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PittHDcpl724
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 155
United States

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Quote by Pegasus4
I fully agree with Bethany. Doing anything behind the other half's back is really asking for trouble. We keep our swinging lifestyle strictly separate from vanilla and close friends. In the situation you describe, unless you have a good idea that both friends are acceptable to your lifestyle and have harboured fantasies of involving others in their sex life, I wouldn't even consider discussing it further with them.


good points...ty
Quote by BethanyFrasier
First off, if you approach it the way you're thinking, you'll probably wind up breaking up the friendship between your wife and her friend, and possibly the friend's marriage. Going behind a friend's back is the worst kind of trouble you can ask for! It sounds like your wife is a bit shy and you're the outgoing one in the relationship (it's just the opposite with me). Your wife needs to clue her friend in on your open lifestyle, and see how she responds. Maybe she has always wanted to give her husband a FFM threesome, or maybe it might end up with a partner-swap. But offering the husband your wife to fuck behind his wife's back is asking for trouble. I've only done this once, and it was only to get revenge on a girl who had stabbed me in the back. I've regretted doing it ever since, and still pray she never finds out I fucked her husband, because she'd literally kill me!



great response thank you, I was just going to see his reaction we wouldn't do anything secretly, not our thing. Wife would never entertain a married guy without the spouse knowing
We recently went to a holiday party, everyone there was of the vanilla friendship type and have no clue about our involvement in the lifestyle fun. After several bottles of homemade wine, wife became very flirty and danced with a few guys. She seemed to be particularly friendly with one, I noticed them talking quietly and alone a few times. Once we got home she was quite buzzed and very frisky, we had a great night of love making and wild sex. The next morning I inquired what had her all worked up, she blushed at first and tried to avoid the subject; over the weekend we had a few drinks and I waited until she was buzzed and pressed her about the other night. she finally fessed up she was very attracted to the one guy and had always had a thing for him and would really like to ruck him and would have that night if he made a move... The kicker, its her best friend's husband. He and I are friends because of the ladies, never have done anything alone, should I tell him? make move so he knows she is interested and I'm cool with it? we have always kept things separated but this is an interesting new twist!

Thoughts? advice? any experience?