We recently went to a holiday party, everyone there was of the vanilla friendship type and have no clue about our involvement in the lifestyle fun. After several bottles of homemade wine, wife became very flirty and danced with a few guys. She seemed to be particularly friendly with one, I noticed them talking quietly and alone a few times. Once we got home she was quite buzzed and very frisky, we had a great night of love making and wild sex. The next morning I inquired what had her all worked up, she blushed at first and tried to avoid the subject; over the weekend we had a few drinks and I waited until she was buzzed and pressed her about the other night. she finally fessed up she was very attracted to the one guy and had always had a thing for him and would really like to ruck him and would have that night if he made a move... The kicker, its her best friend's husband. He and I are friends because of the ladies, never have done anything alone, should I tell him? make move so he knows she is interested and I'm cool with it? we have always kept things separated but this is an interesting new twist!
Thoughts? advice? any experience?