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You will get a chance. Plenty of girls would sell a limb to have a guy like you. :')
I know because about a week a go i was one of them. Until i said yes to dating one of my friends which I'm having second thoughts about :/
And yeah i over think way too much...
x x x
she's gorgeous. Sending me signs or am I seeing things?
I know because about a week a go i was one of them. Until i said yes to dating one of my friends which I'm having second thoughts about :/
And yeah i over think way too much...
x x x
she's gorgeous. Sending me signs or am I seeing things?
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Okay so anyway, I got over my feelings of this girl. However, she is one of my best friends and there's something wrong.
I feel completely useless- I've tried talking to her about it, but she just pushes me away and says "nothing's wrong". She says herself she randomly cries some nights, I wish I knew why. I can't get her to talk about it, and she's making it seem like the whole world is against her.
Can I help her?
Thanks for the advice.
I feel completely useless- I've tried talking to her about it, but she just pushes me away and says "nothing's wrong". She says herself she randomly cries some nights, I wish I knew why. I can't get her to talk about it, and she's making it seem like the whole world is against her.
Can I help her?
Thanks for the advice.
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What are your favourite lyrics in any song? Doesn't have to be put in any particular criteria: Can be something that makes you laugh, cry, sing along to etc.
Mine are probably
"It was not your fault but mine, and it was your heart on the line, I really fucked it up this time, didn't I my dear?"
That being in Little Lion man by Mumford & Sons
Don't know whether this will take off, but fuck it, you only live once and I'm curious to see if it's just me with favourite lyrics.
Mine are probably
"It was not your fault but mine, and it was your heart on the line, I really fucked it up this time, didn't I my dear?"
That being in Little Lion man by Mumford & Sons
Don't know whether this will take off, but fuck it, you only live once and I'm curious to see if it's just me with favourite lyrics.
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One doesn't necessarily exclude the other: It's more what takes priority. A man can be average looking with a great personality; similarly they can be great looking and a studier of the functionality and efficiency of overhead wind fans...
You may say you can enjoy the company of women with a bubbly personality, but I myself distinguish between my male and female friends. The vibe you get from each sex is different, for instance with women I feel compelled to avoid conversation topics such as sport, other women (in an "I'd bang her" sense) and disgusting feats, like loud farts. With other blokes, these conversation topics are mostly at the forefront of our minds (though I don't want to seem unsophisticated; these aren't the only topics I talk about!). I imagine it is similar with women, but I wouldn't know.
Men and women can also give each other good advice, whereas any advice you acquire from the same sex will be mostly educated guesswork.
It's not necessary to pick up men that look like shrek, personality or no. I also find the truly ugly women have terrible personalities, and imagine it would be the same for men.
But, as they say, beauty is skin-deep, and if you truly like someone, regardless of what sense that is in (friend, partner etc.) you will ignore their physical flaws and concentrate on what is good about them.
This is why I look down upon people who will dump a guy or girl based purely on weight, or hair colour etc. You liked them when they were fat/skinny before, their personality (I assume) has not changed, but because your lover is not physically perfect, you feel the need to ditch them? Vanessa Feltz particularly I feel sorry for, her divorce was terrible. Even when she lost the weight, her husband still wanted to separate. It really does go to show marriage in the modern age is flawed.
But I'm detracting from the point, and the amount of typing I have done about beauty and physical attraction, you probably think I'm some ugly troll :L
You may say you can enjoy the company of women with a bubbly personality, but I myself distinguish between my male and female friends. The vibe you get from each sex is different, for instance with women I feel compelled to avoid conversation topics such as sport, other women (in an "I'd bang her" sense) and disgusting feats, like loud farts. With other blokes, these conversation topics are mostly at the forefront of our minds (though I don't want to seem unsophisticated; these aren't the only topics I talk about!). I imagine it is similar with women, but I wouldn't know.
Men and women can also give each other good advice, whereas any advice you acquire from the same sex will be mostly educated guesswork.
It's not necessary to pick up men that look like shrek, personality or no. I also find the truly ugly women have terrible personalities, and imagine it would be the same for men.
But, as they say, beauty is skin-deep, and if you truly like someone, regardless of what sense that is in (friend, partner etc.) you will ignore their physical flaws and concentrate on what is good about them.
This is why I look down upon people who will dump a guy or girl based purely on weight, or hair colour etc. You liked them when they were fat/skinny before, their personality (I assume) has not changed, but because your lover is not physically perfect, you feel the need to ditch them? Vanessa Feltz particularly I feel sorry for, her divorce was terrible. Even when she lost the weight, her husband still wanted to separate. It really does go to show marriage in the modern age is flawed.
But I'm detracting from the point, and the amount of typing I have done about beauty and physical attraction, you probably think I'm some ugly troll :L
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Is there really any way out of the friend zone? If she looks at you as a friend, anything you do, say or give to her will be taken in a friendly way. Flowers? You're such a great friend! Cards for birthday, christmas and easter? Brilliant friend! Tell her how you feel? Abyss...
I really am interested to find out if anyone has escaped the friend zone. For me, I feel like the girl I love won't take me seriously enough, because even I consider her in a much higher league than my own, which has developed into an unhealthy self-consciousness where I cannot help but think people are thinking the worst about me.
Maybe you don't care. I'm just here to find out if anyone has ditched the "friend" label and become much more than that.
It will be one of the biggest regrets of my life if I pass up this girl. I have a bad case of oneism, but she is smart, funny, friendly, laid-back and most of all, beautiful.
Wow, I gush a lot.
Any advice? The worst part is, she isn't happy with her current boyfriend, and I can't help but feel she deserves better...
I really am interested to find out if anyone has escaped the friend zone. For me, I feel like the girl I love won't take me seriously enough, because even I consider her in a much higher league than my own, which has developed into an unhealthy self-consciousness where I cannot help but think people are thinking the worst about me.
Maybe you don't care. I'm just here to find out if anyone has ditched the "friend" label and become much more than that.
It will be one of the biggest regrets of my life if I pass up this girl. I have a bad case of oneism, but she is smart, funny, friendly, laid-back and most of all, beautiful.
Wow, I gush a lot.
Any advice? The worst part is, she isn't happy with her current boyfriend, and I can't help but feel she deserves better...
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I go to college, and there's a girl I really love. Not just like, literally love. I never want to be with anyone else, I feel one thousand times happier when I'm around her, and I feel like I don't want to spend the rest of my life with anyone else.
But there are three problems.
Firstly, she already has a boyfriend, and they've been going out for quite a long time.
Secondly, I don't know if she feels the same way, but probably not.
Lastly, I don't want to tell her because it might ruin our friendship.
The case of unrequited love is the most painful experience I have ever been through in my life. It's so painful not knowing whether there is anything there, but I feel like I couldn't love another girl.
What do I do? I know people will tell me to move on, but it isn't as easy as that.
I started smoking to ease the stress of my life (partly due to this horrible situation). People advise me not to, but I can't find another way through the day.
But there are three problems.
Firstly, she already has a boyfriend, and they've been going out for quite a long time.
Secondly, I don't know if she feels the same way, but probably not.
Lastly, I don't want to tell her because it might ruin our friendship.
The case of unrequited love is the most painful experience I have ever been through in my life. It's so painful not knowing whether there is anything there, but I feel like I couldn't love another girl.
What do I do? I know people will tell me to move on, but it isn't as easy as that.
I started smoking to ease the stress of my life (partly due to this horrible situation). People advise me not to, but I can't find another way through the day.