's a problem, not a minor one, but a big one, that needs to be addressed.

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I've been married 26 yrs, My wife no longer pursues me sexually, She went from seldom to not at all. We have talked about it and she says that I'm the one that should be pursuing her, I feel like it's something that we both should be involved in. To me it's a very lonely feeling, I've kept my body in very good shape working out three to five times a week yet she doesn't touch me. A little background on us is that we own a very small business and have for 20 yrs, She operates it and I assist her. It's a hard business to own/operate. Is it just me or do other women pursue there partners ? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks Terry