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OnHere
1 month ago
Straight Female, 36
0 miles · Newark

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Quote by Mit

Blimey! I'm alright, thanks. Not at my partner's expense! If the aforementioned pieces of advice don't work for you, if you're truly in need of sex just so you won't be a virgin at your age anymore, and if your 'someone' won't have sex with you, you may either be with the wrong person or the wrong mindset. Otherwise, I'm not sure if I can say this here, hire someone who provides direct-contact services. If all else fails, seek professional help with a psychologist.

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Conversely, in hindsight, it feels like we're being played at, mates. Not to threadjack this post by jumping to conclusions. This happens in many chatrooms and forums. Someone posts something like a harmless damsel in distress, in need of help, venting out about personal issues. Yet they don't engage at all, or worse, they leave abruptly before anyone could even empathise. Afterwards, they return to post the copy-pasted statement or query that was not even proofread. They often only reply to keep the comments pouring in while disregarding substantive responses, such as sound advice. It's called sympathy-baiting or sadfishing.

As my partner used to say, 'Take (online) with a grain of salt. Give the benefit of the doubt with compassion. Just don't feed the trolls when you spot them!'

How do I get sex if I'm truly in need of sex?

Quote by OnHere

It frustrates me that I'm a woman but I have go through this not getting sex. Being with someone who won't have sex with me and having to waste my money on a prostate!

Nobody should have to waste their money on that. They should pay they're money on more important things .

Quote by Mit

Blimey! I'm alright, thanks. Not at my partner's expense! If the aforementioned pieces of advice don't work for you, if you're truly in need of sex just so you won't be a virgin at your age anymore, and if your 'someone' won't have sex with you, you may either be with the wrong person or the wrong mindset. Otherwise, I'm not sure if I can say this here, hire someone who provides direct-contact services. If all else fails, seek professional help with a psychologist.

ㅤ***

Conversely, in hindsight, it feels like we're being played at, mates. Not to threadjack this post by jumping to conclusions. This happens in many chatrooms and forums. Someone posts something like a harmless damsel in distress, in need of help, venting out about personal issues. Yet they don't engage at all, or worse, they leave abruptly before anyone could even empathise. Afterwards, they return to post the copy-pasted statement or query that was not even proofread. They often only reply to keep the comments pouring in while disregarding substantive responses, such as sound advice. It's called sympathy-baiting or sadfishing.

As my partner used to say, 'Take (online) with a grain of salt. Give the benefit of the doubt with compassion. Just don't feed the trolls when you spot them!'

It frustrates me that I'm a woman but I have go through this not getting sex. Being with someone who won't have sex with me and having to waste my money on a prostate!

Quote by Mit

I agree

It frustrates me that you won't have sex with me

It has been 16 hours since I asked this question but nobody answered it yet but most other people's was answered!🤬😡🤬😡

It frustrates me that even women that's considered to be overweight get sex but I don't even I'm not that overweight?