If you mean sexually, no. If you mean my partner invited a friend to something that was a date and it was fun for all, yes.

HYE started drinking after you woke up in the morning?

Face, eyes if you want more specific.

If you could wake up tomorrow and one instrument would be mastered…. Which instrument would you pick?

Pegging

Blabbed some family gossip as a kid. Moral of the story, don’t gossip in front of 4 year olds. They repeat a lot.

HYE blown up a weather balloon over the ocean with a missile to hide the fact you caused a red scare?

Greedy-> Dredge

“You people dont want to work.” “… can’t manage their money.” “… are too sensitive.”

Anything along those lines where an older generation, especially the Boomers, try to frame the young las though we had the same circumstances and benefits they had.

It’s not that I can’t manage my money, it’s that you destroyed the housing market and new home owners cannot afford down payments.

We “don’t want to work.” In fact productivity in the younger generation is leaps and bounds more than it was 20-30 years ago. We do more, work more hours, and take home less money.

Are we ungrateful? I don’t think so. We can look back and see how you games the system for maximum payout for yourselves while destroying the economy for the young and fucking over the planet. Your generation doesn’t have to plan for food and water shortages for your kids. You’ll be dead before the consequences of your lifestyle really hit.

In about the 60’s and 70’s there was this big push about bras being an act of the patriarchy. In reality it’s about 350 years of women having support and comfort when they have large tits.

As far as the study goes, it shows ill-fitting bras can lead to cancer. A further study showed I’ll-fitting clothes in general, including for things likes men’s underwear, can contribute to cancer growth.

I wouldn’t blame a garment designed by women, for women as the problem. It’s cheap materials and never having a professional fitting. The bra itself has also become a staple, but many women would find older styles of support garments such as stays and corsets to be more comfortable.

As a friendly reminder of anyone has issues with corsets, the intent of the garment is not waste training. This was extremely rare historically and is practiced by a small and community today. A proper corset helps with back support, posture, and breast discomfort.

For the ladies with smaller breasts, rock how you will. In all honesty bras are more cosmetic and less functional the smaller your chest size. Especially in your case, if your bra is pinching or leaving indents at the end of the day it’s the wrong size.

All women, get a professional fitting at least once for your cup size. Your breasts change throughout the month, the rate of change varies lady to lady. You might want a few bras of different sizes to round out your wardrobe. Last tip, if you have large tits, don’t buy your bra from cheap Asian companies. The fits are terrible and the sizing is wonky as hell.

-From an amateur tailor and the partner of a well endowed lady who’s taught me a lot about garments.

My sweet, adorable Uncle telling us stories of all the shit they did in college with my Dad. Like, from my Dad I understood. My Uncle comes off like Mr. Rogers.

HYE kept a big secret from your closest friends?

Catcher in the Motherfucking Rye… which is of no surprise to anyone paying attention.

Is there any ‘classic literature’ that you feel was pushed hard on the young despite having no relevance to them?

Pay online. Recently had to order new checks after 15 years… tells you the frequency I used them.

Uncomfortably full or slightly hungry?

Chadwick Boseman. Young, incredibly generous to worthwhile charities, super kind in every interview I saw him in. Unlike a lot of young celebrity deaths, had nothing to do with lifestyle. Just shit luck.

Question from my partner after a weird discussion of anal bleaching…. Do you have a preferred butthole color? Do you know anyone that does?

Lottery, love Jackson. I have attempted to read Sound and Thunder at least a dozen times, it muddles my head and I never quite understand what’s going on. The first person section by the neurodivergent fellow wrecks my brain.

Pet rat or pet snake?

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Urban dictionary defines smudged as "being jerked off by a ghost." So, no.

HYE gone barefoot in the snow?

Urban dictionary… nooooooo. Cleansing a room or person with incense, normally safe or cedar.

Have not planned a party for a friend, period. I’m bad at making contacts.

HYE been led astray by urban dictionary?

Capitalism.

If you could attend any live performance in history, what would it be?

In The Limerick game those who would cheat,

Must bend the knee and lick the Mod’s feet.

Polyamory

Yeah, have a half sister who is all in on Trumpism. Don’t talk with her anymore. Even if I wanted to try and ignore it she brought it up constantly.

HYE smudged?

Phylactery

Meat, we’re designed to be omnivores. But not too much meat, especially American diets overload in protein.

For your meatless burger…. Artificial meat product (like Beyond) or veggie/bean burger?

😐Um… friends didn’t offend me on a personal level so I’ll go with that.

Mary Shelly or Shirley Jackson?

Neither, I’m proud of what I’ve done.

Chicken fried steak or chicken fried chicken?

Bird, don’t want the possibility of running into my own floating feces.

changing question, this is HYE

HYE had a falling out over something you see in hindsight was really stupid?

NE California. Quite a few. Area I live in has voluntarily given back more land than anywhere in the country, which is great. Still plenty to do, still extreme racial prejudice in the area. Had a high up government official recently censored and lost office after going on a racist tirade against the indigenous groups in the area.

Ever been part of a ‘good trouble’ protest? (Technically illegal what you were doing)

Bad idea, just super offensive if I even try. Really bad at it.

HYE been informed what your racial background it by a stranger? Like they are guessing but just going to pretend like it’s a fact.

Not anything on a schedule. Frequent treats though.

Are racial based fetishes riding the line of racism?

Treats -> Streak

Nope, but that for a lack of ever seeking a diagnosis. Also don’t like the current‘clinical depression’ umbrella. Way too broad and it’s all treated the same way. If you have a chemical imbalance or a vast history of trauma, they push the same pills.

Does our mental health system ignore trauma and focus on medications?

Graciously pass, more so about not wanting to try something new after I feel like I just got my feet under me. Was play flirted with a lot by some gay cooks I worked with. They knew I was in a long term relationship so it everyone knew it was going anywhere. Might consider the option in the future, our relationship is open.

Have you ever changed your sexual identity before? Such as going from straight to bi.

Stuff crust, but not deep dish. Just love that cheese stick and oregano oily crust.

With your pizza… beer or pop?

At first. But I can’t hold back my anti-capitalism beliefs for too many encounters and tend to speak my mind if someone is saying something I perceive as racist/sexist/ignorant. Normally things go south after a few times meeting people because of this. The friends that stick, stick hard.

Would you feel comfortable meeting someone you met online for a hookup? (Safety precautions such as meeting in public spaces in place)