Lying is just another form of protection against pain, most of the people omit truth when they are afraid of the consequences of telling fact, they lie to protect themselves and to avoid punishment, fear of anger and judgment can also be the reason for lying, most of the people are unable to prepare themselves for someones anger and/or judgment, hence to avoid getting punished they simply try to get out of the situation by lying
In my experience if you put in enough time in the relationship and build a solid level of trust it can eventually be accomplished,and during that time you need to be building trust and having frank discussions about sex, what she likes, what you like, etc., introduce her to other new sexual concepts like mutual masturbation, food play, etc., to get her to start thinking out of the box.
The best time to initiate that discussion is in the heat of passion on the second or third time you have sex, be direct about it, tell, don't ask, most women respond well to a man who is confident and takes charge in bed.
As far as enjoyment, go slow , never rush and please use lots of lube, give her a drink or two beforehand to relax, spend plenty of time warming her up in front first with your fingers and tongue
Positively speaking, sex with friend is good, provided they both have good sex, in fact it's very good to have sex with a friend cause you know your friend very well as compared to new people one meets/dates, one of the finest things about making love with a friend is that there's lots of caring, there's openness and this opens new avenues in the relationships, all for good !
Ladies, do you like to making eye contact or just watching what you are doing?
Guys, how much eye contact do you like from a woman when she is going down on you? an occasional glance or more?
What is your very own specific fetish ?