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Nyaeve80
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 45
Spain

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Unfortunately I have never seen anyone having sex in front of me. I have been next to a couple a few times but they were always in bed, under a towel or in complete darkness.

I have to confess I would love to watch other people have sex up close and dirty!!
Quote by Mazza
I think that the general consensus is that if you are keeping it secret and if it would upset your OH to find out that you were doing it, well... that is cheating...
This is it for me, is it wrong to cheat then? That is a different question. Personally I would say a little cheating is healthy.
Ok this is going to sound awful but what the hell.

Am I the only woman here who works or socializes with normal people? I would love to wear a tight sweater with no bra but if I did all my male friends would be with their eyes out on stops and all of my female friends would be sharpening their knives. I don't know anyone who goes around like this. All the woman who have said yes to this astound me. You really, honestly do this?

I am no prude but this is just a bit too much and not socially acceptable. Then the idea that some women are proud of their hard nipples showing? Just seems over the top to me.
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Looks are no good on their own to me, I like good personality too. But if you are going to be close to someone then you have got to find things physically that you like about them too, although not to the same strength of importance as that of the personality.MwqI1zaz1TKuuGVx


I think that about wraps it up for me too.
Well I think that for me a nice profile is good, as has been said by others. Then what attracts me is someone who can write. When I say that I mean someone who writes quite fast, can put together a good sentence and is not afraid of using more than one in a post.

So many men expect me to go into graphic detail about me and my fantasies whilst only telling me how hard they are!!
I think as a fantasy then perhaps it is a scenario that might be worth something. Having said that we would need to define the scenario. I would not fantasize about having to have sex with some 50 year old sleaze to pay the rent or stuff like that. However a good looking millionaire pays me an exhorbitant sum to have sex with him.... that could do it.

I did once go for a job interview in high summer on an industrial estate and I was surprised as I returned to my car to meet a damn near adolescent girl in a micro bikini, high heels and shades. She was covered in sun tan oil and obviously was a hooker. The image has stayed with me and taps into my exhibitionist fantasies. The idea of being dressed like that in public, on display and for sale is quite sexy. But of course in my fantasy it is not just anyone who will pick me up. So really no, being a whore is not a fantasy.
I don't really get the question, well I mean I understand it but can't imagine why you are asking it.

What do you want out of your relationship with him? If you want a friend then you act friend like, if you want a quick lay then act girlfriend like. If you want a partner stop right there as you are giving him the wrong signals.
Wow, what a lot of squirters/gushers.

I have to say I am not and never have been one of them. Now as I get older, 34 counts as old?? I have to say I don't even get as wet as I used to when I was younger. Some of my girlfriends have been really wet, I mean dripping wet when they were aroused but absolutely none have been a squirter.

It is something that I am equally intrigued about and I would love to find myself a partner who does this. I love all the squishy dirty stuff related to sex and squirting just has to be the bomb!
Hi Tina,
Well I used t do this in a webpage called Mplayer, it was a webcam site and people would create rooms and then pass the camera to different people to do different things.

I used to get off on cam and listen to and read all the comments. Sometimes I would make it a real show with sexy underwear over the top make up and so on. I had a lot of good friends on the site, big suprise right, but... but then I started to see photos of myself on other sites and I realised that I was going to be online forever in those images.

I stopped and in a way that is a shame. Now I only rarely go on cam with someone and usually that is with someone I know already really well.

What about you? Thinking of it?

I know that if you live in a big city there is a certain anonymity, there are thousands, hundreds of thousands of girls on cam around the world. Still you should think on it.
I think the answer to this is pretty obvious, it all depends on who you are chatting to. If the person you are with is not inspiring enough, if they use one word answers for things and so on then no. If I am with someone who, like me, likes to spin images with words and can really plug in to my imagination... well in this case the sky is the limit.
Everyone seems to have taken this as non consensual feeling up or pinching. I have had some of that and dealt with it... well the same most most of the others did hear, a swift kick and a loud voice.

I have also been felt up and pinched on a train by someone who I really wanted to be feeling and pinching. That was, in fact, a really fun experience and really a turn on. Anyone else?
I think in a relationship we all prostitute ourselves occasionally, it is just another form of persuasion. But blowing a guy just for a lift is too extreme for me, I value myself more. If he were going to give me the car...
I was very young, she was my cousin and a couple of years older than me. She was explaining about the sorts of things she got up to with her boyfriend, then she showed me. We were, of course, sober.
If there is already something going on with the other person, I know them or we are old lovers, or perhaps we have been flirting and I know where things are going then yes, why not. To a stranger no, probably not. That would depend on the stranger though as well.
I would be amazed that one of my friend would do such a thing, watch avidly and probably take a couple of pics with my phone for blackmail later on.
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Since some of the gals have opened the door here, I'll go ahead and chime in as a guy. Voyeur maybe, but since I'm a guy I already know how our warped minds think. I'm so much more interested in how the ladies minds work... what think about things. Plus it's very entertaining when they tear into the Lush knuckle-heads


I think this is the truth, guys want to find out what makes us tick, (so they can get into our knickers quicker) and that is great.
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I have to agree completely with Dancing_Doll and Sexy_Katt.

But I do like this quote which seems to fit this topic "We sometimes imagine we hate flattery, but we only hate the way we are flattered"


This is very true...
An upward curve would seem to be an advantage, I have never had the experience of a serious curve in any direction. I guess it wouldn't matter but... I really couldn't say.
I have done this quite a few times like a lot of people here. When with someone I don't normally go commando, nice underwear is all part of the look I think. Despite this when I want to provoke or I am asked I will happily take them off. The first time I did this was at school, my boyfriend dared me to take off my knickers so I did, right there in the playground. He carried them around all day! I think it made him horny thinking of me not wearing anything under my skirt. Later on out on the playing field he tried them on himself, that was hilarious.
Damn and I was actually going to answer the question, hardly seems appropriate after reading all of this
From behind, from on top... I think my mind in mine alone and I can fantasize about who I like. Of course I should be too busy to need to...
What's wrong with them? Hold on yes I get it, sweat pants are for sweating... I mean doing exercise. They are not for wearing everywhere, but I think they can be sexy.
Well that depends on the mood I am in and the guy's technique!!!
Never had the chance to try it but I am not sure I would... ah hell yes of course I would.

The guy and a toy works out great!
Hey Garrym of course sometimes we just want to fuck... ever considered that you just don't inspire that in us girls? I am not (just) being offensive, maybe you don't seem to be the type that can be trusted to not brag about it, not drag the girl's reputation into the mud, know what I mean?
I have tried fingers, vibrators and dildos but not a strap on. I would love to find someone to try this with. I need a strap on for my female partners anyway... any men out there game?
Quote by Ravyn
You do what you have to do, simple as that.


I think anyone in a sexless marriage should follow this advice.
Reasons? Well sometimes the guy attracts me... I attract him and then I find out he is married. His problem not mine. Has also happened once with another women.

My reasons? Totally hedonistic.