Quote by Magical_felix
"C'mon, just the tip, baby."
The original compromising position.
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Over 90 days ago
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Quote by ledlizzy55
Can you girls telll me how you feel about anal sex and how I can persuade my wife to try it?
I really don't enjoy anal sex. It's something that I didn't like the first time I tried it and subsequent attempts haven't changed my mind about it. Of course, your wife may be one of those women who enjoy anal sex and just needs to try it one time to understand what's been missing from her life all this time. Who knows?
Here's my plan for you. It very likely that your wife hasn't been exposed to the joys of anal sex. She probably just thinks of it as something you want to do to her rather than do with her. The fact that you feel you have to persuade her to do it shows that it's not something she's comfortable with. You have to help her change that attitude.
Buy your wife a strap on with a ten or twelve inch dildo. Have her put it on, cover the dildo with ky jelly and fuck you in the ass with it. Show her that it's not so bad having a big stiff cock up the ass. Keep doing this until she begins to think that having a dick up the ass might not be so bad. Point out that your own dick isn't anywhere near as big as the one she's using on you. That's why it's important to get a large enough dildo. It needs to be substantially bigger than your own penis. Surely, you can point out, if you can take that massive thing up the poop chute, she can handle your normal sized penis.
Try not to bleed too much or cry too loud when you use the bathroom afterwards though. The idea is to appear to be enjoying yourself.
Alternately, you could promise to buy her a diamond necklace. Maybe the diamond necklace should be plan A.
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Quote by sprite
being a sub is not necessarily about pain - i know plenty of D/s couples not into the pain aspect of bdsm, but rather the psychological. although my wife and i are not 'in the lifestyle' we both have a healthy enjoyment of bdsm in our bedroom play - that said, she prefers to keep the pain play light, more of a token thing, during our sessions; nipple clamps, spankings, that kind of thing.
There are also elements of bondage and domination that don't include any pain at all, but the question is about learning to enjoy pain I think. At least as I understand it. I'm really not sure what a painslut is. I suppose that one can build up a tolerance for pain, and part of a relationship is exploring boundaries and experimenting with tolerances. But if a person is really not into pain at all, why would they want to enter into an S&M type of relationship?
Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
Pain is one of those things that everyone has a threshold for, and it doesn't really go beyond that.
That's true, I suppose, but some people like pain and some people don't. It's more of a question of how they experience it. Someone said that it's like hot sauce. Everyone gets the same burn from hot sauce, but some people enjoy the sensation while others don't. I couldn't explain to anyone who hated hot sauce why I like it. I'm not sure that I understand why anyone doesn't. On the other hand, there are some hot sauces that are too much for me.
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Quote by littlebirdie92
I'm curious how lush thinks about this. Do you think Masters/Doms can take a sub, who doesn't like or isn't very interested in pain, and morph them into complete painsluts? Are painsluts just born with that subconcious tendency to enjoy masochistic things?
I'd like to understand the mentality of a Master who can help mold subs into this. How do you increase someones interest in pain? Do you know of people who took curiosities and ran with that or, tops that pressure their subs into trying it and things evolve from there?
Likewise Subs, if your Dom is not into pain, but you are, do you think it is possible to help him "grow" into liking it more?
I can't imagine anyone who is not interested in pain wanting to be either a sub or a dom. Why would they? What would be the point in doing something you don't enjoy? If a person is exploring their sexuality and find that they don't like something in particular, why would they want to continue doing it?
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Are you referring to this story? http://www.lushstories.com/stories/group-sex/the-owl-goes-deutsch.aspx
I really liked it.
I really liked it.
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Quote by Amnesia
If you are a sub and you are reading this, you fail as a submissive.
If you are a dom and you are reading this, if you look down i have a subs read this thread. This is testing the waters for an idea i have, of starting a little scavenger hunt for subs.
Subs will be instructed to find pictures, look at certain profiles, read certain storys. Varies things, this is just good fun. Subs need attention, need affection and need to be played with. I want to see if any doms are interested with any ideas or what not.
Now we just gotta find some subs..........
Poser 
On your knees worm. 
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Quote by ByronLord
. But I have banged a preacher's wife or two because the husband is a bigoted loathsome wretch.
That would go under wife lover stories I think. If she tied him up and forced him to watch while you had sex wtih her, that would be a cuckold story. If I understand it correctly. In the wife lover's story, he wouldn't have to even be aware that you were banging his wife, but in the cuckold story he'd have to be involved.
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Quote by WellMadeMale
Start out with helping her realize one of her fantasies... unless you know, it involves you swallowing 9 inches of hard asian cock, while being buttfucked by three guys taking turns and then your face painted with cum by all four dudes.
Oddly, that would be helping her realize one of my fantasies.
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Quote by naughtynurse
I made this one, and it's a better recipe then that one.
If it's got gelatin, instant pudding and cream cheese in it, it's not a key lime pie. It's something, and it may be delicious, but it's not a key lime pie. It also has Persian lime juice. It's more like a lime cheesecake. Key lime pie is made with key limes. Key Limes You can put some zest in for more flavor, but I never felt the need to do that.
gelatin, instant pudding and cream cheese sacrilege
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Quote by naughtynurse
how about a little key lime pie?
Make a graham cracker crust, or buy one already made.
Whisk together 4 egg yolks and 1 can of sweetened condensed milk then whisk in 1/2 cup of key lime juice. Don't use the green or Persian lime, they're not the same thing, then fold in 2 beaten egg whites. (Use the other 2 egg whites to make an egg white omelet)
Put the filling into the pie crust, spreading it evenly, and bake it in a 350 degree F. oven about twenty minutes.
The people who originally made the pie didn't bake it at all, but now people do because they're afraid of salmonella. It will actually set up in the refrigerator without any baking, but the egg yolks will still be raw, and you might get sick.
Put some whipped cream on it if you want to. If you don't want to use the 2 egg whites to make an omelet, but want to make meringue, you can do that too. Find someone who knows how and ask them for a recipe. Key lime pie should have whipped cream.
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There are people who want some sort of religion as part of their lives. It doesn't really matter if it's Scientology, Christianity or Islam. L. Ron wasn't that bad a fiction writer, in my opinion. He wrote as well as the guys who wrote the Bible, the Koran and the Book of Mormon. He wanted to start a new religion, and he started one. That's more than I've achieved. I can't seem to get Ruthieology off the ground. Worship me, damn it. Worship me now.
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Quote by Kimasa
I think when you get older it's a form of foreplay.
'Felt up' to me means some creep having a quick grab on a crowded train or in a club etc, if that's the case then no I don't enjoy it.
That's what I think of the term 'felt up,' as well, someone grabbing and pawing at me. I think being touched is an important part of foreplay, but the term 'felt up' has too many bad connotations.
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I really like cocks when I'm sexually aroused. I don't like them when some guy just comes up and whips his out. Posting a cock pic on your profile is like showing your cock to someone the first time you meet them. Would you walk up to a girl in a bar and just pull out your dick? Save the cock shots for when you're asked for them.
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Quote by BigBossMan22
I have a serious question or concerns. This isnt easy coming out like this. I'm uncircumcised meaning for those who don't know what that means, means my cock doesn't have a head. Is this a turn off for you girls? Have you ever been with a guy who was uncircumcised? Also Im afraid I wont be good or pleasure with some girls in the future. I'm really shy about it. Please don't judge me. Just want honest opinions.
Being uncircumcised means not having had your foreskin removed. The foreskin is skin that covers the head of a man's penis. A penis is the male sex organ. If you have a penis try pulling back the foreskin. Do you see a helmet shaped thing with a hole at the end? That's the head. If you don't have one, it's not because you're uncircumcised, it's because the tip of your penis is missing. Go look now and report back to me.
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Shaun of the Dead is the zombie film I enjoyed the most. Zombieland was good too. I'm not sure if 28 Days Later counts as a zombie movie, but I liked that one too. The people with the rage weren't the living dead, just victims of the virus.
Of the Romero movies, I liked Dawn of the Dead best. I didn't care much for any of the remakes, and I saw Night of the Living Dead before I was really old enough to appreciate it.
I love zombie films in general though, and I'm pretty easy to please.
Of the Romero movies, I liked Dawn of the Dead best. I didn't care much for any of the remakes, and I saw Night of the Living Dead before I was really old enough to appreciate it.
I love zombie films in general though, and I'm pretty easy to please.
