I find this topic very interesting. The differences in attraction and arousal in women is something I have noticed a lot recently. The differences in what women who identify with different sexual preferences seem to enjoy seeing/watching vs doing ect. I'm bisexual and married to a man, but I am rarely physical attracted to men and prefer sex with women. Interestingly though I've noticed that many lesbians find looking at men and porn with men in it much more enjoyable than I do.
To each their own it is all art and one persons likes will likely be completely different from another. I find it funny that MsYumm doesn't like piercings and I like almost all of them, yet she likes nose piercings and I think they're kind of gross. It does give some perspective though LOL I have my ears, nipples and tongue done and my tongue is gauged, but I don't like the way other more decorative piercings look when they are gauged. I have 8 tattoos and plans to get more. I also want my lower lip pierced, my hood pierced and maybe more after that. I have put some thought into doing a suspension, but I think I might do a corset piercing first.
Lately I've found I really like kisses and nips along my spine and upper back. Just behind my ears is always a fav too. I'm not a big fan of deep mouth kisses, but I like biting so that's probably why.
Internal vibration doesn't do much for me, so I doubt it would be worthwhile in my case. I agree with Nikki being touched in public is a huge thrill on it's own, so the descretion is actually a draw back for me.
OMG barely peeked. Ewe yuck yuck yuck yuck yuck yuck!!! Creepy crawlies gross me out!
There is definitely a double standard, but I my self wouldn't be upset if my hubby had toys. The only way it could bother me at all is if we hadn't been having sex because of it or if he blew a ton of $ on them.
It was very interesting to me though that when my son reached late teens, and was going through an insane amount of hair conditioner lol, I suggested to hubby that he ask him if he wanted a sleeve and my hubby thought I had completely lost my mind. I figured it was cheaper and less mess than the conditioner and all the showers he was taking. I guess I was wrong lol.
I can't think of any situation where I wouldn't see red at seeing my hubby enjoying anyone else.
I don't enjoy watching girls do it and two guys would be far worse.
Bad Touch - Bloodhound Gang
An example of the occasional wisdom of Beavis and Butthead from the newest episode:
Beavis - "This video must be made by one of those art student chicks that you could probably score with if you just told them all their ideas where great."
There are times when I'm not sure. Usually due to me having a particularly strong or long orgasm. When my muscles are spasming around him sometimes I just can't tell if he came. The majority of the time he cums because I am spasming and squeezing around him so tightly, so it really is a mute point, but I can't help but ask to be sure. It's such a happy surprise when he says no and we aren't done yet. Anyways I sometimes enjoy the feeling of the cum dribbling out of me more than his spasms while he cums. Most specifically when I have collapsed on my stomach and I am still cumming as I push it out to dribble over my clit.
A nice cozy bed is most convenient, but the shower is so much better and the shower at the gym is the best.
Face, biceps then ass and abs if I can see them. Those are the only features I am all that interested in on a guy.
There was a time that I didn't really care for oral, but that was mostly due to not knowing what I needed or being able to convey it. Every woman is different and needs different things. Some women can't have clitoral orgasms (I am not one of them), so I'm sure for them oral sex does feel pointless. Even more so if they have a deep G spot. My only suggestion would be to ask if you could try oral on her while using a toy for penetration to give her both sensations.
Also I know when I was young I had issues with getting overly sensitive at times and getting over stimulated can cause problems too.
The best thing you can do, if she is willing to try it that is, would be to ask yes or no questions during about what you are doing. Help her figure out what she likes. Coaxing her into moving her hips can be very helpful too. Good Luck
