By and large I try not to fantasise about my female friends, I don't think it is respectful of boundaries or helpful in my relationships. When my thoughts head off on that direction, which happens from time to time, I don't let the fantasy develop into anything explicit. It's not that I feel guilty about my thoughts, it's just that I prefer to have a bit of control over my imagination so that I can better manage my relationships. The only time they go too far is when I am half-asleep, and I've probably fantasised about half of my female friends one time or another because of that. I don't worry about it much as it's quite diffuse and lacks any potency.
I am sure you'll find that men are far broader and more varied in their tastes than the media might have you believe. Shortness is not an issue for me - and I would suspect most men would find it a positive factor. And much the same can be said for any physical quality. And most of the guys I know, myself included, would (privately) rate personality as more important.
It's an excellent and much needed change to the law. I hope it is part of a trend for all countries. Time will tell if it is well-drafted. As for the penalties, I would need to see the full tariff compared with other forms of sexual assault - but I would have thought the high end should be considered equivalent to .
It might be a deal-breaker but it might not. Because it's not about what she (or he) did in the past but whether its part of them now and going forwards.
Bisexuality is fine by me. I regard other people's sexuality as personal and confidential; meaning that even when it is shared with you it doesn't give you a right to pass on the information and certainly it is not a basis for making judgements.
Sounds like it is pleasurable but not intensely so for him. It's not unusual. I'd say adapt your play together so it's an element of foreplay rather than a climax.
None of the answers in the poll are good fits. Yes, strong feelings but not ones I would describe as loving, passionate but lacking in tenderness.
No. It's not something with any appeal.
I suggest asking the guys, I'm guessing plenty of guys are very sensitive there, in a nice way.
I believe there people who call themselves psychics. The interesting question is why they say they possess remarkable gifts? It's always good to look at who wins and who loses when people spin stories about themselves.
It's pretty clear he's cooled off. It's one to let go. Good luck.
Because I liked the sensitivity - and its nicer for someone sucking,
Ask him. But, in the future, don't share this stuff.
It's my strong impression that most guys measure in a way they find flattering and then exaggerate. Based on my experiences.
It's just fine, although you need to be careful about dryness. And also it's worth a bit of preparation to avoid ruining bedlinen or fabrics!
No, I wouldn't. But it sounds like he is insecure. Talk with him heart to heart to see if you can find trust between the two of you. (Otherwise the relationship is likely to fail & you're looking at damage limitation.)
I've never had any inhibitions about it. And I like to know what I taste like so I can adjust sex play to include or avoid it. Relax, it's all good.
