I have to confess that yes, I do find it a challenge and a turn on. At the same time I also realise that this is a weakness in me and is not a good thing, I am not at all proud of it. I have had several affairs and I admit to having enjoyed the man (or woman) involved and also enjoying the forbidden side of it. Lastly, and this is awful, I have also enjoyed the feeling of power over deceiving their partner. Damn this is awful.
Never really got that involved with anyone online so I would have to say no.
What??? Of course it is important. This is what I am STILL searching for!!! I have found it a few times but then there were other things missing.
She's your boss, until she actually lays a hand on you you shouldn't react. She could be sounding you out for good (meaning you have an adventure coming up) or for bad (meaning if you react your fired).
Patience is the best answer.
I have done this a few times with people I wasn't actually involved with... a sort of exhibitionist thing. I have also done it with partners just to create sexual tension. Nothing like going out the door with a guy who already has an enormous hard on!
This thread got a little bitchy in the middle, nice to see it back on track.
I have to confess I love large cocks and I adore feeling them battering my cervix, it can be painful but it makes me come really hard. Just how big? Well I don't often measure and I have to confess I can't calculate in inches at a glance but I have had cocks that were longer than both my hands when I was grasping them and a couple where I had trouble getting my forefinger and thumb to meet when I was holding them. Large!
Wow, I have read this thread with fascination.
I DON'T have large boobs, I am one of those girls mentioned who can grab a bra off the shelf and not try it on. I know from my mother, who is much larger than me, of some of the problems related to large boobs but I never realised there were so many more.
No one talks about the rewards. I look at some of the profile pics of the people in this thread and think, wow they are spectacular... real model figures with gorgeous enormous boobs. No one seems to think like that. Are we all deluded by the fantasies about big tits?
I haven't really thought a lot about this.
I think that it depends on who you are a lot too.
In my case once I have got it across to people that I will not send out photos or go on cam then really I think that the idea of someone faking their sex is a little absurd... or perhpas irrelevant. I think most guys only fake their sex, masquerade as a woman, to get pics of other women in passing themselves off as a lesbian. If you send out personal pics then I can see that this could be a problem. I guess that then yes, you have to watch for clues and so on. If you don't send out personal stuff then the whole problem never really comes up. If a guy wants to pass himself off as a girl to cyber with me or just get dirty in general... well fine. I am not going to argue with him. If he pushes my buttons online then his real sex is irrelevant.
There is a lot of deception here online, here in Lush. I think presuming that this site represents real life is just too optimistic. I have a lot of friends and I am sure that certain things are not the same as they are here.
a) that most of the men have a penis over 7 inches in length
b) that most of the women I know are really bi (I am sure this is not true)
c) that all of them need sex at least as often as me
d) that they are all basically kinky in some way
Real life is out there, not in here.
Some of the arguments about if oral sex is a seperate sex act in itself and so on are really interesting but not really very on the point of the original post.
I agree with Mazza in that there is not a lot of teaching to be done when your partners are past a certain age (say early twenties) by then they either get it, think they have got it but are really lame or are not bothered to want to get it. Generally it is hard to teach anyone past that age. I would however amend that to when you are actually in a serious relationship. I think that in this case most partners, or those that are worth being in a serious relationship with, are willing to be "coached" in their technique. Taught is perhaps too strong. How do you tell a macho 35 year old who starts going down on you that he has no idea at all, "why don't you start off with basic licking?" That is not going to go well.
Sprite is also right though, in general another girl has a lot better idea of what is going on!!
French fries are usually eaten with your fingers and your mouth right? See we are back to where this post started!
It has been said before but it bears repeating.
Sometimes several times a day, sometimes a couple of weeks and nothing at all. It depends on work, on who I am with, on lots of things.
I even go back to adolescent habits sometimes and bathe and dress up in something sexy, do my hair and make up just to pleasure myself. Somehow it feels better if I make the effort.
This is basically the same question as "would you ever take money for sex", a girl's virginity is just a characteristic of the same argument.
This being the case well it would depend on circumstances at the moment but almost certainly no.
What though if you were with an older guy, or a rich guy, who plied you with presents and stuff trying to get to pop your cherry for the first time? I guess it comes down to a discussion on what is prostitution and what isn't.
Granted, you marry a rich baker who is enormously fat, uninterested in sex and just wants a trophy wife. He is also insanely possessive.
I wish the person who grants my wish wants it as much as I do... ;)
I will be a girl again soon? Great. It will be great to go back to being fifteen with all the naught experience I have now.
Seriously wouldn't that be something! What would you all do differently?
Thank Lisa for understanding.
Attention whore, damn that sounds awful. I didn't mean that women who do are that.
I don't know about stories but I LOVE the phrase "kissing under the cameltoe". I have a party this evening with some friends and we will probably all get a little out of order. One of the girls who will be there is someone I have been hitting on lately and she has already promised me that Christmas Eve will be special.
Now I have read this I am going to suggest she lets me kiss her "under the cameltoe".
Any other takers???
Would I pay? Well in Barcelona there are places where they have live sex shows. I have never seen two people having sex so perhaps I would pay then.
If two friends offered to do the same thing would I pay? Well if they were friends I am sure we could come to an arrangement that didn't involve money!!
I think at the right moment I would have no problem with this, I would take it as a complement. There are moments when I have made great efforts to look hot, to look sexy and having a guy regard me as a hot piece of ass would be just fine by me.
Not that he should be stupid enough to think I am dumb though. if he did he would be quickly brought to his senses.
I would have to agree... in the heat of the moment anything can happen.
If it is good hot messy sticky sex then getting come in my hair wouldn't bother me. If I am dressed up and blowing a guy for some fun and he comes on my hair on purpose then his evening is over!!
I like to look good and I like to look sexy but I would be very reluctant to be "obvious". I have flashed partners of mine sometimes but never (well almost never) strangers.
Without joking I think that at various times in my life I have been. I say this in all seriousness. I would think that most of us have been as well. It is normal that if someone desires you they will have fantasized about you.
Would I like to be plastered all over someone's wall or the wallpaper on their phone? Probably not, too public for me.
I have been to a few parties where there were strippers. I have been to a couple where the strippers were available for the girls who were there. I have even seen some of the girls go way too far with them but it is not something I would want to do. I would only do that if EVERYONE was doing it but there is always someone who is not pissed and is remembering everything. (often me)
I would really enjoy having a friend who knows about me and my "second life" here on Lush and on all the other sites I am on. Unfortunately that is not possible. I have had some online friends with whom I have shared different sites and stuff but no one I really know in real life.
I would have said it was impossible to keep count... wait hang on. I have a few friends in their thirties who can probably remember every single time they have had sex. One friend in particular tells me he has so little sex now he is married that is is still waiting to go past his count from when he was single after ten years of being married!!
