62 year old male, married. My wife is the only person I have had sex with. My wife and I have not had sex more than say 4 times a year for many years now. Even when we were first married, we did not have much sex. I came to enjoy sexual tension, erotic frustration. In the early years of almost no sex I was frustrated and even angry at times. That changed - I accepted that sex drives can diminish over time and some are fueled by new relationship energy only to dwindle once a relationship is well established.

I consider myself bicurious and my fantasies suggest I am a Kinsey 1. I Have not had sex with a man. No interest unless my wife were to encourage it. That won't happen.

I also fantasize about my wife having sex with another man or a woman. Not sure I would want it in reality. Yet if it happened, I believe I would be capable of forgiveness. Depends on the circumstances. I know some people are fueled by new relationship energy. Over the years she has said some things that suggest to me she has thought about it. I feel she fantasizes about it and that is fine with me.

I do have a mild degree of erectile dysfunction which can be greatly exacerbated by certain medications for allergies, colds etc. Low dose Cialis works and with low dose the side-effects are tolerable. Makes self-pleasure much easier.

I am looking to chat with open minded people. Women. Men. Just chat. No meets, No hookups. Enjoy fantasy and interaction. but above all, I love my wife and thus fantasy stays fantasy. That is why I'm here.