But I don't think you need "thrills" or experimentation to have an interesting sex life with a longtime partner, just an interest in knowing and loving them deeply and intimately. My own sex life with my partner didn't die for lack of experimentation, we just kind of lost that spark plus health issues limited her interest.

This. The wildest, most fulfilling nights we had with my wife happened many years after we got married. Not because we experimented a lot - mostly because we had more experience in having sex with each other: knew what makes as go wild, how to tease, stimulate, push over the edge time and again.

There is also the fact that a lot of people need time in order to fully open up to someone else and intimacy means being vulnerable - showing another person your true self without any barriers. Getting there takes time.

Hugging my wife - simple as that.

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My partner loves oral before and after, her strongest orgasm occurs normaly after a good fuck, I realy enjoy sucking on her engorged clit, and licking her dry to say. I have tasted my own cum many times and I have no problems with it. And as long as she enjoys it, thats all that matters.

This. It's simple as that - if it brings my wife pleasure, I go for it and making her excited makes me excited as well. Change in taste is pretty neutral to me, so there is no reason not to do it.

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Self produced and ethical. I have a hard time with mainstream porn produced by big companies, working conditions are terrible and abuse is common. Also no one looks like they are having fun. Prefer stuff like OnlyFans where the performer gets most of the cash and the creators are having a great time.

Props to that.

From purely pleasure standpoint, my main point is for the performers to genuinely have fun - this is what excites me and any kind of fake acting is a big turnoff. Other than that, no serious preferences: straight, lesbian, female solo in various scenarios.

Heh, at some point my wife asked me the same question. The answer was and is: however as long as it's her pussy.

There might be some additional appeal to fully shaven as I can freely lick her all over the surrounding area, but as long as I can make her all hot and shaking from pleasure I'm more than happy.

Thought quite a bit, how to sum it up, but I think this will do: passion - not just in the sexual sense. I was always attracted to women who were, so to speak, full of life and living it to the fullest. For example, my wife makes a lot of Christmass decorations (garlands, wreaths and such) and seeing her work is always an amazing experience - that glint in the eyes, hands moving quickly...

Aside from that, I have very sensitive ears. Kissing, rubbing and licking them will make me go from zero to bending my wife over in an instant.

Most often compilations of 80's movie training/action music: Rocky, Bloodsport, Wraith, the list goes on. A good, ready-made piece I typically go for is this one:

If I'm doing a streaching session to relax, I put Hans Zimmer's Burning Bush piece from Prince of Egipt:

Nothing suits a women better than nothing. ;)

That being said, some lace body, see-through nightie or something else worn with a very clear intent of inviting me for sexy times is more than welcome.

Short answer: I love giving oral to women.

In general, I love touching, fondling, kissing, licking, sucking any part of my wife, where is gives here pleasure. Nothing excites me more than seeing her forget about the whole world, breath heavily and shake in ecstasy.

There is also the fact that with fingers and my mouth I get to experience my wife's pussy in far more detail than with a penis, which is great.