I become less interested in a sex story if everything and everyone is top-level perfect, or is described too (uh, encapsulatory? - - is that a word?).  Like, a simple passing phrase for each of his or her attributes: 

- perfect big firm tits

- perfect round ass

- perfect face

- perfect hair

- the shortest schoolgirl miniskirt, at the office.

- the perfect specimen of manhood, he is fit as all anything, successful, rich, large in the trousers (“when soft, he carried in his pants what other men carried when achingly erect, and had the perfect ass which any woman would want to bite into like a statue made of chocolate . . .”)

Sure, it’s sex fantasy and we do get that urge to fuck those perfect-looking bodies, so we want to have them in our sex stories.

But personally it kind of bores me when all the characters in every story are model-gorgeous.

The same with their lifestyles.  Sometimes I read relationship situations which might be (considered to be) ideal, but which feel like it’s so normal for everyone involved.    Like, a female protagonist describing her lez sex partners coming over for their daily lez sex, and the protagonist describes her husband coming home and also getting a treat by having sex with the woman’s lez-sex partners.  It’s described as such an easy throwaway thing!   “Oh yes and my husband gets to have us both if he comes home and finds us still going at each other”.

For me it reads as so matter-of-fact, it feels unspecial to me.  Here I am witnessing the lives of couples and their extra lovers who just ‘do’ each other; the writer includes it as backstory and just moves on to - - to another current example of that ideal interaction.

(“Edward had sex with both of us, all night long.  In the morning I woke him up with a blowjob; Natalie joined me and soon Edward was ready for more!”)

For me it conjures the image of someone playing dolls.     I have read parts of stories where the acts are not described but only mentioned.     It’s like reading the TV guide synopsis instead of watching the show.

I tend to glaze over a bit when a story I’m reading starts going that way.    

But that’s me; you asked.   

For other readers, it might get them right where they want it, that sexy fantasy world with the fuckable people we masturbated about in our thoughts, getting us There.

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Please do not post account details. I have edited your post.

I apologize for that. I didn’t realize I was going against site rules. That’s what I get for agreeing to terms and conditions without reading them. I will avoid doing that.

I get those messages too. I point out to them that even IF I was into BDSM, we live (something like) 1400 km away from each other.

[ oh gheeeesh even as I am typing this out I just got a notification of a message from ‘Removed by admin’ — so yes, it’s a silly bother, these Dom messages. ]

I agree with HarryLarry that they could very likely scam a sub-type person, in ways like “Empty your bank account and send it to me to show your devotion “, which is very concerning.

[ I checked the message; it sounds like it was translated from another language — and very poorly, I might add.

Removed by admin. wrote this message:

“Hello handsome… what kind of stories do you got interest on here ? Would you like to talk off here. Removed by admin”.

I wrote back asking about ‘ ’, do we exist in 1905? I also asked what language she was using, cuz it sure isn’t English. ]

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It frustrates me that I'm a woman but I have go through this not getting sex. Being with someone who won't have sex with me and having to waste my money on a prostate!

Your relationship status says ‘With Someone’. You’re not doing things ‘with’ the person you’re ’With’ ? As in, you two are with each other and never had sex ever?

. They often only reply to keep the comments pouring in while disregarding substantive responses, such as sound advice. It's called sympathy-baiting or sadfishing.

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As my partner used to say, 'Take (online) with a grain of salt. Give the benefit of the doubt with compassion. Just don't feed the trolls when you spot them!'

Wow, Mit — sad fishing! I hadn’t heard of that activity before you mentioned it. It does feel like maybe that’s the case here. I’ll keep an eye out, to see if they post anything of substance, or just those simple responses of ‘The Sadfisherman’. LOL!

Thanks, Mit !

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Ok

I agree with Darkroot50. In your reply you said simply OK, which is fine, I can’t criticize your choices, but maybe he (and I) are inviting you to say more, share a bit more, describe the reasons you think you haven’t scored a sex partner, and we’d hear you and say something back, in as much detail as you’d also like to share.

Heck, maybe in social settings where people might hook up, maybe you don’t want ‘just hookups’, maybe you want more. We won’t know more about you until you tell us. We’re on-side with you. “Ok”.

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Well, if you just come up with a theme and play it out improvising, then everything should be okay. And alcohol will help.

I agree! My wife and I come up with little scenes which we act out in our apartment, both of us pretending and improvising within the idea — ways of dressing and acting as if we are, like, in a public beach bar or that we crashed a party and shocked everyone by how forward we are with each other or how ‘showy’ my wife is dressed — and when we get hot and start groping each other and we start fucking (“ohmygod everyone is watching us fuck!”), we feel like we’re doing something so out of character, but together in our own apartment!

We’ve had many different lusty rule-breaking and sometimes scenes together, in the safety of our own home.

Our simple roleplays together are amazing!

“Ernest Has A Threesome”

and

“Ernest: Fucked Silly”

‘Spider-Man: PornCumming’

Couples filming a friend fucking his wife regularly.

I remember one from XNXX where after every time the friend finished inside the wife’s pussy, the hubby would film himself licking his buddy’s freshly unloaded Come right from his wife’s pussy! Probably with the sex buddy watching him lap up his come load! Oh man, that buddy owns that couple! So hot! I’d do that with my wife any day!

Porn with a Black Dude sucking another Black Dude’s hard Cock ! I haven’t seen it often, only one-minute clips, but when I see them, oh Mann I get so fuckn hard! I’d put it on repeat and godd my orgasm was intense when I shot my load watching Black brothers going down on their buddy’s Cock!

Follow up:

The first time I visited Kathy at her place, we were in her bedroom (standing, not in bed), and Kathy left her bedroom for a minute.  She already knew about my penchant for her panties, so . . .

To be notorious, immediately I went to her dirty laundry hamper and dug out two pairs of her undies.  I kept one pair in my hand and put the other ones over my face, crotch over my nose and mouth, breathing in Kathy’s Scent!    I stayed that way until she returned.

She was mortified when she saw me WEARING her underwear on my face!  “Oh my god, Robert!”

We laughed!   Kathy said she was embarrassed cuz of course she was worried if I chose a pair she might deem as ‘not okay’, but also it was sexy, her seeing me delighted by her Personals, that way!

I’m still a panty perv for my Kathy!

Ratty Panties 


When my wife Kathy (Katt) and I were first seeing each other and learning about each other, one night on the phone Katt asked me a question about my preferences for women’s underwear, like what I might get turned on by seeing on a woman’s body.

I replied, “Your rattiest most worn-out functional panties.”

“Really!  Really?”

“Oh yes!  I mean, sure, those sexy lacy ones look great on the Victoria Secret models, but I want your underwear which you wear all the time, your go-to’s, hugged against you all day long.   THOSE I wanna see!”

For Kathy, it was a revelation!

“So, you wanna see me in my ‘ratty panties’, eh . . . ?”

“Yeah. . . !”

(Here’s a photo of one pair of Kathy’s ‘Ratty Panties’, all with the waistband coming apart from being pulled on so many times during their useful life, hugged against Kathy’s Special Place all day.   They were a greyish colour when they were new, now they’re all faded and worn out of shape.    Mmmmm baby! )