Soon to be unattached hettish white male, autistic, systemic justice seeking, too serious, beginning to learn who I really am, moving, August, 2026 to my adopted home town. In the short-term I'm more interested in friendships - recovering - sadness/grief (I and we failed) - figuring out who I am more deeply before I commit to whatever I might commit to - in my future. No point in hiding it - I've had erectile dysfunction issues for 28 years. (I’ve written publicly and even was interviewed for an NPR station – a podcast – is listenable to – about ED.)  I'm My (soon to be ex) urologist - tells me - that I can - with medication - change that. I'm not rushing out - in that direction (yet). I'm a very tactile - person - for me "sex" - for 40+ years - has related a lot to sexual, sensual, and just hand holding, simple kissing types of touch- all of which I enjoy. "Intimacy" - to me - is human connection - which matters the most to me. Friends - caring respect - most important. I despise cigarette smoke - but have friends who smoke. I don't drink or use weed (have) - but everything's your choice. I limit a lot of what I eat - trying to listen to my body - it's much wiser than me. I welcome - human connection - I'm NO "sugar daddy" - nor into being used. Mutual respect - our differences can help me grow. Life is about seeking meaning - for me - not happiness. Sex - erotica + more I like - I'm not into controling others nor being controlled by them. Fantasies - sharing them - exploring bodily - what others appreciate and love is great. I've said "too much" - but that's part of who I am! Caring- sharing - being - loving - listening deeply etc. - yes!