Hello, in the past I leaned toward submissive with men, and dominant with women. I hadn't ever done serious BDSM, just some dabbling, and fun every now and again.
However the current boyfriend has expressed a wish to be dominated, which isn't hard for me to do, except that I fight the urge to be submissive around men.
He is very willing to submit, and I have taken on the role once, briefly. He would make an excellent submissive, and the idea of taking control really turns me on. (As long as we reverse every now and again.)
I need to learn more about being a dom, if this is a relationship that is going to last. Which is why I'm here, now.