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James Deen until he started getting into being rough - I guess that pays better

Yes, liked his early POV work too, where he would talk to the co star, building a rapport.

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Mia Hurley

Dark haired girls do have a certain charm

When it gets you there, it’s a winner.

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A good old hair brush is better than some fancy expensive things.

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Emmanuelle Arsan

Wow, Emmanuelle Arsan wrote a lot. Did not realize the "Emmanuelle", was linked to the her work.

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I was babysitting. The child was asleep. I was bored so I browsed through their library and found “A Man with a Maid”. I haven’t stopped reading erotica since.

Have you dressed up as a maid ever? ;)

Dudley noted. Thank you for the reminder

Will be mindful in future

Do I ask people to edit?

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A reminder to please ensure all replies adhere to site rules re underage activity. No mentions pre 16 thanks.

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Peyton Place

Nice to learn about the franchise.

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Story of O

Those kinky French societies

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Last time I was on this site I had a friend who was a Dominatrix in a committed BDSM relationship. She hated 50 Shades as she said it was an abusive relationship masquerading as BDSM. I trusted her judgement so that kind of put me off.

Yes, its the characters individual status in society that makes me wonder about the true power dynamics and motivations.

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50 Shades.
I think a most people in my generation started with this series of books.
Shame about the film, though.

Have yet to read or see the films. Once I read that the plot was a copy of the twilight saga, it put me off. Also maybe my socialist's leaning.

Good advice is good advice. The Victorians did conquer a lot of the world with their knowledge I guess

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Quite a lot of it. I still have my notes somewhere. It was quite frank about the joy to be found, albeit in slightly convoluted Victorian terms.

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full diaries of Anais Nin

Anais Nin, was she one of the lovers or Henry Miller too? Excellent choice.

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Day of the Jackal by Fredrick Forsyth. The plot is focused on a professional assassin hired to kill Charles de Gaulle, the President of France.

There’s a scene where a woman seduces a government official to reveal information crucial to carrying out the plot.

I remember reading it when I was very young and visualizing the woman in black lingerie in the act of seduction. It was probably the first time I used text to masturbate.

Day of the Jackal by Fredrick Forsyth is a classic book. Nice way to start.

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"Consider This: A Spinster Aunt's Advice to Young Women Everywhere."

A very rare, possibly unique, Victorian exploration of the joys to be found in sapphic love. No clue where my father acquired it or where it disappeared to, more's the pity.

LOL, a Spinsters Aunt no less. Was there any advice you took onboard?

Lol. Remember the spear and rats. Lol

The cover of the book: The Intimate Memoir of Dame Jennie Everleigh

What was your first erotic text or book? Where did you first read it? One would imagine it was your father's Penthouse/Playboy etc readers' columns. Recall an ex telling me hers was reading her mother's rather racy novels that she would leave behind after bath time. Mine was by accident, a couple of books left on a bus: The Intimate Memoir of Dame Jennie Everleigh vol 3 and 5. Recall reading the books in secret with a huge erection and worried I would be spotted or miss my stop.

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Beverley Lynne

That true, that we see an extra dimension in the performers we like. As you say Beverley Lynne had comedian timing.

The mysteries of the opposite sex

Did look to see if this question was asked before. Hope its original enough.

What is your fav non sex toy, toy? Thinking back to the early days where it was either difficult to purchase a toy, or one was too young / innocent to know where to go, what did you use? To begin, In place of a paddle, hair brush. In place of a hand cuffs, silk scarf. Are their non sex toys that you prefer over the dedicated device?

Excellent busty taste

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Many people in North America base much of their lives on a text that is similarly old and whose relevance is just as open to question (yes, I mean The Bible). I am of the opinion that any religious or philosophical text probably has some wisdom to impart if we approach with an open mind and a willingness to learn about it and its context. None of them is perfect, though, and I think we need to look at multiple sources of wisdom rather than locking ourselves rigidly into one.

Quite correct that the older text that have stood the test of time do have a solid foundation. A base that we should build on. Just surprises me that the same base questions are still asked. Glad to hear that the kama sutra is still know on this site

Quite correct it was never meant to be a dedicated sex manual. Its interesting how its been used / seen. Western friends (older) see it as a list of sex positions to pull a muscle too, the younger a link it to quickly to tartaric. From the West (Iran to India), its still "used", via word of mouth. Recall an Iman giving a (male) newly wed a few pointers. How foreplay and listening to your partner was all out from the Kama Sutra.

In a provocative conversation / click bate, saw a clip still asking does size count? My mind raced back to the Kama Sutra where this was answered 2000+ years ago. From that example, realized that there were many common questions still asked and have answers in the Kama Sutra. Thus has the text been lost to the digital age, or do you think it still has it place?

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Through the 90s pornstars were an endless blur and the connectivity on the Internet kept it that way. Then in the early 2000s I discovered Desirae Spencer from Naughty at Home.

I found her very sexy in the fishing boat sequence and that’s when I connected. At that time I found the idea of undressing a woman very sexy as also a woman in lingerie.

Seeing her breasts and nipples through the translucent fabric was heaven.

She came across as the quintessential girl next door.

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Wendy Taylor (still do😜)

Very cheeky smile

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Growing up in Britain in the 70s there was only one - Mary Millington.

Original blonde;)

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Nina Hartley

What a long career Nina H. has had. A pity she retired. Did you prefer her per or post breast augmentation?

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Jo Guest

Wow, that is a blast from the UK past. Nice choice. Always preferred bustier girls till her;)