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PeachesAndDiesel
4 days ago
Straight Male, 155
0 miles · London
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I have never heard of nipple size being a significant 'beauty' factor. It certainly wouldn't be an issue for me and I've not heard any remarks from male friends that would make me think it is. As with all these queries, physical appearance isn't really about an intimate relationship but about social competition. If your friend feels disadvantaged in that futile and ill-defined 'race' she's probably better having some counselling, formal or just from friends, to help her see that her priorities have drifted too far and need attention. Lots of luck in helping her get back to a healthy self-view.
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From the sound of it, that's uncomfortable (and won't have the desired visual effect). Do look for a local salon that will do professional waxing - although its uncomfortable at first, the regrowth is finer & more easily removed.
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If you're interested in measuring consistently, you need to take into account the angle of the erection from the body - which makes quite a lot of difference in the measurement.
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Although being rude about your ex can feel therapeutic, and may be justified, it's a losing game. Expressing the anger feeds the remnant of the relationship, keeping it burning, but without a positive end in view. It stops you accepting your own role in the breakdown of the relationship too. Moving on means releasing yourself from that emotional connection and seeing yourself as independent.
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Hi John, you need to add a little more here because, as you state it, there's really no problem. Someone coming onto you is hardly a problem. If you are committed to "Sarah" then you should be clear about that. If however you are finding yourself severely tempted by her attention, then you need to spend a little time figuring out what your feelings are. Then once you know what you want (and that could be tough), it's time to be open and clear with both women - as Kitsune wisely points out.
And, sure, you could lose the trust of one or both women in the process. But that must be their choice to make, not yours. Otherwise any future relations with them are based on a kind of deception and so lack informed consent.
Good luck!
And, sure, you could lose the trust of one or both women in the process. But that must be their choice to make, not yours. Otherwise any future relations with them are based on a kind of deception and so lack informed consent.
Good luck!
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It is a lovely sensuous pleasure & something I always enjoy.
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It definitely does not matter at all. Although some guys are turned on by a particular physique (and will answer differently), most guys love the body of the woman or man that they love - because what makes a body so beautiful to us is the sense of intimacy and connection. Questions of this kind are often posted on lush and the answers have always been reassuring for anyone who is worried about their body image. There's no ideal body or ideal person, except in advertising land, where none of us actually live.
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It's your body. Consult with a doctor to find out what the risks are - scarring, loss of feeling, etc - and possible alternatives. Check with trustworthy people that you have a realistic body image. Remember that you don't have to look a certain way to please other people. And then make an informed choice.
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It's good to see a lot of supportive replies. It's always simple: it's about the person, not the glasses, clothes, shoes, makeup and jewellery. All those things can be fun and they definitely all send messages - but the message that is broadcast is often different from the one that is intended.
So I say - be yourself. Not just in a narrow way but in the fullest sense of living who you are and working to become who you aspire to be. Glasses are just props. But being yourself is the charm.
Good luck!
So I say - be yourself. Not just in a narrow way but in the fullest sense of living who you are and working to become who you aspire to be. Glasses are just props. But being yourself is the charm.
Good luck!
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Hollywood or Brazilian is very much appreciated. The sensation of skin-to-skin whilst licking is delightful.
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Very sorry to hear that's been your experience. It does seem to be the case that there's a good deal of borish behaviour on lush, I guess because it's a site about fantasies and the investment and consequences are less than in daily life. But that doesn't mean that the hurt is unreal, of course. I hope your feelings mend over time - but to answer your question, I wouldn't enjoy that. And I think that plenty of people on here are more mature and realise there are real people and real feelings that they are dealing with and act accordingly. /hugs/
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Sexiness is more about attitude than body shape - and although these very muscular women aren't immediately 'attractive', they do send a clear message about who these women are and how they want to be appreciated & I think that's pretty sexy.
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Don't take it too seriously. Bear in mind there's a huge range of personalities on lush - not everyone is here for the fun writing /laughs/. If someone does something you don't much like (like bug you with private chat requests), I recommend just not responding. Don't give the sillier people the attention they are trying to get. And welcome!
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Seems pointless to me - but if that's your thing, its fine by me.
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Don't be concerned. It's not a race, its about relationships and it's worth taking time over. Sure, people do make a song and dance about sex, which makes you wonder if you are inadequate. But, in case it isn't obvious, a good deal of that posturing is all about flaunting social status - as measured by sexual success. Like any other kind of social competition, making other people feel bad about themselves and unable to measure up is all part of the ridiculous game.
But don't take this as saying that it is OK to sit back passively and vaguely hope that things will happen, either! Get into the habit of dressing well, expressing yourself well, listening to people, making yourself an attractive person to hang out with. And figure out how to make someone else understand that you're interested in them.
[I wish someone had said this to me thirty-something years ago!]
But don't take this as saying that it is OK to sit back passively and vaguely hope that things will happen, either! Get into the habit of dressing well, expressing yourself well, listening to people, making yourself an attractive person to hang out with. And figure out how to make someone else understand that you're interested in them.
[I wish someone had said this to me thirty-something years ago!]
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Always. I would not consider asking to be friends without checking the profile.
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My impression is that 'pigeon-holing' into 'gay' or 'bisexual' isn't useful here. Those categories are simply shorthand for boundaries that may or may not be deeply rooted. From your short description it sounds like your friend's boundaries are shifting around, maybe for the kind of reasons other people here have suggested here. If you fancy dating him, just tell him and see where it goes.
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Definitely not. I find it a bit of a peculiar tradition.
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It would never have occurred to me that it might not be OK lol
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Hmmm, I couldn't answer this myself despite having one for more decades than I care to remember!