Couldn’t care less. Open communication is key, protection and all relevant information about STD’s should be disclosed before coupling, that’s just basic respect and safety.

I prefer the intimacy and personalization a more committed relationship brings. Flings leave me pretty unfulfilled in both mind and body.

Meeting a new partner; Tinder or a bar?

Anxious to see how fast there’s a new speaker. This could get really ugly for a long time. The Republicans are starkly divided and will likely not have enough votes to push someone through on either side of their internal squabble. Democrats will be courted by the less extreme conservatives but likely won’t vote for either side. Lots of procedural congressional actions require a speaker. Interm only has so much power. Sitting back with some popcorn on this infighting.

One I never even considered till 5 years ago, my long time partner was bent over the bed and we had just finished some fun doggy action. Then she lifted her feet and began giving me an amazing footjob out of nowhere. Instantly became one of my favorite fetishes.

Costume play as well. Love getting dressed up and roleplaying.

And if I’m really lucky, both at once.

No, avoiding death for now.

Do you find feet sexy? Yes or no?

Yes, downstairs apart neighbor. The landlord had recently ‘installed solid wood floors.’ By that I mean they tore up the carpets that were put over the floors in the 70’s. Those carpets were the sole insulation. Neighbor had a shit fit and would come upstairs and scream if we walked. She threatened my kid and we put in for a restraining order, which the judge oddly denied because “it’s only a threat. You can’t get a restraining order unless they physically attack you first.”

We wound up causing so much hell at this point that the landlord let us break the lease without penalties. I put a chicken bomb under a floorboard when I moved out. For those unaware, you put raw chicken in milk in a ziplock bag. After a few weeks the gasses build up inside the bag enough that it pops and releases the absolute foulest smelling slurry you can imagine.

HYE intentionally destroyed property for revenge?

R&R. Exotic places are financially out of reach and impossible with my family situation.

If your partner lost all desire for sex, would you still be with them? Follow up, if your partner lost the desire for sex do you believe they would be open to you having other partners?

We were getting married soon. I had moved across the country to get us set up. She was Catholic at the time and although we had done a lot of fooling around we had not yet had penetrative sex.

She had her last college break before graduation and flew out for a few days to visit me. We were making out and she grabbed me by the fingertips, sliding them down her panties. “Feel how wet I am. I was dripping on the plane thinking about your fingers touching me. I love when you fuck me with your hands.”

Not going to lie here, I came in my pants to those words. Think I walked a foot taller for a year after that.

I also adore when she just tells me, “Thank you,” after we’re done.

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I believe the point of this thread was to point out how Organized Retail Crime is contributing to the decline of neighborhoods. The article states it was a contributing factor to already poor performing stores, not the main reason.

It is easier and cheaper for them to walk away than it is to invest in additional security and changes to the location to make it perform better.

It’s always about money, tax write offs, and investors.

That was the point of the thread, but the point I've been making again and again is that's provably untrue. The factor's as to why the stores are closing are not actually disclosed in any way. What's being said is directly from the marketing department of Target, who has no legal obligation to tell the truth here.

As you said, the stores were already performing poorly in areas with a dense population. The store was being mismanaged already. The statement was made directed at stockholders and to save face. You sink a bunch of local businesses and pull out, you look like the bad guy. They are the bad guys. This is damage mitigation and needs to be called out as such.

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This is the 443 word (courtesy of MS Word) version of no; you will not substantiate your "Because at the end of the day, the local economy would run better with 20 small businesses than one big one." claim,

Listen, Chryse. I'm done with you for tonight. [Mod response: Thank the high holy lord of fuck for that. Deleting all these off-topic citational dick-measuring posts is annoying.]

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Now, you claim that a minimum wage increase will "give a huge percentage of the population a chance at actually finding something they enjoy and can do with a good quality of life."

That is an interesting claim. Can you substantiate it with data or evidence? I ask because Sweden operates without a nationally implemented minimum wage yet seems to be doing well.

Correction for context: All employers in Sweden are mandated to meet with collective bargaining meetings with the employees. Essentially the whole country is unionized by law. Sweden has a much lower wealth gap than America, higher average buying power for families, and rated number 1 in quality of life in the world. It's one of the most liberal economies in the world and has the lowest crime rates. The wealthiest pay as much as 51% in taxes, which decentives large corporations or accumulating massive wealth. Thank you for bringing Sweden into this argument to make my point.

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Raising the minimum wage is unlikely to change that business model.

The business model? No. The only thing that will change that is treating corporate wrongdoing like actual crimes. The company knowingly releases poison in the water supply? You don't fine them. You arrest them and put them in jail. Company falsely reports their taxes? You put the CEO and entire board in jail for life. We can put a man in prison for life for hedge clippers, why can't we put 25 million dollars in theft away for life? Wage theft should be prosecuted like normal retail theft. We don't fine the business, we put them in jail. That's how you fix this business model.

Minimum wage increases empower workers, reduce corporate profits, and give a huge percentage of the population a chance at actually finding something they enjoy and can do with a good quality of life.

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So, you will provide no sources to substantiate your "Because at the end of the day, the local economy would run better with 20 small businesses than one big one." claim, correct?

Honestly, I doubt your ability to follow. Which metric do you want that justified? Taxes collected? Money put back into the local community? Jobs created? Revenue generated? Distribution of wealth? Consumer happiness?

Let's go back to Fred's grocery store. Locally owned, locally operated. Fred's grocery store pays a higher tax % than corporations, who only paid 6% of America's federal taxes while consuming 56% of our economic earnings. American small businesses are harder to track by IRS metric standards as they are tied to many people's personal incomes, but rough estimates by the IRS suggest around 26% of tax income is from small businesses. The latter part of the IRS income comes from middle and upper-middle-class families, a percentage that is shrinking rapidly due to the disappearing middle class and less taxable families and businesses being around. Most of the middle and upper middle class families are the small business owners, thus making their tax burdern really punching above it's weight in terms of how much it earns.

Now Fred will pay his workers and probably take home a good amount of pay. But Fred does not take home a huge percentage of profits. Most is invested back into the business as small businesses run much tighter P&L's than large businesses. Also, if a small business isn't profitable it fails. If a Corporation isn't profitable it's still the largest earning company in the world. So Fred must actually succeed and pay taxes to run a business and large corporations do not.

Fred's grocery store also keeps the earnings local, almost exclusively dealing with other small businesses and suppliers. At no point does Fred's profit's disappear into a nebulous corporate moneybag used to pay out CEO's and stockholders.

Employee satisfaction and customer satisfaction is also much higher in local shops, the only consumer issue being the price as people like Fred don't have the buying power to drive down prices (that the government refuses to regulate).

For sources there are so many resources on the internet but you need a book, not small articles, to really get the scope.

Poverty Paradox is really great at spelling these things out in simple terms. I would suggest my text books but I don't think you will be buying $120 books (thanks to another corporation that uses a zero choice option to jack up prices to absurd levels for required reading to graduate).

How the Economy Grows and Why it Crashes really explores the cycle of the rich ruining the economy and small businesses saving it.

Walmart Effect another really good one. Let me know when you finished reading them. Those last few are only $15-$20 each.

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No assumptions here. It is a fact that Amazon is a publicly traded company. Its common stock is listed on the Nasdaq Global Select Market under the symbol AMZN. It publishes its earnings. The information is available.

Awesome! You know where I got Amazon's earning report from? Do you know what's in an earning report or what they are required to show? I do. It's my job to know these things. And they can very broadly report things such as 'losses' while keeping the cards extremely close to their chest as to what is causing those losses.

So a company like Amazon or, say Target, could make the claim that losses are from shrinkage but actually show stockholders next to now specific information on the subject. They can close 4 stores but tell them whatever they want as to why.

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Is this another claim you will not substantiate with data or information? Let me add that by information, I am not referring to what you believe.

So you blindly go on what some CEO says despite the fact that they don't back it up with evidence? Or that all evidence show's that retail theft is pretty much the same level it always is? (See page 1 on this topic for that link). Or that all evidence that is contrary to this is solely supplied by a voluntary survey run by corporations and lobbyists who have not actually revealed their hard numbers to the public?

You want evidence? Push for legislation that demands companies fully reveal all financial transactions. Full open book policy. Otherwise, you're taking the word of their marketing department.

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Sources, please.

Besides my honors degree in accounting and economics? What, you want my text books? I doubt you would read them.

What are you looking for, the effects on the lower and middle class as corporations expand and boom? The relatively easy to understand concept of basing a community's economy on one market means it's extremely easy to fail and be exploited by that business?

Perhaps you could google 'how small businesses help the economy'. There you might learn fun facts like '66% of all new jobs in the last 25 years were made by small businesses' or 'small businesses are much better at distributing funds in a community than large corporations'.

It's really, like, business school first day knowledge that small businesses are better for the economy.

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The migration of spending from physical stores to virtual stores is something the consumer controls, and the "free" delivery factored into the cost of the goods purchased makes it a real challenge for the Walmarts and Targets. The point made earlier that Amazon likely has lower shrinkage than physical stores is a real Amazon advantage.

All assumptions are based on no facts. Amazon doesn't share any shrinkage reports. They did lose 2.7 billion last year while making 9% more in sales. They also are heavily subsidized by the government and pay little to nothing in taxes.

Strictly speaking, Amazon is doing much worse than Walmart and Target, both companies generated a profit last year. However, stock price has nothing to do with a company's profitability but its ability to manipulate market values. Because, once again, a corporation's job isn't to make a profit. It's to make the stock price go up.

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No, the argument is about the destructive nature of organized retail crime.

No, it's a red hearing argument to save face for retailers having to answer why four stores in a busy city are bleeding.

Little economy 101 for you, the stock market setup is not sustainable. People want returns on investments. For returns you need a business to grow. However unlimited growth is impossible. Every single corporation has the same job, make the stock more valuable. Nothing more, nothing less. Every decision made, every press release is done to those ends alone.

So when they say, "Oh no, it's theft!" They are diverting from the fact that they simply can't grow anymore. They want stockholders (Those 10% of Americans with expendable wealth) to feel like it's a fixable problem. But it's not theft, all the data in the world that you choose to ignore shows that's not the problem. The biggest problem corporations have is empowered workers with options. And understaffed store hemorrhages money. Huge amounts of OT, unsatisfied customers, stock not making it onto the selling room floor. And it's a problem that builds on itself because when you are understaffed more people quit.

Honestly, the entire US economy is built on a lie that it's growing and will continue to do so. Corporations are the root cause of modern poverty and that's the real destructive nature. Not 10 guys stealing Nikes together.

Raise the minimum wage. It drops the crime rate every time.

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One of the biggest issues relating to this situation is the loss of employment that results. Most “big box” stores, in this case Target, have 150-250 employees (or associates, if you prefer that term) in full and part-time positions.

It takes 20-30 new, not existing, small retailers to provide that level of employment, just to offset one Target store.

Since online retailers are already providing the gateway between manufacturers and buyer, which is what online retail platforms are, just gateways, the small retailers have little opportunity at success.

At the end of the day, the consumer controls what happens by where they spend their money, and more is going to online every year.

What industries are going to provide enough employment to cover those job losses, especially in a low income, high crime area?

This is an excellent example of how big box retailers have enslaved the economy by being unchecked. By providing people with less and less disposable income consumers have less and less legitimate options.

Can we afford to by groceries from Fred's local market? It's an extra $50 this week because he can't compete with Target and Walmart's buying power. So even if I want to support Fred and his market can I afford an extra $200 a month to do so? And now Target and Walmart are getting priced out by Amazon, which hilariously now have people casting them in the same victim roll that was formerly occupied by actual small businesses.

Maybe our economy should be more focused on smaller retailers to provide more options to people. Maybe Amazon should pay more taxes than Fred and his grocery store. By forcing Amazon (or Target or Walmart) to pay higher tax rate it levels the playing field for the small guys.

Because at the end of the day, the local economy would run better with 20 small businesses than one big one.

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Yes, your points above have nothing to do with organized retail crime.

Only the root cause of it. Your points show that you have no interest in preventing retail crime, just punishment.

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If the politicians want retailers to remain in communities, the politicians need to correct the conditions that cause retailers to leave communities.

Like poverty? Cool. Start enforcing wage theft laws and raise the minimum wage. Investing money in social services to provide diapers and formula to parents in these locations takes down the incentive to steal the most stolen items. It does a hell of a lot more than blaming the specter of retail crime for all the problems.

Or you could admit that these arguments have nothing to do with the communities. The greatest concern is corporate profits.

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Here is a piece from the U.S. Chamber of Commerce. Here is a relevant selection that relates, I think, to our point of contention.

 

States also need to adjust the thresholds for the value of goods stolen to trigger a felony charge to prevent thieves from avoiding prosecution and heavier charges. States can further address this through passing legislation allowing for the aggregation of a pattern of organized thefts across multiple jurisdictions over a period of time.

 

This loops back to the $1,000 ceiling on non-jailable retail theft in New York I posted. The zero bail policy and the heightened misdemeanor ceiling make organized retail crime more attractive by making potential punishment less severe.

US Chamber of Commerce, great name to make it sound like an official government body. Instead it's a retail lobbying group, funded by some of the wealthiest CEO's and corporations in America.

Now on to the body of the article you linked... Oh wait. It's not an article. It's literally that one sentence you quoted. Crack up job there. You've found a less reliable source than DailyMail which I personally find impressive.

But hey, let's start adjusting everything for inflation. Starting with minimum wage. Since every single study shows lowering poverty is the greatest tool for lowering all forms of crime across the board.

Or we could adjust white-collar fines for inflation. Those go decades without an update. Or better yet, make it based directly off how much was stolen so they would always have to pay more than they earned.

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They are everywhere, from residential houses and garages, strip malls and storage units to large warehouses disguised as legitimate businesses. They hide well and sell items individually on multiple platforms and websites.

Organized crime is not stupid, it’s very clever and difficult to prove, much like white collar crime. It’s just dealing in a different economy.

Just like the boogey man and Chinese spies. All over, it's all their fault. But we can't find any. Very tricky. I'm sure there are a few, but the numbers don't support any evidence of this happening en masse. If you want to save more retail locations, contact your congressman about the importance of enforcing anti-monopoly laws against Amazon.

I haven’t owned a TV proper in like two decades. Every time I try and watch a network show anymore it feels like my brain is screaming.

Would you rather eat a gallon of fresh Mayo or a cup of expired mayo?

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Senator Menendez.

So… is this an argument to you? Left and right are full of criminals. Maybe they wouldn’t be if everyone didn’t protect their criminals. Trump is a criminal, Menedez is too. They can share a cell.

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Organized Retail Crime is not done by poor shoplifters taking one or two items. They are coordinated groups that utilize multiple resources to steal high value goods, from mainly large retailers, to sell online through various platforms. They target goods that are easy to sell- clothes, appliances, tools, electronics for example. Some are gangs that sell to the people in their neighborhoods, making a profit on the goods, most are more organized and take the stolen items to the online seller. Many have warehouses full of stolen merchandise that they sell online.

It can have very detrimental consequences on neighborhoods, and bitch all you want, the retailer is there to make profits by selling products, and if profit suffers substantially the retailer closes. It applies to businesses of all sizes, not just the corporate giants.

Regardless of your politics, it is a real problem adding to the poverty and decay of numerous neighborhoods in multiple cities, and a growing challenge to overcome.

It’s a crime generated by another crime. Why are there poor communities? Why do people need to rely on third party discount websites instead of the retailers?

Property crimes rise with poverty. America is funneling more money into low percentage crime deterrents than dealing with poverty.

And for all these talks on warehouses and highly organized gangs the police have made 11 arrests in three years tied to organized retail crimes and have yet to actually prove these warehouses exist. The supply chain and mass consumerism of stolen goods would be impossible to hide.

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New York City is not alone. Mayor Johnson announced Wednesday that Chicago is facing a projected $538 million budget deficit for 2024 – a financial burden his administration blamed partly on the growing cost of caring for migrants.

Chicago spent a budget of $437,932,791 for jails last year. That's incarceration alone. Then you add the billion dollar police budget, lawyers, judges, ect...

There. I've solved Chicago's budget. By focusing on violent crimes and redirecting budgets to social services (an extremely well documented way to actually lower crime rates) you've fixed your budget shortfall.

Or do you want to talk about how you arrest a person for stealing a pack of diapers and keeping them in jail for 6 months waiting for a trial costs tax payers about $50,000?

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