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I really appreciate all your thoughtful and candid responses gentlemen!
I was originally brought to consider this question because I've watched a number of guy friends/acquaintances over the years spend their time dating and having sex with "the dirty girls". Two were professional athletes and the girls I saw them date were really kinky adventurous types. I always enjoyed hearing about their crazy sexual adventures from the sidelines and they definitely were obsessively infatuated with some of these girls because the excitement level was always so intense.
Then suddenly I get word that they are engaged.. and I go meet the woman they're choosing to spend their lives with (or at least until they're divorced etc), and I see that they have chosen the antithesis of the girls they had always dated and slept with.
Literally, these fiancees are fresh-faced, cookie-baking schoolteachers that are all walt-disney eyed. I have considered that maybe these girls might have a dark side and are just hiding it well. But after getting to know some of them, I can definitely say No... They are just good girls with wholesome values and not particularly wild in any intentions.
So I've often wondered if the hot party girls they coveted all along had a sexual past that was just a deal-breaker. Some of those girls were nice (not screwed up), but just definitely much more confident and open sexually. Maybe these guys want to start their lives with a 'good girl' instead, even though I notice that these couples tend to have very little in common because they share such different mindsets.
A few of the guys still play around on the side with the "dirty girls" despite being married, and have told me they are bored at home. So I have never understood why they choose 'vanilla' when they still obviously crave 'chocolate'...
God.. these ice-cream analogies have to stop...![]()