With over 31 years of marriage, 26 years of swinging life, and 13 years in an open marriage, I'm convinced that a healthy sex life contributes to mental, emotional, and physical well-being. I am really good with my life. I am lucky! I know that my lifestyle is not for everyone. At the same time, I know the path I have chosen works for my hubster and I.

Yes, that is me in the picture. Yes, I am 52 years old.

I identify as a Bisexual Slut Wife. Hubster is a Bisexual Top Stag who just enjoys that his wife is active sexually with him, and others.

I live in Santa Cruz, California, in a lovely home next to the beach.

Hubster is super chill surfer dude that puts up with all of my crazy. He is my primary.

Yes, currently I am in an open marriage. We made the decision about 13 years ago because we had explored swinging together for 13 years. We enjoy our marriage and our individuality. It takes a lot of honest communications to make an open marriage work.

Orgy Advice: Remember, one girl must be the first who gets DP in an orgy. Be that girl 💋

Since I get asked this a lot: Yes! I am the proud mama-bear of two amazing adult kids who survived their formative years despite the knowledge that their parents were swingers. ❤️