My bf - "Sex is the cherry on the icecream"
Heck, I rarely get cherries on my icecream, maybe thats why I get friend-zoned by all the attractive guys?
A slice of baguette with butter, emmental or boursin, smoked salmon, olives, some split pea soup, a glass of sparkling cider or champagne, surrounded by friends/family
very good musician and writer!
Seems nice, pretty profile pic, randomly this is my second time posting right after him?
Although not from this site, this summer I planned to meet two guys I met online. I have known them for 3 years, by now know their full names, address, sent them stuff in mail, video chatted, etc. Although the meetings sadly didnt work out, if I were to find someone here that could get passed all my security barriers until I trusted them like that, I would consider meeting them. But my security barriers are pretty strong.
:O I was reading this thread and it made absolutely no sense until the topic of topic came up! CHOCOLATE!!!
Finished my second story! woooo
Uhh If secret, no one knows, no one cares. If suspected, can be creepy or flattering depending on how the guy acts. If known but not accepted (aka not relationship), can make it very awkward for the girl.
He knows I read, doesn't know I write, if he found out every single one of my stories would be read many times over by him (those posted and those not)
Was trying to figure out how to spell alley, and typed "dark alley" into google, first link I clicked was an erotic story. >.>
If you want a book that'll make you think:
The Lymond Chronicles. The first book is called the Game of Kings.
It's historical fiction, each book is set in a different part of Europe.
If you want a book with a deep plot and action:
The Sword of Truth. The first book is called Wizard's First Rule, I read the second book first but went back and really enjoyed the first book too.
If you want a book that'll turn you on, click the upper left hand corner of this website. That should take you to the homepage of Lush.
Bullying?
You ask if someone has ever been bullied.
Bullying - you have to realize that bullying isn't as simple as one person making fun of another, and the victim getting hurt.
I lived in japan for two years when I was little, and I was bullied by the girl who was my only friend. She decided who I would play with and when, who I could be friendly with, what I would do after school, and for clubs. She would hit me, tell me to hit her back, tell me I was weak and feeble and should hit harder, shout at me how dare I hit her and hit me again. She made my life hell and despised me greatly.
People who have never been in this sort of situation will understand nothing of why the victim doesn't run to a parent, or teacher, or some authority.
In my case, she was my only friend, the person who looked after me, and having her hate me openly, even though she despised me so much, was the worst possible situation. I wanted her to like me so badly. There was no way any parent could help me without bring me to more shame anyway.
The way a potential victim reacts, or interprets the action of a potential bully is what creates bullies. Usually, a bully will be someone that doesn't respect the victim. If the victim gains any sort of respect, he is no longer a victim. The "bullying" might continue, but it's a fight and the victim is then an enemy.
Confidence, ignoring, acting cool, laughing it off, these are often suggested as solutions to end bullying, and it's because they are traits widely respected by a number of people.
That doesn't mean that they work - since the bully can interpret actions however he wants. Confidence - can be taken for not knowing their standing, ignoring - can be taken for cowardice, acting cool - can be taken for looking down on the bully, laughing it off - can be taken for not taking the bully seriously (aka requiring a display of power by the bully).
Anyways trying not to make this too long, I hope what I said helps and PM me if you want to talk more.