Where? If I get to choose deep deep inside me when I am so filled with his cock that when he does come it squirts out from around his still hard member and then gets everywhere.
If I can't choose, then I really don't mind.
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Nyaeve80
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 45
Spain
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Quote by SereneProdigy
if a girl sees a physically fit male, her positive reaction might not be purely visual, as opposed to us males. What she enjoys might be the fact it implies that the man is physically/sexually active, has a certain status, has ambitions, can attain his objectives, can defend the girl, takes care of himself, etc.
I think this is pretty fair, though the defend and take care of stuff is a little to far for me. Certainly I look further than the wrapping paper.
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The way I figure it, for example if a girl masturbates while watching a naked model, is that her whole imagination complements the visual aspect. She might imagine such a fit man, portraying the attributes I mentioned above, approaching her and displaying a special interest for her. For us men, it is simply curves, boobs and ass. Even myself, being kind and romantic, can't really deny that, at least for casual sex.
Am I right in my beliefs, or totally off the track? These are simply my personnal observations, so I wouldn't know for sure.
Other women can comment too, of course.
I would guess you are more or less right. Having said that there is no firm rule here. I have met someone and had a "curves, boobs, ass" reaction (as you describe it)
Can we ever generalise on these themes?
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I have had quite a few older men as partners. None of them showed their real age, though perhaps it was obvious, and it certainly didn't affect our relationship. I think it is a number.... but!
Try being a thirty something woman dating a much younger man! Then you really do have problems.
Try being a thirty something woman dating a much younger man! Then you really do have problems.
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No and I know there are quite a few here in Barcelona.
I think I would feel very inhibited, though the idea is very tempting. The only problem is that the guys I know who go always take along some very dodgy women. Well, they themselves are not exactly beautiful specimens but to get in a man has to take along a woman and vice versa. They tend to pick up some really rough women just to get in then ignore them. I have the feeling that the sort of people I would find in these clubs would be very disappointing.
I think I would feel very inhibited, though the idea is very tempting. The only problem is that the guys I know who go always take along some very dodgy women. Well, they themselves are not exactly beautiful specimens but to get in a man has to take along a woman and vice versa. They tend to pick up some really rough women just to get in then ignore them. I have the feeling that the sort of people I would find in these clubs would be very disappointing.
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I really think there is no rule on this one.
The days are gone when you only saw young women with older millionaires. Today you can often see younger men with older millionairesses!!
I have a good friend who has a regular partner who is much younger than her, she feels a little embarassed about it but not enough to stop her. If the woman in question is ok with it, why not?
I would be very happy to be with a younger man, not happened yet. Well it has but I mean not a big age difference.
The days are gone when you only saw young women with older millionaires. Today you can often see younger men with older millionairesses!!
I have a good friend who has a regular partner who is much younger than her, she feels a little embarassed about it but not enough to stop her. If the woman in question is ok with it, why not?
I would be very happy to be with a younger man, not happened yet. Well it has but I mean not a big age difference.
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I agree with the main line of this thread.
New girl - New toys
But... it is different if it is BDSM stuff, ropes, handcuffs and so on. But here I am talking about general stuff, I don't want to use the body harness your ex had, that would be weird.
At the same time it is ok for a guy to have his own toys, and I really mean his own. If you get off having a dildo up your ass during sex that is just great! So if the dildo is yours then that is fantastic.
(Though some girls will be freaked out so be careful)
New girl - New toys
But... it is different if it is BDSM stuff, ropes, handcuffs and so on. But here I am talking about general stuff, I don't want to use the body harness your ex had, that would be weird.
At the same time it is ok for a guy to have his own toys, and I really mean his own. If you get off having a dildo up your ass during sex that is just great! So if the dildo is yours then that is fantastic.
(Though some girls will be freaked out so be careful)
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That would be a yes, as long as the guy or girl I am with is happy with doing it, what the hell. I am up for just about anything.
Sometimes though you think someone is not that sort of person and they surprise you. I remember I was with a guy, a real Spanish macho type, who was very homophobic and so on. He was good in bed and totally managed to surprise me when he started to caress my asshole and then stuck first one then two fingers in. It was great and helped me along no end. Wouldn't let me do it to him though!
Sometimes though you think someone is not that sort of person and they surprise you. I remember I was with a guy, a real Spanish macho type, who was very homophobic and so on. He was good in bed and totally managed to surprise me when he started to caress my asshole and then stuck first one then two fingers in. It was great and helped me along no end. Wouldn't let me do it to him though!
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As has been said, I am both. But for me it is not dependent on the mood but dependent on the person. I have people in my love with whom (if I could) I would make love and others with whom I am happy to fuck.
Which is best? Well again that depends. Being in love and making love is the most wonderful thing imaginable... but I love a good fuck!
Which is best? Well again that depends. Being in love and making love is the most wonderful thing imaginable... but I love a good fuck!
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Yes I have done this, in fact I still do. I have certain "friends" of mine (men and women) who are all people I have had a relationship with in the past and if, and when, it is appropriate and convenient I call them, or they call me.
Fuck buddies sounds very crude but I suppose it is one way to name this.
Fuck buddies sounds very crude but I suppose it is one way to name this.
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Half cup bras are great, but ones that leave you nipples exposed, that is a half cup? Not where I shop. That sort of bra seems the sort of thing you get in a sex shop.
I have several half cup bras, ones that just about cover your nipple, they make me feel sexy because I know I look really hot in them. I don't like going without a bra and I don't like my nipples marking my top. That just seems a little loose and desperate.
I have several half cup bras, ones that just about cover your nipple, they make me feel sexy because I know I look really hot in them. I don't like going without a bra and I don't like my nipples marking my top. That just seems a little loose and desperate.
